Why does she want to take a break not once but twice?

I think you should just tell her that you don't want to play games over and over again. Tell her that if she thinks its over then its over. But, if she wants it over one day and then on again tomorrow. That's too much hassle for not only you but for your girlfriend as well.

It could be that she's going through something. Ask her if she's having trouble with something or someone. If she doesn't want to share it with you then why should you have to nagg her about it every minute of your life? Just let it be and tell her this time its your decision to wether to take a break for good or be together forever because obvioslu she's not giving you too many options here.

In whole, I think she's playing games with you and probably is on with someone else. And no its not your fault beccause she's the one doing the "break-up" not you. So just be straight forward with her and see what you get.

Goodluck.

I wouldn't blame yourself. There is something that is going on that you don't know about obviously. She is probably having a hard time talking about it with anyone. Yes she is playing games but give her a chance to open up to you, she is probably trying to figure out how to tell you something OR trying to figure it out on her own. I had a similar situation with a guy that I was dating( and still am 1 year 6 months now) and we were dating and everything was going great and then he told me he needed a break from our relationship I asked why and he said that He didn't know if he actually liked me or whether he just said yes to me cause he was excited someone had asked him out. So we had a break and then within a week he had said he wanted to be back with me normally. 2 weeks later he said he wanted a break again and I said WHAT THE HELL is going on? So we had another break. Then he said he wanted to be normal going out again. He finally told me what was going on. Turns out he was making an excuse cause he was having a hard time telling me he was having difficulty in life cause his closest family member to him( his grandma) bubbi had just died and he didn't know how to deal with a girlfriend, his friends, school, his mom, and the death of his beloved grandmother. I understood. To this day he is STILL the guy that I have been dating since he has told me that. 1 year 6 months ago. So give ur girlfriend time.

nooo it is not your fault and is very rude that she is playing like this with you to me looks like she doesn't like to cheat or feels sorry for it and or she has another guy meaning she's taking the break to do him then come back or is talking to him and takes the break and wants him then you and cant decide