WTF? Do you guys know of anything else I could do?

I assume your in highschool,
just grow up and leave it alone, threatening ppl is just stupid...grow up and be the bigger person...and one day you'll be friends again..

I wouldn't recommend beating the shit out of him. That doesn't make you any better than him. It really bugs me when guys try to use violence to prove how strong they are or how much of a badass they are. Just ignore him, and if you feel the need, tell your ex that he is spreading lies so she doesn't believe anything he has said if it gets to her. Other than that, don't even give him attention, because that's what he wants. If you really want to piss him off, kill him with kindness. It always works--they get so fed up of you not yelling back that they'll eventually stop.

This guy sounds like a genuine ASSHOLE. funny how easily the long-term bond is broken.. finally the true colors come out. I don't suggest beating the shit out of him, no matter how much he deserves it. I know this sounds cliche, but it won't solve anything.. it'll only escalate further and it's a waste of your time.

As for him threatening to tell your girlfriend a bunch of lies, he's just extremely immature and ultimately, just LAME. You can give her fair warning that he's being a dick and spreading lies but other then that, don't even worry about what shit he'll talk.

I say you just forget this loser, sorry it took you so long to realize what kind of guy he truly is.. I can't say how many times that's happened. the feeling of betrayal sucks, but revenge can be sweet. if you don't feel like seeing his face anymore, and you feel like if you're around him it could get violent, tell the administrators about his location, kick him kicked out.. just be sure that's what you want, because once it's done, it's done.

This guy sounds like he has a really good sense of humor. Let him tell your ex anything he wants. If she is smart she will recognize bullshit when she hears it. Also whose word means more to her: yours or his? If she has some intelligence she will ignore him.

Don't spread shit about him; that's immature and only girls spread rumors anyway. From the comments he is making, it sounds like he is playing with you and being a real smartass. Just don't take him seriously. Or you could try to come up with more smartass or racist remarks yourself. I really don't think he is serious about a single thing you said; it's just so funny and he deliberately makes racist comments too. The hate crime shit is so ridiculous and he knows it.

Say something like, "don't make me go Rodney King on your ass!" He has to be playing games so play him at his own game.

This whole thing sounds very juvenile to me. the best way to get revenge is to just let him talk. if he says something to your ex, then explain to her that you did not say those things. if she's not willing to listen, then that shows how much she trusts your word. just walk away and let him be. he'll only make an ass out of himself in the end. besides, if you really are between 18 to 24, then you could be criminally charged for assault. is this guy really worth having a criminal record over? is he worth losing your temper and getting all buck wild? probably not. look, i've been in a similar situation. I tried to get revenge, and it just made things worst. and when people believed the lies my ex-best friend told, I left them alone because they obviously did not know me nor care about me. do you see what i'm saying? MLK said, "an eye for an eye leaves everyone blind."

I'd strongly advise against beating the sh*t out of him. It may feel good but it'll come back to haunt you, assault and battery charges mean jail time and a record that follows you for the rest of your life. Its not worth it for someone like that.

If he starts rumors with your ex and you know its untrue then just give your ex a heads up on the situation and you should be fine. If the rumors really get all that bad you can always sue him for slander but I doubt it would come to that.

It may not seem the manly thing to do and as I guy that has a temper I can identify, but being able to control your anger is and use your head instead is a sign of maturity which pretty much equates to being a man.

Spreading rumors, telling lies, ratting people out. You guys fight like girls.
If you two just beat the shit out of each other in a clean fight, you will both feel much better. Maybe a boxing match. Unless one of you two is afraid of getting hurt, then it won't work at all.

And to the girls, it may seem stupid to you, but fighting relieves a lot of tension and animosity. If you ask me, talking about people behind their backs, spreading rumors, and all that stuff that I've seen girls do is pretty stupid and does nothing.