would anything at all make an effect on a girl that broke up with you months ago and would talk and do anything with anyone but you?
should you give her credit for staying faithful all that time with you, would telling her on phone that you're thankful, make any difference?
Update: for those whom are wondering why I'm using those words, when you love someone nothing in the world is going to change your feelings towards them even if they cheated or killed your friends, the worse they become the more hurt you are, not the less loving
7 months ago
Update: for people who voted A, what am I supposed to do or say to be her friend? Is that a strategy on trying getting her back? should I try? how?
7 months ago
OK. First of all, if she's "slutty" and will talk to and do anything around anyone but you she's probably just making you feel jealous. If she's a slut more than likely she wasn't faithful to you. It may seem that she did but that may not be true. To be honest I would move on...
You don't know who I am and you don't know her either, and that sort of name is the shortest most meaningful one I could find to put up in a question to make long story short for all of you.
You are letting your passed cripple your future. You need to forget about her and move on. Sorry for putting it so bluntly but it looks like she already has forgotten and moved on. She isn't helping you with your future, she is in fact slowing you down, and you are allowing her to.. So why even waste time, energy and emotions? You see, she's got you wrapped around her finger. The fact that she will have that effect on you for the rest of the relationship, isn't healthy anyways.
There is story behind those flames firing up in me all over again, she tried to talk to me this xmas and she really wanted to talk to me a lot, we didn't sleep at all and we secretly discovered that we like each other more than we thought, but after that night she would never talk to me again.
Maybe she has become like that because I used to destroy her self confidence when we were fighting? (she did the same) :( she wanted to take revenge on me?
Okay... WHAT?! Are you out of your mind? You just insulted and complimented someone at the same time!
You have resentment and love for this girl. I'll tell you straight up, you don't love her. You miss her, maybe you even got some action (you're possibly pussy-whipped) ... but you don't love her. Or maybe you do and you don't like the fact that she's with other guys... but she's not with you. That's the main point.
Buddy, you're stuck in the past. Come into the present and understand its time to move on. =/
I moved on ages ago, she came back into my life last xmas, read the comment on (no_need_for_name's) answer, she is f*cking with my mind, she told me everything I never wanted to hear then cut all the contact.
Yeah because it's so cheerful hearing about your angel girl you were going to propose to that she is getting getting wasted every friday night and has 4-6 guys sleeping with her whenever she feels to, and she talks to you after all that to tell you she is on pill, and I'm the one with issues
Answerer
7 months ago
Your response just proved my point -- you're bitter.
Clearly things aren't going to work out with this slutty angel of a girl....just take some time off from girls for a bit
Question Asker
7 months ago
What does her being like that have to do with me taking time off from girls? do you want to say that I'm the problem and not her? she is right?
Answerer
7 months ago
Well...she's not wrong. She didn't cheat on you. You said so yourself, she cheated AFTER she broke up with you. Whether or not she slept with guys on the first date or not doesn't matter. You can't seem to get over that fact
Question Asker
7 months ago
But still, girls that break up with someone they love to have sex with others are still called sluts, no one will want anything to do with these, losing respect is the price they pay. Those guys she is seeing now she used to go out with them when we were still together and spend nights at vip lanes in nightclubs touching and kissing them and telling me that she is at a party, she developed everything with others first then broke up with me.
She was faithful (as far as I know) but straight after the break up she had sex with guys on the first date, she actually broke up with me so she can play with those guys. I hope that clears things up for you a little.
What are you trying to do? If you want to get her back, I urge you to get over any residual anger over her promiscuity. She comes as a package, and you know what she is. Take her, or leave her.
I never tried to change her, she used to be the controlling one in the relationship and all her wishes were orders, although I was the less socially and financially powerful than she is. She knows I'm the only man that let her have as much fun as she wanted, but yet won't let me talk to her.
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7 months ago
My ex dumped me a few months ago after 2 1/2 years for no reason. She became a little attention whore. I still love her, I mean we were together for a long time. But I am trying to move on. Took a lot for me not to wish her a Merry Christmas or Happy New Year. I was a very very good boyfriend, and in time she will see that. Good guys are very hard to find, so she'll have a hard time replacing me. She ignores me and avoids me too, yet I did nothing wrong. She just wanted to explore other options and made herself look bad in the process. Just move on bro, if she's as easy as you make her sound, she isn't worth it anyway.
It hurts like hell knowing how easy she's become, I used to make her feel like a princess, she just can't seem to have enough of anything, I don't know where the hell am I going to find a girl with her features, she is so young and yet had made a brilliant future. When we were together we weren't identical but we still liked each other, now we're identical and she doesn't want anything to do with me, her drinking habits and the guys she is seeing and her arrogance are the barriers...
But do you still love her if you do you need to step up and be a man that all you can do
Question Asker
7 months ago
Keysha, step up and do what? call her up and tell her I still love her? would it make any difference to her?
Answerer
7 months ago
Buddy, my ex dumped me because she thinks she deserves someone "hotter" and turned into this party animal, attention whore, and who knows what else. She never had attention from guys before me, and because of me- now she does. So god only knows what she's done with it. I know how easy it was for me early on, so I can only imagine how easy it was for someone else after me. I tried getting back together, I tried everything.. nothing worked. We were best friends and planned a future together too..
Question Asker
7 months ago
That's harsh man, I guess it's better to just be like them, start breaking hearts and never be slaves to any kind of women anymore... I think the ones that deserve the unending love and the faithfulness are our children and parents, wives and girlfriends only think of themselves and what's better for them and what's not.
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