If there was a guy she liked, however but for some reason she didn't want to be in a relationship with him and she told him that she didn't want to date him, not because she didn't like him or didn't want to but because a this point in her life she doesn't want to date, would she then get jealous If he saw him talking to another girl. And If she did see that, would she show her anger toward him?
I would really appreciate an answer. Thanks in Advance.
My answer to that would be "No". Maybe it is just me, but if someone says they don't want to "date", it usually means they just don't want to date "You". I know even many girls stress over this question, including myself. Then I look back on things from my past and it hits me. The only time I have EVER said that to a guy was when I really didn't like him and thought he wasn't my type. If I like someone I would never say "Well, at this point in my life dating just isn't right for me". That would surely ruin my chances of being with him.
So with that being said, This girl shouldn't be jealous OR angry in any way. Unless she's got a mental issue. Maybe I'm wrong about the "not liking this guy" part but, I know from saying the same thing and trying to be with a man that pulled that excuse on me.
Okay this girl liked and use to date this guy, who I never gave a thought to, and her sister came up to me and told me that this guy was her "sister's man" they get jealous.
I even get jealous about guy who I don't even like, is removing there attention from me. It is very lame, and I hate it but sometime you can't control that part of you. You know how people have so many strong when they have friends that back them up. Its the same for girls when they have guys who like them. It is very catty, but girls are girls, and are always comparing themselves to others.
I personally believe that it would be that girls loss! I know that if I was dumb enough to pass up a relationship with someone that I liked and then had harsh feelings because he was talking to another girl then that would be too dam bad for me! So I saw go ahead and do what you feel is right, and if she gets upset or asks questions, just be polite about it and explain how you were interested and it wasn't the right time for her so that is kind of too bad. And that even if you were in a relationship you should still be able to have other female friends and talk to them. Hope this helps :)
You'll hate me for this answer, but it depends on the girl and what her motivations really are.
From what it sounds like, the girl does like you, but for some reason has been put off dating. Maybe had some bad runs with guys lately and just needs a break. Anyway, in that case, yes she'll probably feel jealous if she sees you with someone else.
But by the same token, you've given her her chance, and she turned you down. Her choice, and she's got to deal with that. She's got no right to hit you with any kind of perceived indignity or anger for moving on. It's not like she's in prison and you've promised to wait for her.
Maybe a little cold, but that's reality. You can't have your cake and eat it too.
You're right. This girl does have some past issues she's dealing with(she's coming off a long abusive relationship, mentally and physically) and she has trouble trusting guys now. Anyway, do you think If she were angry that she would let me know(directly or indirectly) or she would just brush it off as If it were nothing? - 4 months ago
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Depends on her personality. If it were me I'd brush it off, but some girls would project that anger and frustration back onto you. If she's fresh out of an abusive relationship, she's going to have big trust issues. So she wants to trust you, but is too scared. If you do want a relationship with her, you're going to have to work to earn her trust. Which would mean focusing on her as your only romantic interest. If you're striving for that, let her know. Ask how you can help her through things. - 4 months ago
Probably. It's as simple as the fact that she likes him, and he's going to talk to someone else. Human nature says that yes she's gonna get jealous. Whether she shows him that through anger or sadness or neglect or any other means of conveyance is her choice, but I guarantee you she'll show it somehow.
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