There is this guy that I recently started getting serious about well about and lately there is this girl that has gotten really friendly and flirty with him. She tells him that she likes me as a friend as well but she never goes out of her way to show, she just tries to get him along and talk to him all the time. Would you be watching this girl? Or should I try to be a friend to her as well and see if she really meant it when she said she wanted to be friends with both of us?
Sounds like you tripped a very big attraction switch for women: pre-selection. Now that other women (you) find this guy attractive she wants in on the action to see what the deal is all about.
It may be nothing and he could blow her off, or she could push hard to get him just because she really wants him for herself. At the very least you need to be wary of her behavior towards him AND be more overt with him if you want his attention to stay on you.
Try to be friends with her sure, but don't lower you guard, especially if you're serious about this guy. Make sure he knows you're interest and that you would like to be friends with her, but that she's making it hard since it's always just the two of them. Gauge his reaction to that and you might find out how he feels about her, and if there's anything going on between them.
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