I'm 17 and I'm still a virgin and I would like to keep it that way until I get married. Making out is the farthest that I've gone. I've never done a handjob, blowjob, or anything oral. I don't think that I'm also ready to do those kinds of stuff.
The thing is, my cousins who are wilder than me makes fun of me and looks down on me for still being a virgin at the age of 17. I just don't get it. Like, what's so funny in still being a virgin at 17. Is sex all that matters to be cool or something? I don't understand them. Why do they think like that? Why is it so funny? It just shows how much more mature I am than them. Am I wrong?
You couldn't be anymore right. no offense or anything but your cousins shouldn't pressure you like that, and make of you like that, just cause your not ready doesn't mean that your not cool. I think still being a virgin this day and age is amazing, and so many people will respect you for that in the long run, wait until your older and then married happily, then ask your cousins, now was I uncool? lol that sounds corney, never mind. but still I hope you understand where I'm coming from?
elle7664
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When: More than a year ago
I think that is really great that you are waiting until marriage. That's what I am going to do. Don't feel pressure to do anything you're not ready to do. Your cousins are wrong in looking down on you. And I totally agree with Cotton Candy Summer when she said "any decent, honorable, and respectful guy will appreciate you for sticking to your guns and waiting to have sex."
Your cousins may make fun of you, but any decent, honorable, and respectful guy will appreciate you for sticking to your guns and waiting to have sex. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. Having sex when you are in love with someone can be a beautiful thing, but if you have sex just because "it's cool" makes a girl sleezy!
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
I usually try to use humor to break the ice (no not stupid jokes or creepy sexual innuendos) I'll usually ask her a question about a class (if she is in one of my classes) or about something else. I might also comment on her clothing or smile, or something.
Once after that I'll tell her my name, and get a conversation, I'll usually tease her a little to ease any tension
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