Ask a Question Answer a question Read/Write Articles Rate Members Watch Videos
Read Articles
Sign Up










exoticbaby

Is my friend trying to steal my guy?

Average Rating: Not yet rated!
Your Rating: 
MiserableBoringEnjoyableInterestingFascinating
 
exoticbaby (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
Views: 33     Category: Behavior
So she hooked us up, she was the first who met him at her bf's house, because he's his cousin. She invited me to go his house one day, so he seemed interested, asked my number, we made out that night. He called me couple days later and so again me, him and my friend hanged out in his house one day. We were playing this game, so that whoever me or my friend wins, he will have to kiss. My friend won and then she was like "is it ok if I kiss ur man? '' I was like I don't care, since we weren't going out yet. But after he kissed me. So another time we were hanging out alone and then one day my friend texts me on msn and tells me she has something to tell me about the guy (let's call him david) then

I ask her what's up and she says,- "i don't want you to like him, because he's a jerk. " I ask her why? And she says she will tell me next time we meet, because she wants to see my face expressions when she'll tell me. I was so curious so I still made her to tell me what's the deal. She told me that when she, her bf, david, and some other friend of her ended up hanging out one day and that david tried to have sex with both of them by nasty stuff he did, and that b4 I met him, she was over his house alone and they kissed, but she didn't like it and so on and so basically that time she cheated on her boyfriend who is also david's cousin.

I of course believed her and ignored his calls for a while. Then he called me on christmas but I missed it and called him back couple days after, he sounded bit mad but then we hanged out again and he told me he likes me and he knows I like him too. The next time I hanged out with my friend and she told me now that there's something else she wants to tell me, that one night she went to another state and she got drunk, so she called david and asked him to come over, then when he crossed the state, she was so drunk and didn't give him the address. I felt kind of upset. But since it was long before I thought it's ok since we're not going out. Then we hanged out again and he complained of why I tell all the stuff to my friend, he likes privacy. Anyways I was bit shocked because I didn't know what he was talking about. Anyways here came valentines day, he called me and I missed the call again.

I called him another day, but he told me he was sick, so we didn't hang out.
Then I lost my virginity to him, even we're not girlfriend and boyfriend yet. I decided not to tell that to my friend, but she found out when she found birth control in my purse and I had to tell her that. Then couple weeks after, she texted me "can you text david and ask him if he can get weed for my friend? " he quited smoking since we met and she knew it too. I don't understand, why she always tries to give me those signs that he's trying to get with her, but only she is ignoring him. What do you think?

3000 characters left  Anonymous Spell Check Spell Check
 Report Question  Email Friend Widgets Note This
Answers
  Hide Comments From Guys  
0
From Girls  
1
 

What Guys Said

There are no answers from guys yet. Answers are getting posted all the time so check back soon...or submit your own answer above!
 

What Girls Said

nique23
1666  
nique23 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
I think your friend likes your boyfriend plain and simple. There are no real indications that she's looking out for your best interest seems more like she may have a bruised ego because she's not getting what she wants and that's attention. Ugh y can't people just b happy for you right? She's all to consumed with your relationship. Everyday it seems like there's something new. The more she tells you the more it bothers you. And sadly she feeds off of this. So y can't people just b happy for you? I don't know , but I do know she can't b happy for you because she's not your real friend. HOWEVER this does not in anyway excuse your boyfriend how does he keep managing to get into these situations with her? Of course he wants his privacy don't we all?

Its just that his ''privacy'' seems to be for other reasons then the usual. You should keep an eye out for the both of them. But who has time for that? No one you deserve a good friend and a good boyfriend doesn't seem like you have either here. Y watch them? You may have to learn the hard way that what's good 2 you isn't always good for you. You may have to let them BOTH go. GOOD LUCK
Do you agree?
Agree   0 Disagree   0
Report
 
Question Asker Well I had to lie her when she asked me for his number, because she wanted to get weed for her friend and I told her he's in the hospital now. Blah it's not because that I fear or don't trust him, it's just that I don't want some other bullshit or drama to pop out, because she might make up some story again. - 4 months ago
 
Related Questions
Search
A Girl Asked My friend likes my boyfriend what do I do
Ok so my friend likes my boyfriend of 3 years and he knows that she likes him and he definitely doesn't like her. She tries to flirt with him and he...   View Answers
A Girl Asked My boyfriend's friend is blaming me for him neglecting him and I haven't tried to make him neglect him?
its true he is spending a less time wit him but I haven't told my boyfriend to. its my boyfriend's doing 100%. my boyfriend me ignore my friend and he...   View Answers
Find more questions on
friend likes my boyfriend
Home > Behavior Questions > Is my friend trying to steal...
 
Not a member yet? Sign Up for free in 1 easy step!
  
My Icon
0
Questions View
Answers View
Stories/Articles View
Messages View
Shout Outs View
Reality Check Create
Notebook View
Advice on Video
Behavior Videos
Click on video to play

Advice: How Can I Look More Confident?
Does it ever annoy you that you're single?
random-ren asked 18 days ago

Yes, most of the time! I really wish I had a boyfriend/girlfriend!

A little, because I feel left out.

Not really...

Nope! I have too much fun being single!

What's there to be annoyed about?

Invite a Friend
Invite Friend
Browse Categories: Flirting  |   Dating  |   Relationships  |   Sexuality  |   Break-Up  |   Behavior  |   Style  |   Other                                         Home Top
  Site Links     About GirlsAskGuys     GirlsAskGuys Widgets     Help Us Improve!   RSS Feeds
Home
Videos
Partners
Search Questions
Terms of Use, Privacy
Help
About Us
Contact Us, Send Feedback
Sitemap
Advertise With Us
Links
Post your questions on your blog, website, or any social networking page. You can embed into MySpace, Facebook and more. Click here for more info.
Have a suggestion? See a problem on the site? Click here to give feedback and suggestions on the new GirlsAskGuys, and help us give you a better experience. Visit our blog here
 Subscribe
Add to My AOL
Add to Google Reader or Homepage
©2008 girlsaskguys.com™. All Rights Reserved.