Okay, I've been dating my girlfriend for a while now, but this really isn't about us. Yesterday and today this guy we know, Matt, been texting her (not about he likes her or anything) and he's dating this girl we know also, Ella. Yesterday Matt texted Ashlee (my girlfriend) and said that I called Ashlee and Ella a Bi+tch. Which I haven't, and never would even think about doing. But he said it, and meant it.
He said he heard me say it. He's crazy I guess, and is talking all this crap about me and "wants to fight me" but I'm not worried about that, I'm pretty sure I can take him but this isn't the worst of it. He texted my girlfriend today (he wasn't at school) and said that he asked his girlfriend Ella to have sex with him and that I wasn't man enough to ask Ashlee. Ella said she wasn't ready when Matt asked her, and kept texting Ashlee, he asked for what he wanted to Ella. I on the other hand, I'm not not like that, I couldn't put my girlfriend in a situation like that. And I was just wondering what I should do in this situation. How should I handle this? (And Matt and Ella have been going out for about 6 months. ) Sorry that it's so long :)
I think its great to hear that you are not like Matt because you would not put Ashlee into a position that she is not comfortable with as well as she doing the same towards yourself. Laugh this situation off! It's sad that Matt feels the need to complain to Ashlee that Ella doesn't want to put out and at the same time, make Ashlee feel uncomfortable that you haven't asked her and even more so imply that in order to continue the relationship its something that is expected of her. He's causing a disturbance in your relationship because he is not happy with his. Perhaps it makes him feel better? Make sure that Ashlee knows your view point! Don't get into a physical fight with Matt because its not worth it. Perhaps try confronting him with Ashlee at your side. It might through him off guard! Best of luck!
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