I know everyone asks what do guys do when they like a girl, but I wanna know what guys do when they aren't into a girl, like say your friends and you know she is kinda into you, what are things you do to kinda put her off without hurting her
I would act more comfortable like I would with my friends. Usually the Girls as friends I would hang out with, I would always act the same around them. I'd usually go "Whatsup! " or "Dang (Name)! ". I don't keep eye contact or convos for long either.
Really depends how the guy feels about her(might sounds stupid, but I mean in friendship way). If the guy took the girl as a good friend and he knows she's a nice person then the guy probably would be more polite and maybe tell her "we are just friends" and keep the friendship going.
If the guy hate the girl or dislike her(personal issues) then he probably be annoyed and ignore her or maybe avoid seeing her.
I ignore them as much as possible. I am rude to them when I catch them smiling my way. One time there was this girl who was obsessed with getting to know me but I quickly turned her off when I grabbed the nearest male and slipped my tongue into his mouth. The guy punched me and walked off. I then turned to the obsessed woman and said, "See I would rather make out with any guy that comes along rather than go out on a date with you. " I'm not gay but I was quickly running out of options to get rid of the obsessed woman so I improvised. Later on in my life I kept getting obsessive woman who wanted to be with me and only me. It was fun flirting with them but it never went anywhere so when ever I wanted to get rid of them, I would grab the nearest guy and give them a nice long French kiss. And then get the crap beaten out of me. I think after awhile I actually enjoyed kissing a guy but I haven't had sex with a guy yet nor had a relationship with one. Kissing a guy and then getting the crap beaten out of me afterwards has always been worth it rather than being with a woman I just could not stand to be around.
The only way to get rid of a girl is to hurt her feelings. The worse you hurt her emotionally the less likely she'll want to continue to be with you. - 5 months ago
This might be that strangest answer I've ever seen. Who thinks they have to kiss guys to scare off women? There's like no way this actually happened. - 5 months ago
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Gravygirl you haven't met the kind of women who were so obsessed with me that they were willing to track me down and rob some of my clothes from my house just because they wanted to smell my scent every day. I don't know how I find these crazy women but some how I always do. Currently I have 2 restraining orders for 2 other women who did even crazier things than enter my home without my permission. - 5 months ago
I've had that type of stuff happen - with some nasty women at that! Yuck, yuck, yuck! So, I just don't even want to talk to women that I think are disgusting anymore! The only problem with that is that they get really mad if I don't talk to them! So, I try to pretend to be nice but bring up the other person's name that I like a lot or pretend I'm dating (which I'm not right now). Sorry, I'm rambling. - 5 months ago
But if these women are acting so obsessed with you surely you must have been giving them some sort of come on signs that you have liked them? One women maybe, but you wouldn't get that many obsessive women without leading them on just a little bit!?!?! - 5 months ago
Actually, I had a guy who was obsessed with me too. He would stalk me, follow me home, call etc. , I told the guy that I was a lesbian and that I am not interested in men so I kissed my best friend in front him. (but I consulted her first about it) But I never in my life would think a straight guy could possible to this to another guy to get rid of a girl. That is fascinating! AND you must be a HOT LOOKING GUY having these girls stalking you! It's not easy though. - 5 months ago
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Do all of you really think that ONLY common folk are online all the time? Have any of you ever thought that maybe a celebrity could be answering your questions anonymously? Oh and LoveDoctor, yes I am according to People magazine. If you haven't heard of my story before then I must have done a very good job of covering it up. - 5 months ago
You have to hurt a freaking girls feelings just to get rid of her? Maybe for the extremely obsessed psychos I'll give you that, but don't say that like it's all women. You sound like you have gay tendencies anyway how is that not gay to French kiss a guy one more than 1 occasion? - 5 months ago
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ALWAYSclassy there isn't a big difference between being gay and being straight. Stop watching so much television and letting the majority tell you what is considered correct. I have French kissed many women and felt nothing for them, why can't I do the same with a man and feel the same way. - 5 months ago
I was actually defending you there buddy! I for once am not a person who judges people. If this is the way you are than great! Everybody should respect you for it! Everybody is different, and everybody reacts differently to certain situations. Believe me, I know how it is when someone is very good-looking, it has it's pros & cons. How do I know this? From Experience, because I am a model and not for nothing but I am gorgeous! (ha ha). And I know how it is. Believe me, I know! - 5 months ago
I have a really close guy friend and lately he's been acting a little down and when I ask him what's wrong he says that he can't tell me, I feel like...
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