Why do guys and girls judge me when they first meet me? It seems like every time I get around new people they seem to always label me and just become down right rude to me! Girls always seem to never want to be around me, is it because I do pageants or is it the way I look? Guys seem to think I'm easy, I just don't get it! I'm very nice and sincere, not cocky or any of that. I just don't get it.
Stereotyping is a natural thing, even if it can be cruel and incorrect at times. It's just the way the human brain works, we categorize things to more simply interact with them and place them in "spots" of priority.
Just remind yourself that these people don't really know who you are, and feel bad for them that they are so insecure they don't want to take the time to figure it out. Don't let their bad attitudes change who you are! Being nice and sincere is something worth hanging on to.
From my experience girls get jealous. And guys get nervous. Some guys won't talk to you because they are afraid.
Other guys will talk to you and they will be mean to you because they probably think most other guys are tripping over their own two feet to please you. They think this different mean behavior will entice you.
Some guys who have gotten over the fact that you are blessed with such good looks will look deeper into who you really are.
In todays world everything is pretty much made to look attractive to the eye that way people over look what is truly there. Look at all those late night infomercials! They sell a lot of garbage but make it look like it's the greatest thing on the planet.
Girls that are beautiful are great to look at, but are they really nice? There are a lot of girls out there who think they are gods gift to the world. And it may be true that a lot of guys are attracted to them. But after hanging out with that girl is she really that beautiful on the inside? If not then all that beauty on the outside can actually become quite ugly.
I believe many people have run into someone like this in their life. People are afraid to be hurt again. Some people probably assume that you are snobby or only think about yourself when the truth might be that you are only shy. People don't expect good looking people to be shy so it is immediately thought that they are snobby.
Be strong and prove those people wrong. If you notice someone judging you or being rude to you just be yourself. If you are nice and they are still mean to you. Well that is their mental problem. Keep on smiling! :)
Well you need to realize that everyone has prejudices when they see people. People can think someone is stuck up, when the person is just really shy. Maybe people just think that because you're beautiful that you're stuck up. I do find that girls that are gorgeous haev a higher chance of being stuck up. Doesn't mean they are, but they have a higher chance of being it. But I don't judge people until I get to know them. But maybe start smiling all the time (easier said then done). But if you see someone who is smiling, you don't usually think of them being stuck up. But just an idea :o)
If you do pageants, then you're possibly the type of girl that other girls want to be, and the one that guys want to get with. If you're being sincere about your personality description then that makes it worse for the girls because now you're good looking and nice. A horrible combination if you're competing with them in the same pool. They don't stand a chance and know it, or feel they know it anyway.
B/c they are jealous. Pretty girls get hated on by average/ugly girls that's the way it is. Don't let it bother you too much.
Guys WISH you were easy. It doesn't mean you are. They are just projecting their horny fantasies onto you in hopes that you would live up to them. Ignore them too
Well, I think girls get jealous and guys want to be the hottest thing out there by supposedly "lay hot girls". But then again. People judge other people any day. I think chicks don't want to be around you because they wouldn't want you to steal all the attention and such. Guys wanna be around you because all the guys want you. You knw what I mean? I mean I get judged all the time too and I judge others. Its a natural thing. But people learn to accept it. Because you can't change people.
But trust me. I'd hang out with you any day lol. Just be yourself and be straight up. If people are hating. They are just jealous.
We are all judgmental - it's in our nature and you can't change the way people think! Girls think you're stuck-up cause well that answer should be easy for you most of them want to be you! Guys think you're stuck-up cause you do pageants and your beautiful and maybe dumb - (not calling you dumb) I'm not saying all guys think like that but some do! They think oh she does pageants cause really a lot of people think that if any girl does pageants than she is dumb! So sorry - at some point I know how you feel cause I am almost the same way as you except I don't do pageants or win beauty contests or whatever you call them - I'm just different somehow and a lot of girls want to hate me for it and some guys want to date me cause they think I'm easy! What can you do? This is just the way we are!
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