I'm 18 years old and I've never had a real boyfriend, never been kissed and I have like 0 experience with guys. Is this unattractive to guys? Do you think it's weird? I'm pretty embarrassed about it, I don't want him to think I'm a loser
Its kinda sweet. I find the only thing that irritates me is the whole inability to deal with nerves and fear. An ex was inexperienced and so I took things really slowly but she eventually just annoyed me because despite having all the time in the world, she couldn't deal with her own nerves.
Just because you're inexperienced, it doesn't mean you're a bad lover, it is about the ability to adapt and change, and deal with scary situations well. It takes a while - don't feel you have to be ready from square one, but do realize that it will be un-fulfilling for your partner if you do not demonstrate courage over a longer period of time. It IS scary, but also it IS fun, once you learn to enjoy it.
Don't worry about it! I don't think any guy really cares, some even prefer it that way because it means you won't have diseases and they'll be able to "show you the ropes", it's a weird fantasy of guys to be able to get with a girl who's never done anything before because it ties into the guys wanting to be able to protect an innocent maiden.
It's cute, innocent, and overall a good thing. Just be sure you don't get taken advantage of by people just trying to corrupt innocence. Besides, if you got into a relationship you wouldn't even have to tell your partner how far you've gone, right? Just play it by ear. :)