That's a tricky question because the bad boys are usually very good at pretending to be good until they get what they want. So I've always wanted to date a good boy, but found a lot of wolves in sheep's clothing along the way. The quantity is honestly unknown to me, but I found a great one and he's my world. But bad boys create a challenge to transform them into a good boy. Good boys treat women as they deserve to be treated. Don't miss anything about the bad boys. Sorry didn't answer your questions in order.
Wow, what a great question! It took me DOZENS of bad guys to get to my good guy.
In the past, I was only attracted to the bad guys but at a certain point I realized, I was tired of being walked on and needed to start having some respect for myself. It was time for me to start picking the right kind of guys and not going for the bad ones anymore.
I didn't learn this lesson until I was out of college and now life couldn't be happier. What do I like about my nice guy? He is always there for me, he is my rock and supports me through hard times. He loves me and is completely genuine. Makes me wonder I wasted so much time on the bad ones.
One thing I can say is, sometimes it takes a lot of bad guys for girls to really realize what it is they want. And I mean A LOT! :-)
Thanks for such an honest answer! :) I wish some people would read your answer and learn a lesson but, this is one of those things that I believe people have to learn on their own. I have been such a great guy to some bad girls. They call me "weak" and "gay" but what they don't realize is that I control myself and that takes a lot more strength than being the bad guy. I have tremendous will power and only a fool would view that as weak. - 5 months ago
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Trust me, reading it only results in so much. It is so much learning by doing in these cases. You can never really know what you are doing wrong until you are ready to accept it and realize that you need to do something right. Being a great guy is a great way to be. You just have to find the right girls that fits into your life, and then it is SO worth it. - 5 months ago
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I know unfortunately all girls seem great in the beginning then some realize they don't want you to be nice. That usually happens in the 3-6 month range. Unfortunately by that time I have all ready started to like them this leaves me in the position of "Maybe they really do want a good guy" which is always WRONG! Lol They can only figure it out for themselves. - 5 months ago
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Yep, typically we all grow out of it, so don't worry your time will come. - 5 months ago
I like to think of it this way: For a guy who's a jerk, his peak is between 18-22. That's generally when girls will want a guy like him. Then after that, it's all downhill. If you're a genuine, quality guy, your stock just gets better and better as time goes on and women begin to learn that those jerks aren't worth their time. - 5 months ago
I agree with this thread!! Which is why I just gave up with the whole nice guy thing. I'll go back to being "nice" when someone can appreciate it. ;) - A month ago
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