I'm in love with my best guy friend carl. I don't know what to do, I'm so happy when I'm around him but I'm too scared to tell him in truth in case it ruins our friendship, I know ill regret it if I don't but I just can't bring myself too tell him. Then there's james, he lives in a different state, but whenever I see him which is every 4 months or so I'm just completely in love with him and he feels the same way. and then there is my ex boyfriend tom, we had so much fun together and then it just wasn't working out in the end so we broke up. a week later we got back together but he broke up with me because he thought he liked another girl, turns out he didn't. know its all weird between us but I miss him so much and I still have feelings for him. then there is aiden, he's a guy that I THOUGHT I liked and he likes me, but I just recently discovered I didn't like him. and I was just confused, and now I don't know what to do. I'm so confused. PLEASE HELP ME!!!
Stop calling infatuation love, and don't worry about it. It's normal at your age to be pulled in different directions by guys. Enjoy the ride. If you find yourself drawn more to one than the others, then focus on that and don't worry that you might be missing something else.