Guys taking no for an answer?

Here is why, ok guys don't think like that, we think this oh she says she doesn't like me, so what we do sometimes is try harder to get you, all you have to say is hey dude I don't like you like that but if you want to we can still be friends. Once again though guys think well she wants to be a friend so ill just try harder to get her, just keep saying that you only want to be friends with them and eventually they will get it and move on. Don't hang out with them as much when they ask you out on a date don't go make something up like your busy and when they call don't answer don't call them back, they will eventually get it and stop calling you.

Its that whole wanting something you can't have. I g through it ALL the time. Its a pain in the ass and makes me want to punch them and tell them too F off. All you can do really is hold your ground. Sometimes letting them down gently doesn't work. You have to actually be mean about it and say "Look I don't like you I don't want you, you can either accept it or stay out of my life for good. "