Five years ago I told a guy no when he asked me out. Yet he still hasn't got over it and still bothers me. He's kind of crazy, by some of the things he does, so I kind of want to do it gently, but he's really getting on my nerves. How do I put him down without him going crazy on me and hurting himself or me?
If you want him to stop completely, you have tell him the truth no matter how hard or mean it'll seem. If you let him down gently, he'll come back again.