even my own dad I had a dream last night about a man who did something to me (member of the family my mom and dad still associate with him they don't believe what happened although they know I'm not a virgin) I was 13 and I just still hate men sooo badly now they are all the same! they never admit they are wrong even when they are they always find a way to make it as though they were right or as though it was the females fault they only suck up cause they know you will cut them off frfom sex they can't stand not being in comtrole unless it's something they don't wanna be in controle for then they say it's a "female's job" my dad's family is against gays and lezbians and I don't know about my mom's I don't wanna have men I have only had sex twice the 1st one was for weed when I was 12 but I never got the weed from the 33 year old ***** and the 2nd one was the member of the family that I mentioned earlier (hes like 38) I don't wanna hate men but they are all the same what can I do! please don't say counceelling I've been there itdidnt help I'm not immature I've been through everything you can name cutting sex rape drugs drinking I've been kicked outta school I've been on probation a I've atemped suicide and I've had an eating disorder and I just can't get over what happened with my family member it's been like this since I was 11 my dad drinking my mom drugs and just *sigh* I don't know I just don't wanna hate men or at least know how to tell ym family imma lez I can't say it's bcuz of my family member cause none of them believe it plus not to mention all ym friends who are guys always asking for bjs and stuff!
It sounds like you are really angry. At men, at your family, at the world, your life. And it is really affecting you in such a negative way. Since I know you're not going to consider child services, or counseling, I won't suggest that. But If you are serious about getting out of your current situation, you seriously have to focus on getting out of there. And I mean, leaving your family, and that area. Basically, running away. I know it is such bad advice, because you are still young. But none of your family members will help you. They are obviously just making it worst. I mean, how do you feel seeing your dad get drunk, and your mom get high? And your so-called friends? Cmon girl. YOu know they don't really care about you. LEAVE. You said all your friends are guys. Do you know any girl, or anyone (decent person) who you can live with? Regardless of their age. Be it your grandmother, or some old lady you know, or a classmate. Try to find someone you can stay with. Then start from there. You can start looking for a job. Or go to a better school. You have to un-expose yourself from your current environment, and try to start a new life. Its not easy at all. But if you are determined, then you can find a way.
sweetie, I think that you need to get yourself out of a really negative environment as it is taking a toll on you. I know that they're your family but if they can't support you and choose to support their habits instead, you need to get help elsewhere. you've been through a lot to say the least and by the looks of it you're wanting to get out of your current situation. if you can manage, try to seek counseling and as someone said here, you should get in touch with child services.
i hope things work out for you. all the best and stay strong. there will be better days ahead, just don't give up.
This is obviously a serious problem. Getting to the solution may be hard but the solution is well, obvious. If your parents, extended family, and friends are a bad influence you need to get away from them. It seems like you really want to change because you at least posted this so you seem to want a way out. (Oh, and just to tell you, not all men are complete jerks. It just sounds like your stuck in a life where many have hurt you.) I would suggest talking to someone at school about your problems. Any adult who is not associated with drugs and such would be a good idea.
And men, stop trying to change women too...Gothca! I bet everyone thought this would be another diatribe about how ladies have lost touch with what men need in a modern society.Nah.Both sexes are...
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