This guy I know from school is asking to hang out all the time, and I say sure why not, but when it comes to actually hanging out, he says he's always busy. I don't know if he really is or if he's just being a jerk, but why would he ask to hang out if he never intends to? He calls when he says he will to hang, and said he isn't blowing me off, but I don't know. He did hang out and see a concert and blow off his friends who wanted to play poker. Does that mean anything? He seems like he does wanna hang but the timing is off for both of us, and when I talked about hanging with another guy he said I was out of that guy's league even though he never met him. And he said he's always liking someone at the wrong time. Does he mean me or someone else? Uhh I hate over-analyzing!
Definitely make yourself less available to him. As rebell1975 says, if he chases then he's interested. If your always having problems with him following through on plans, set a night that you both hang out. Like a Tuesday night or something, so he's less likely to make plans with his other friends. This way you have a day that you will always hang out.
He might ask you just to hear you say yes, to boost his ego, who knows. But then he did blow off poker night for you. If I were you I would become less available to him, be busy even when your not, play hard to get a little and see if he chases, then you'll know I think if he likes you and you will see if he really wants to hang out with you. I would also date other guys, why not, you have no commitment to this guy, don't let opportunities pass you by, thinking about this one, let him figure himself out, and he doesn't need to know about the other dates either, your not lying, but if he asks then I would tell him, why not, your a wanted woman and if he wants you he better make a move! Good Luck!
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 7 months ago
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