I know my ex for now 5 years, at first we wore just friends, but he had interests in me... form my side it was just friends, 2 years after that we dated for 3 months, but never had sex, we broke up and he dated two other girls, 5 month after our break up, we began sleeping with each other, we have a very huge attraction toward each other, and I know we should stop doing it... but I don't understand why he still wants to sleep with me, he has a girlfriend, but he don't want to sleep with her, us sleeping together we don't plan for it, it just happen and we just feel it's right, now we are both confused and don't know what's the right thing to do... I mean is this normal.... he say that he still thinks about me, and he is very concerned with my life, I wish I could believe him, he gets really mad when I say that I don't believe he still thinks about me... need some help... guys and girls opinions...
Update: I should also mention, that we wore both virgins.. at that time... so why he choose me as his first.. even if we had broke up... does guy think like girls.. when it come to first time ???
3 months ago
Simple, if he still cares about you and is sleeping with you and not his girlfriend, ask him to break it off and be with you. If he is telling the truth about all of this, with all of his girlfriend problems, it should be a no brainer and I don't know why he hasn't already done it. Otherwise he is just using you, even if he thinks he has feelings for you.
U're right, it should be simple... but I don't want to ask him to do it... I wish he takes the decision on his own, we are spending more time togeter than with his girlfriend, plus he said he don't really care about her... concerning us being back together..... I want him to ask me... not me to him.... since he's the one in a relation.... but can a guy really still care about his ex more than his actually girlfriend even if they aren't together..... ???? - 3 months ago
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Yes...it is possible. You do realize that you will have to take the plunge because, to him it's like, what if you say no? Then he loses you and his girlfriend. Since you are single, you have "less" in a way to lose than he does. Although your feelings are just as important. - 3 months ago
Question Asker
You're right. I should. Since you're a guy maybe you can help me. How can I tell him. I mean how should I put it. I don't him to be scared or like to feel pressured. - 3 months ago
Answerer
You don't want him to feel pressured? He's toying with your heart and emotions, inadvertently or not. You can come across cordial and nice, but you can't really say "hey do you want to be with me or not? Get back to me in a few weeks. " You want to get an answer within a few days to a week at most, and be firm about that. As far as asking him goes. I'll send you a message about that. - 3 months ago
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Well I can't send you a message seeing as this is anonymous, haha. - 3 months ago
Question Asker
Haha. Well you can send a message , bvy answering back lol. - 3 months ago
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