So Guys hypothetically speaking lets say you stared at a girl when she walked by you. The way you look at her is with you're head slightly down, trying not to let anyone know you are, and you're expression seems almost curious with eyes that are wide. She caught you looking and then you seem dumbfounded, but you kept the gaze for at least 4 seconds. She looks away and then you also do and drop your gaze to the floor.
Would that show you like her? Are there any other reasons why you would stare? I'm in a situation with this guy who I really like. To make long story short we barely said much to each other and it's been a year. Yet he always stares or glances at me whenever he gets the chance. By the way, the last time we had small talk he had blushed, and his voice had cracked. Also, both his friends and his brother seem to stare at me too!
Help me out please! thanks!
Update: Recently In the morning he and his friends were crowded around my locker. His hand was on one of the lockers. I had become really nervous because there were just too many people! So All I just managed to say was excuse me. That very day was when [cont.
6 months ago
Update: Ignore the second update. Oops. Lol well that very day was when he had given me that stare I have seen countless times. The next day I saw him in the hall smiling and it looked like it was at me. He was looking forward and no one was really with him. Hmm?
6 months ago
Well your age group doesn't usually take much action in relationships. Everyone is so nervous that they don't know what to do so they just stupidly stare. This guy sounds like he's a more genuine and honest guy and he's not staring at you because he's a sick pervert who just wants a hook-up.
As for everyone else staring at you. That is kinda creepy. I figure you must be extremely attractive, have large breasts, curves, or you're just really really hot. If this is the case it is critical to learn how to differentiate between stares of curiosity and stares of lust. That way you can better pick and choose your relationships.
There is no surefire way to know what someone is thinking or feeling based off stares because everyone is different due to personalities and whatnot. The easiest way to tell what a guy's intentions are is usually to listen to how they speak to you. If a guy calls you "hot" it usually means he is only interested in a hook-up, but if you're called "pretty" in a innocent or sincere sounding way, that is usually a sign that the person is a good person.
He's probably nervous, and surprised you even talk to him. I suggest asking him out to a movie or doing something outside of your normal routines. It sounds like the two of you have a chance at a relationship you just have to get the courage to do so.
Also, never expect the other person to make the first move. Guys can be as shy and more shy than girls when it comes to dating. If you're able to ask him his feelings for you, or if you're able to tell him you like him, or ask him out on a date, you should do it, don't wait for him to, because he probably won't due to fear.
Hope this helped. Feel free to ask more questions.
Oh gosh I don't know if I'm hot or anything I don't want to sound conceded, but some of my friends do call me cute ,adorable and what not. Hmm I can tell between stares of lust and curiosity and he was definitely curious. Yeah I used to be shy around him and I used to think the feelings weren't mutual but he started to show signs and then I started to think otherwise. :] the thing on his friends and brother staring. Does that mean he talked to them about me? Thank you so much! [cont. ] - 6 months ago
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As for his brothers and friends I reaaaaalllly don't know or think there's any way to know for sure what's going on in their heads. The simplest explanation is that they're just looking at you because you're attractive. I wouldn't care too much what they do or say. This is about you and that curious boy you like :) - 6 months ago
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It's really been killing me that it's been a year. And due to the shyness I had I was able to do little. I boosted my shyness into comfort and now I think I'll make the first move. something had happened just two days ago In the morning he and his friends were crowded around my locker. And his hand was on one of the lockers beside me. (second time this happend the first time he wasnt there. ) the crowd of people had made me nervous but I had just said excuse me, to him then He moved his hand - 6 months ago
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I'm going to try and talk to him the next time I see him in the halls! It all happened so fast that I couldn't believe he liked me. Kinda like a too-good-to-be-true feeling. Lol thank you so much again! I appreciate the help! : D - 6 months ago
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Yay! Good luck I hope it works out! - 6 months ago
Yes. Absolutely. He executed the standard "flirt stare" perfectly. He was flirting with you, I definately know that. Which way did you look away? That is of crucial importance. To look to the side indicates disconnection and disinterest. Up indicates frustration, and down is bad if you have a book or something. Look down and not at anything, and you have successfully flirted back.
Blush is a good indicator as well, but not the brother and friend's stares.
Hmm I'd say that if he starts at you on a regular basis, and other guys too because for only ONE reason. They find you beautiful, hot, sexy, breathtaking, very attractive, very pretty, a girl with an awesome figure. All of these or any combination of two or more. The rest of the story based on what you said is that he and his brother are extremely shy people and have no clue how to talk to a girl they find as cool as you. The same for his friends. This is really weird that in all this time that's as far as they've gotten with you. How come you haven't approached him more?
Oh my! That could be it. Yeah I've heard his brother is shy than the guy I like. But the guy I like is supposed to be more outgoing but when he's around me. There he is staring. Glancing at me or fidgeting. I used to be shy and I wasn't sure if it was mutual. But I had always felt this spark or connection the first time we stared into eachother's eyes and smiled. - 6 months ago
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