My freshman year in college just passed by. Within the first days of college, I met this guy and it clicked right away. I never felt feelings like that ever before and thus never had a boyfriend either. We went on a date and we told each other that we liked each other. A couple of days later he wanted to talk to me. He tells me all of his issues: he still is in love with his ex girlfriend whom he broke up with just a month before college started. He also told me that he never thought he would like someone so soon again. However, he said that he was not ready to love someone yet and decided that we should only stay friends.
He also sad that he came to college with the intention to forget about his ex by having all this fun with random girls and that he does not want to do that to me. For some reason, I could not accept that. I thought I could , but I never felt the way before and I was so sure that he was the right one for me. But having just started in college, he started to flirt with all of these girls in front of me and I became very very jealous. Than he comes at night to me and hold my hand and tells me that should not be concerned he did not do anything with these girls. This was the only time. I had to see him kissing other girls at random parties. It just hurt so much. But we still saw each other all the time during the day.
And there were so many times where we were alone and I tried to kiss him and he would tell me we can't because he suppresses all of his feeling and it is hard for him as well. Well than up until a month later nothing like that would happen but than again we would kiss each other.
and than it would go farer but whenever something like that happened he put all the blame on me. He kept saying it wasn't right since I am not his girlfriend and I am not only a slut for him. He kept sayin he would neer ever date me there is no possibility it was because of him not because of me he said.
After thansgiving he changed he wouldn't talk to me for a couple of days and when I confronted him we would make out again. And than he tells me that he fell in love with this girl. And I would be shocked. That girl made him forget about his ex they met at the right time unlike us. They met when he was ready for a new love and we met when he wasn't. This girl was from turkey and he started dating her over winter break, so after winter break being back in the states and at college I was string minded only to be friends since he had a girlfriend. This went well just for the first week. He came close to me again than. He started to cuddle and I would refuse. He would say he is in love with his girlfriend but would be too close to me. And than we came closer again. And it would even hurt more. In front of me and to me he would say he loves his girlfriends but that at night we would be close. First he wouldn't kiss me but than he did so passionate.
We would be doin this stuff until two weeks ago and I am hurt because I love him. And I don't get it back,. Why?
I dun think he know what he want. He is still young, first years in college huh.
Well you need to discover what love really is. I think you LIKE him not love him. Dun let him get to your mind like that. There is hella guys out there, open up.
And beside I think he just wanna get in your pants. that is my personal view.
Get away now! No offense but you seem like a pushover always trying to please people. Well this is what happened he realized that and took advantage of you now that's not right. Just get out its not worth it any questions.
Yeah, you do seem like a pushover. And that will only get you used.
He did the right thing by letting you know he's still in love with his ex. What that means is that he could never give his full attention to you because another girl had his heart. I'm not trying to come off insensitive but YOU chose to go on, after knowing all that.
He just wants sex by any means necessary, and you stick around and put up with anything that he does. I think you should get out there, and date around and find new guys and not focus one one, especially him. Make him an Option instead of a Priority
You know the answer to this question? He wants to flirt and hopefully have sex with lots of girls he finds attractive. Honey move on if you can't handle just being a friend that he like to play with. I have been in your shoes and it hurts like hell. Especially when you know that he is attracted to you. You wonder why he can't be satisfied with loving you and sleeping with you exclusively. We live in a world today that most men don't want the responsibility of a relationship just want to play and flirt and receive lots of attention from numerous woman! It is wrong if we allow them to do it to us. If your allowing him to touch you in anyway; lead you on by kissing you. Really we only have ourselves to blame because if I remember right in the beginning of your story you tell us that he tells you he wants to play. That he isn't over the x and that he isn't ready. That he came to college to meet many!
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How do they typically respond?
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