A series of questions for women about their behaviors

Thought I'd save most guys who look at this survey time lol. Okay, so by going through all the answers lol, as long as you're not two inches or close to it you're fine! lol

Good quiz that!

i should really make a chart of theses girls answers, to see how it winds up, like a bar graph or a piegraph, then draw a conclusion from it, it'd take days though, maybe weeks or months

Im doing a poll on weather guys like to be asked out by girls. Every single guy who answerd said yes. I did not get a single no. Not only that but guys like agirl who can show her feelings. Guys don't think a woman is clingy in the same way women might think a man is. Most guys like an affectionet woman. And guys can go from friends to girlfriends without much thought. And finaly imany girls have asked me if this guy likes me or not as if its written in stone. you can actualy get a guy to like you even if he didn't before by expressing yourself. Being flirty, and not hiding your feelings. Being genuine not fake. Please pass this on to women if they knew this it would make things so much easier.

I LOVE THIS SIGHT...everyone's got an answer...and they're always entertaining.

I'm late to the party, but I had to leave a reply to say this is one of the most interesting posts I've ever seen on this site.

ooo this looks like fun. also be aware of tying mistakes because my computer is being sooo annoying. o ya also age:16

1. Why do women bring up old issues that happened months ago?

maybe they want to use the issue to prove a point.
also maybe they want to emphasize the fact that the issue hurt/ment something -i don't want to say hurt but I can't think of a word- to them.
usually they just want to remind someone that they were wrong.
or we haven't gotten the reaction that we thought we deserved from the wrong do-er of the situation. (eg an apology, explaination, statement of regret etc etc)

2. Why do women say "I'm fine" when her boyfriend asks her what's wrong, when they both know she's not "fine"? Why doesn't she just tell us, instead of waiting?

because sometimes she wants to be pushed to tell. it might make her feel more loved or she just might be having second thoughts about telling. or sometimes she might think that the boyfriend should know. or she just wants attention / tlc. or maybe she just doesn't want to tell.

3. Why do most women always feel the need to be in a relationship?

i don't alll the time. so yeah. but women do cus they want to feel loved, wanted and beautiful. or sometimes they just want someone to show off (this sounds really mean) but someone like a prize. but I htink that's mostly mean women. also they want to feel safe and cozy.


4. Have you ever cheated on your past or present boyfriend(s)?
No

5. Do you believe "once a cheater, always a cheater"?
Yes. my best friend just got back with her boyfriend who cheated on her. I was against it to say the least.

6. Do you eventually want to get married?
yes

7. What is the first thing that attracts you to a man: Physically and Personality wise?
physically : 1. eyes personality: polite sweet and smart (yest they have to be a combination)

8. Why do women "always gossip"?
so we don't have to waste time watching tv, its like semi-live entertainment hehe lol.

9. Do you really tell your best friends everything about your relationship?
kinda, except for anything embarassing/ that might make me feel ashamed.

10. Why are women always checking their makeup or "powdering their nose"?

because when make up 'droops'/smudges/sinks you can look horrible! and then when you went it looking semi natural/ clean cut you can end up looking fake and, well, yucky! so you have to check and touch up to maintain the look you had b4 lol. also we just might wnt to get anway from someone

11. At what age do you want kids, if any at all?
definately not b4 26. but preferably 28/29/30.

12. What's one question you would never ask your boyfriend, because you don't want to know the answer?
''am I the prettiest/nicest/coolest/most fun (etc etc) girl youve ever dated?''

13. What's one question you would never ask your boyfriend, but you want to know the answer? Why wouldn't you ask?
how much he likes me. wouldn't ask cus it looks clingy or might scare him off.

1. Because obviously it bothered us then, and something didn't get fixed when it needed too..otherwise we wouldn't bring it up again. Or maybe your just dating a girl whos a bitch and likes to try and make you feel bad by bringing up past mistakes or problems.
2. Usually we don't feel like talking about it right then, chances are were in a bad mood.
3. Having someone love us makes us feel better about ourselves. And honestly being in love is the best feeling in the world.
4. Never.
5. No, people can change. But usually once trust is broken its hard to get back.
6. Yes.
7. A hot body is a huge turn on, and not to mention a pretty white smile!
8. We're girls, it's what we do ;)
9. I have one bestfriend who is my absolute biffle and I tell her a lot about my relationshp, yeah.
10. So we look good for you guys, you want your chick to look hot right?
11. Young, like right out of college. 22-24.
12. If your dating, have you ever considered cheating on me? I don't want to know.
13. ^ That..and because it would hurt to know the answer.
14. Yes. And because honestly I'm not trying to pick up some kind of disease..and I think its good to be honest with eachother.
15. Absolutely. If he has a problem with it, then obviously you have some issues to work out.
16. When guys get really obnoxiously clingy and don't ever give you space to breathe. Back off a little..give your girl some room, chances are she doesn't want to be with you 24/7.
17. Yes, and I don't know I just think it's the man's job to ask the girl out.
18. Being 100% loyal to your girlfriend. I know so many guys who really aren't...
19. Don't talk about girls you want to have sex with. We really don't care.
20. Always be honest with me.
21. Being a complete d***. Who the hell wants someone like that?
22. If she's being really stand off-ish and isn't talking to you as much. Be careful.
23. Honestly if its someone you were in love with and dated for a long period of time, then no. If it was some bullsh*t relationship then who really cares.
24. Because they don't want to be "tied down." They want to have fun.
25. Uh no? He should be happy with me.
26. Yeah, to a certain extent.
27. Because we just worry. It just means we care.

1.Because they keep a grudge and can't let it go. and cos whatever the guy did made them lose trust in them
2.I'm p*ssed off with him but I don't want to cause a row and just want him to go away. or if its something private I don't want to tlk to him about
3.Girls like the security of being with a guy and a lot think the guy will save them. the intimacy too. and sex lol
4.no
5. yes
6.no
7.Physically: nice face. Personality: charm or just flirty/friendly/wit
8.women are bitchy and insecure-bitching makes us feel better about ourselves afterwards like "Oh well at least I'm better than her", women are in constant competition with each other. women are our own worst enemies not men most of the time.
9.i normally do but I think that's silly-im going to keep a lot of things private now instead of overanalysing little things
10.to reassure themselves that they still look ok/to bitch about someone in toilets on night out/ask about a guy/if the friend is annoyed
11.never
12.whats my worst flaw
13.how many people he's slept with-cos I would get jealous nd then he'd ask me about who I slep wit..yikes
14.No see above lol-jealousy, id be comparing myself wit them but what's the point
15.no I just don't talk about it. I think its a slippery road!
16.when you've got him firmly under the thumb and you can make him do anything you want-i love it but after a while it gets predictable
17.yes-v sexy
18.be more considerate of girls feelings instead of messing her around/dumpin her suddenly etc
19.be more open to showing some vulnerability instead of being so macho 24/7
20.just be loyal and treat me wit respect
21.clingy
22.if the girl gets new clothes, if she talks about a male friend/co worker too much, she doesn't want sex, she won't let you listen to her on the ph or see her ph at all.if there are problems in the relationship she cud stray for comfort too
23.no. just lack of loyalty.why do people want leftovers anyway?
24.because they want their cake and eat it.
25.no. just really seedy
26.its more about girth
27.because they want it to develop into something more, they want the security of a relationship. that if they sleep together the guy will call. girls like having boyfs-not all but a lot of the time they find it hard to separate sex and love.

1. This is being passive-aggressive. They should have said earlier what was bothering them.

2.She doesn't want to yell or cry at that moment. She expects him to already know, and apologize for that act.

3. They need acceptance and need to feel worth.

4. I have cheated in the past as a teenager, this won't happen again as I've learned that breaking up with someone in a good way is very important. Do unto others.

5. People change and grow.

6. Yes, without a doubt.

7. Personality. I'd rather date a far less attractive man than a pretty boy any day.

8. They need advice and social acceptance.

9. No, not even close. There are things you don't go blabbing about.

10. I just want to look good, makeup can smear or wear off.

11. I have to be at least 25 to get married, and after that, it's whenever the time is right.

12. Do you think I should lose weight? (I know I should, and he would probably say no.)

13. I want to ask if he loves me, but I should just tell him I love him.

14. He's already told me that without my asking.

15. It isn't gentlemanly to ask, but I don't think I would count the two one night stands I've had.

16. Perhaps he isn't right for her? I'm not a big romantic.

17. I do, but I also don't like being judged solely on looks. I met my boyfriend online, I approached him.

18. Telling me more about your day, instead of just saying it was fine or good and changing the subject.

19. Not getting random uncontrollable erections would help them, I think.

20. Nothing, my heart is won through his personality. A guy could certainly do things that would make me give him a chance.

21. Talk about his ex girlfriend in an extremely good or bad way.

22. Her not being around when she normally would be.

23. Some of my exes, I would mind. Some, I wouldn't. It depends how and why we broke up.

24. I don't.. Some are and some aren't, same as women.

25. I don't want him going to a strip club, that actually implies his interest in other women whereas watching porn does not.

26. No, I've had a smaller guy and an average guy that were both amazing. (One of the larger ones was a jerk that only cared for his own pleasure.)

27. Curiosity? She wants eventual marriage and wants to know if he does to. I don't believe all women use the best approach for it.

All done. I wish you luck on your book, but please have proof readers. You wrote dieing instead of dying. I'm 22.

1. they usually do that in an argument to gain leverage
2. I think it makes her feel like he cares more
3. they have a need to be needed, it happens with self-conscious women alot
4. no
5. yes
6. yes
7. depends on the situation, if we're in a crowded room and someone is getting tons of laughs then his personality but if we're in a mall hanging out then usually the looks.
8. it's a learned habit
9. no
10. some women have the need to be presentable always, not all women do this
11. before 30 or early, very early 30's
12. if you could change something about me what would it be?
13.if you could change something about me what would it be? LOL.. we want to know but we don't, because then every time they look at us that's all we would think would be crossing their mind right?
14.yes, I think the number of people a person has slept with can say a lot about them
15. yes
16. I think when they're going through family and friends early in a relationship to set things up it's too much
17.yes, if you mean as far as to "pursue" you then yes, because I'm just old fashioned like that
18. communication, none of them like to honestly communicate.. we all know this
19. same as above
20. make me "genuinely" laugh
21. be a complete self-indulged jerk
22.sending calls to voice mail, whispering while talking, deleting texts
23.yeah, if you're over them than you're over them as long as they're not dating them behind your back while you are
24. they hear horror stories from their friends that are in bad relationships
25. yeah, they're going to do it anyway, as long as they're not sneaking behind your back I don't see the problem, if a man is going to cheat believe me it will happen regardless of a strip club or porn video/magazine
26. I think what matters is 1) the strength of your relationship because if you truly love the person you'll learn to work around if someone is too small or big, and besides that it's all about how they use it right? if they don't know how then tell them!
27. N/A I've never done this

1: Probably to prove a point and to be right.
2: Because they don`t wanna bug their boyfriends with their concerns, don´t wanna look like the ridiculous psychotic bitch, crying over a friend she´s missing or her parents being horrible. They don´t wanna lose their face or their sexy image of the tough, strong, sexy woman they wanna be to their boyfriends.
3: Because women want to feel protected and loved and cared for.
4: No and I wouldn´t. It would break his heart and I´d feel horrible afterwards.
5: No, people can change. If he really regrets it and/or you let him suffer for a bit.. he won´t do it again.
6: I am too young to get married, but I´ve thought of it before. With the person I truly love, I´ve already found him, so yes I would.
7: Physically: If a man`s tall and well built, or amazing eyes. I always fall for the eyes. Personality wise he gotta make me laugh and make me feel special.
8: It kind of gives them something to do and makes their life more interesting. It`s some kind of socializing as well, I guess.
9: Yes, me and my best friend are soulmates. We got a tatto together, of each others names. I`d tell her anything. Women always talk about their sex probs with each other that`s a commonly known fact.
10: Because they don`t wana look ugly in public or they wanna be especially attractive for a boy / or boys.
11: I think at 30 or something. I keep on seeing babies and I`d love to have one right now if it was up to me, but I wanna live my life and have a proper career, then settle down and have some cute little kids :)
12: I wouldn`t wanna know the answer to: What`s the most unattractive thing about me?
13: I`d probably never ask him if he´d like to try kama sutra I´d be too ashamed.
14: I would like to know actually. It would give me some kind of idea what sex with me really means to him.
15: Yes, I tell him the truth because if it`s under 20, it`s nothing to be ashamed of, really.
16: It`s too much when he starts singing to you or writes you poems. Or plays the piano for you that`d be so weird.
17: Yeah, I do. It`s just the unwritten rules of dating.
18: I don`t actually know because my boyfriend`s like a better Edward Cullen.
19: Don`t fart in public, please, it`s gross!
20: Tell me I`m perfect or beautiful.
21: Pick his nose or fart.
22: Is she nervous when she`s late? Does she call you babes/honey/etc. but never your name?
23: No. Again, thats`s in the unwritten dating rules. It`s just be weird and akward, especially when it`s a close friend and the ex you still have feelings for.
24: They don`t wanna disappoint us women hehe ^^ and I think they wanna like... "live their life which means they wanna be total menwhores until they`ve decided to fall in love with an amazing woman.
25: Yeah, looking at pornography. But not strip clubs, I`d become jealous if some whore would make him hot, I`d consider that as half-cheating. But pron I snormal, why not, as long as he doesn`t know the "actresses" haha lol
26: A bit.

1.because the issue is still p*ssing us off and he has yet to fix it.

2. because bringing it up usually causes a fight. most of the time it's someting that needs to be swept under the rug.

3. they need and desire for that feeling of being wanted and needed.

4. no but I've been cheated on.

5. sure do

6. I'm engaged actually :) so yes.

7. not gonna lie, physically. it's his physical attractiveness you see from across the bar, not his personality jumping out and waving hi.

8. gives us something to do.

9. I let her think that I do but there are some things that should be kept personal between you and your significant other.

10. gotta dress to impress. always.

11. 23ish

12. am I the best sex you ever had?

13. am I your first love? and I wouldn't ask because I don't think I could handle him being my first and me not being his first.

14.yes and no.

15. I did tell the truth. there was only one other guy.

16. some women are different. just depends on the girl

17. I believe chivalry isn't dead, so yes.

18. learn her "signs". notice when you p*ss her off and fix it.

19. don't be such a gear head all the time.

20. play guitar for me

21. be smothering. we all need space.

22. I've never cheated so that's tough for me to say.

23. I think it all depends on the situation.

24. they like to leave their options open.

25. yeah. because I like to go to strip clubs and watch porn. can't be hypocritical.

26. to a certain extent, yes.

27. to talk about something and how well their relationship may be going. most girls like to make other girls jealous.

1. I believe women bring up issues that have occured months previous because they are insecure of the relationship or did not completely resolve the issue when it had occured.
2. Girls say I'm fine because maybe they are too frustrated to talk about the situation at hand and do not wish to bring up the subject or want the satisfaction of him asking what is on her mind.
3. Women have the need to be in a relationship because they want the feeling of being loved and having someone to love them back in their lives.
4. I have never cheated on a boyfriend.
5. I do believe once a cheater always a cheater.
6. I do want to get married when I financially and emotionally ready to get married.
7. The first thing that attracts me to a man is his amazing sense of humor and also his beautiful eyes.
8. I believe women gossip because they want their friends and family kept up on their lives and feel the need to inform everyone of their world around them.
9. I do not completely go into detail about my relationship all the time because I think some things are meant to be kept between you and your significant other and also so my best friend doesn't think I am full of myself.
10. Too look good for her man or to look better than the other girls.
11. 26
12. do you love your ex more than me?
13.why won't you let me in, and I don't want to know what I did to make him not let me in.
14.yes, to know if he is experienced and has commitment issues.
15. I tell the truth.
16. when he is completely clingy.
17. yes it is the mans job to intiate to let me know he is interested.
18.the one thing the male gender should work on is the ability to let there feelings be expressed to there significant other. to open up and let women know what is going on in their minds.
19. I would not want them to change anything about themselves because no one should have to change themselves to make someone love them more. people should love them for who they are.
20. he could show me he is a family man and show me a good sense of humor.
21. talk about how he is in love with his ex girlfriend or how he is jealous of the guy who is with her.
22. if she stops calling her boyfriend, or if her friends are leaving him hints like she is.
23. I do not believe it is okay for a friend to date an ex because it shows the friend does not respect certain boundaries.
24. they are afraid of what they will have to give up in tehre lives to be with a woman and are not ready to do so.
25. I am okay with my boyfriend going to strip clubs and looking pornography because I know at the end of the night he is coming home to me and that he takes out all his pent up feelings on me.
26. I think it does when it comes to sex yes.
27. Just because they want the reassurance that the men are on the same wave length as the women are. they want to know that the men are feeling the same way they are in the relationship.

female age 30
1-the behavior or issue is reaccuring or still bothers or insecure about it.
2-because she dioesnt want to be seen as/called a whiner, or fear that he will think it's no big deal, or wanting him to ask questions to show he cares
3-the media & society have conditioned us along with nature
4-yes
5-no
6-i am married
7-shaved or short hair, no over large features, not skinny OR huge, FUNNY, good conversationalist, not into himself-eg:self effacing
8-so do men!
9-yes
10-gives them time to call someone.get feedback from friends in the batrhroom
11-whatever age I am financially and emotionally secure
12-has he ever cheated on me
13-i can ask him anything
14-no, who cares. if I did it would be because I thought if its only a few than I wouln't be having to impresshim better than all of them,
15-no, underestimate no man wants to hear that youve gotten more than him
16-when they are needy & the woman isn't. when they call all the time. leave more than 1 or 2 msgs. follow you. read your texts and mail. ect
17no, equal opportunity
18communtcation. how to listen.
19not get all alpha male aggro
20notice things I say and take intrest in them
21pushy about sex
22she goes out a lot and won't invite you, seems embarraseed of you, laughs at you like she has a secret
23nope. even when people brak up sometimes there still is emotion there.
24they think the grass is greener
25yes. they aren't going home with him. I know I give him what he needs.
26-to an extent. under 3 inches can't do nothing with, 3-6 a woman can wnjoy if she knows how her body works and its not too thin. 6-7.5 is perfect but girth matters sometimes more. over 7.5 hurts!
27-insecurity
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1. Why do women bring up old issues that happened months ago?
because we bottle things up
2. Why do women say "I'm fine" when her boyfriend asks her what's wrong, when they both know she's not "fine"? Why doesn't she just tell us, instead of waiting?
don't want to talk about it at the time
3. Why do most women always feel the need to be in a relationship?
like romance!
4. Have you ever cheated on your past or present boyfriend(s)?
Yes
5. Do you believe "once a cheater, always a cheater"?
No
6. Do you eventually want to get married?
Yes
7. What is the first thing that attracts you to a man: Physically and Personality wise
Tall, eyes and smile. Funny.
8. Why do women "always gossip"?
Its fun
9. Do you really tell your best friends everything about your relationship?
Yes
10. Why are women always checking their makeup or "powdering their nose"?
To make sure we look nice
11. At what age do you want kids, if any at all?
25
12. What's one question you would never ask your boyfriend, because you don't want to know the answer?
does my bum look big in this?!
13. What's one question you would never ask your boyfriend, but you want to know the answer? Why wouldn't you ask?
see above
14. Would you want to know how many women your boyfriend has slept with? Why?
Yes - I'm nosy
15. Do you tell the truth when your boyfriend asks you how many men you've slept with? If no, do you underestimate or over exaggerate?
underestimate
16. Women say they want romance. But when they get it, some run away. When does it become "too much" or "smothering"?
all the time is too much
17. Do you believe a man should approach you first? Why?
yes - man should chase woman!
18. Think of one thing that you think the male sex could improve when it comes to a relationship. Explain:confidence and plan
19. Think of one thing the male gender could change about themselves, in general. Explain:see above
20. What's the one thing a man could do to win your heart?
its chemistry so no one thing
21. What's the one thing a man could do to completely turn you off?
clingy and no plans
22. What are the signs a man should look for if their girlfriend is cheating?
secretive, withdrawn
23. Is it ok for you friend to ever date your ex? Why?
Fine
24. In your opinion, why do you think most men are afraid of "commitment"?
don't think they are when they meet the right girl
25. Are you "okay" with your boyfriend going to the strip clubs? Looking at pornography? Explain:very occassionally
26. Ok ladies.. Be honest: Does size really matter? The men are dying to know!
Yes
27. Why do women always insist on talking about the relationship, and "where it's going" when things are going just fine?
because we're wired that way

17. Not should. No one 'should' do any specific thing, really. But personally I'm most likely not going to approach a guy, I know it would be good if I could, but I'm ridiculously shy, and come off as a complete freak when I'm nervous, so it wouldn't really end well.

18. Be more aware of emotions. In any/every way.

19. Be able to accomodate/understand people who aren't hyper-logical/practical.

20. Understand me.

21. Being too desperate /too into me when we've only said two words to one another.

22. Hmm... I've never cheated on anyone but I would guess being inexplicably and suddenly nicer and more accommodating than usual along with being away/unavailable at odd times and being cagey/defensive about such.

23. No. Just... no. Just thinking about it, I know it'd kill me. I haven't given it enough though to have a deeper reason.

24. It means a level of emotional investment and involvement that's scary. It's pretty simple.

25. For the most part, sure, why not? If something like that becomes a problem, it's because of a deeper problem in the relationship. The things themselves are harmless, IMO.

26. Yes and no? It's about balance, I guess. I think once you're into a certain 'average' range, other things are far more important. Plus, too big = pain. Bad pain.

27. We don't want to invest more emotionally and get our hopes up and everything if there isn't going to be a future. It's painful to be caught off guard like that, so we want to check and be sure. So, fear, I guess.

1. Either because we were never over it in the first place, or because it relates to or exemplifies a current problem.

2. For me it's a combination of guilt and embarrassment (usually if I think whatever I'm upset about is stupid), or if I don't think bringing up the problem will do any good, or if I don't want to burden anyone with whatever it is. Combine any of that with a general lack of awareness at just how bad I am at actually coming off as 'fine'.

3. I don't know if 'always' is exactly correct, but a general continual desire to be in a relationship is I guess because of the theoretical emotional security and stability that one would hope would be provided by such.

4. No.

5. Yes and no? I think it's like anything else, if the capacity is there, it's always there, but at the end of the day everything is a choice and you can always make a different one.

6. Yes.

7. Physical: Tall, skinny, lighter complexion than me, pretty eyes. Personality: Outgoing, smart, sarcastic, confident.

8. I have no idea. I'm really uncomfortable talking about people when they're not there, especially the way girls do, in big groups. I'm okay talking about someone I know well with someone I and the other person both know well, but just casually chatting about other peoples lives like it's the weather puts me off.

9. No.

10. Knowing how we look, and that it's good/up to whatever standards we set for ourselves makes us feel secure. So if we're feeling insecure, we'll be checking way more often. The opposite also applies.

11. 25 or 26? But I don't know if I'll really be ready by then, based on how I feel now. It's an ideal age in the grander sense though, for me.

12. There are really too many. My brain is flooded. This is probably an issue of mine. Huh.

13. I can't think of anything I would want to know that I wouldn't ask, but then there's so much I don't want to know...

14. Yes. I don't like lies/half-truths/etc. I mean, if we haven't talked about it, then whatever. But when it comes up, I want the truth. Not because I want to make sure it's some certain number, but just because honesty and openness is paramount.

15. Yes.

16. It's a really fine line. In my opinion, at the end of the day it depends on how you feel about whoever you're with - if you're not that thrilled with them, or you're unsure or there's some kind of issue, then any kind of moving forward as far as closeness goes feels like smothering, because the increase in intensity also intensifies the problems, and thus the whole thing begins to break down. So when women say they want romance, they mean they want it from someone they really really like. But of course you can't know that beforehand if you don't realize that you have issues with this person. C'est la vie.

age 25

1. Why do women bring up old issues that happened months ago? just haven't gotten over it or because he brings up old stuff
2. Why do women say "I'm fine" when her boyfriend asks her what's wrong, when they both know she's not "fine"? Why doesn't she just tell us, instead of waiting? you just want him to be ther and not ask questions
3. Why do most women always feel the need to be in a relationship? security ...
4. Have you ever cheated on your past or present boyfriend(s)? yes past
5. Do you believe "once a cheater, always a cheater"? in some cases yes
6. Do you eventually want to get married? I dnt think its necessary I have 3 kids with a guy I've been with for 7 years we get amazing tax returns getting married would screw it all up
7. What is the first thing that attracts you to a man: Physically and Personality wise? confidence
8. Why do women "always gossip"? in their nature
9. Do you really tell your best friends everything about your relationship? no
10. Why are women always checking their makeup or "powdering their nose"? I dnt girls that do that may be insecure and feel they need to always look made up... ?
11. At what age do you want kids, if any at all? got em at 22
12. What's one question you would never ask your boyfriend, because you don't want to know the answer? I would ask everything I wonder about
13. What's one question you would never ask your boyfriend, but you want to know the answer? Why wouldn't you ask? id ask
14. Would you want to know how many women your boyfriend has slept with? Why? not really
15. Do you tell the truth when your boyfriend asks you how many men you've slept with? If no, do you underestimate or over exaggerate? truth
16. Women say they want romance. But when they get it, some run away. When does it become "too much" or "smothering"? I dnt like too much like smothering
17. Do you believe a man should approach you first? Why? no either way y not
18. Think of one thing that you think the male sex could improve when it comes to a relationship. Explain: listening and responding... they just never seem to do what they agree to
19. Think of one thing the male gender could change about themselves, in general. Explain: see 18
20. What's the one thing a man could do to win your heart? be silly and love me for me
21. What's the one thing a man could do to completely turn you off? eww smoking
22. What are the signs a man should look for if their girlfriend is cheating? not intersted
23. Is it ok for you friend to ever date your ex? Why?no way just because
24. In your opinion, why do you think most men are afraid of "commitment"? maturity
25. Are you "okay" with your boyfriend going to the strip clubs? Looking at pornography? yeah with me no reason he should do it alone I'm into all that its a turn on for me to .. sh*t me and my boyfriend have a great time during and after the strip club

1. Cause there not over it yet or it never got resoved in the first place.
2. I don't know I tell him like it is, or it not something I want him to know.
3. Personally I don't like sleeping a lone 2 much its nice to have someone to cuddle with
4.Yes, but I learned and I will never do it again and that was when I was younger. Now I feel if you don't love some one let them go and if you love love some one you could never hurt them that bad.
5. Most Of the time yes, If some cheats on you once they are most likely going to do it again.
6.One Day
7. Physically, good looks my type is dark short hair, brown eyes. Personality, caring and funny.
8. I don't know I hate to gossip
9. not every single detail but yes the major things
10.I rarely wear make up.
11. I had one young (not planned) but I wanted to wait till like 25 or26
12. I would ask him any thing
13.see above
14.Yes I really don't know why but I do.
15. yes
16. once a week should be ok but sometimes everyday is 2 much.
17. Most of the time, cause I want ot know he really likes me and not just going with it cause I asked
18. being honest, Tell the truth so what if it hurts I would rather know then having to keep guessing, and that go's for chicks 2
19.see above
20. My heart id not won its given freely when some one really loves me and cares for me.
21. Do something that he know I wouldn't like him 2 do but still dose it
22.when they don't want to be around you that much any more
23. Nope cause he mine even if I'm not with him any more and guess what he will always be mine
24. Because they can't have sex with other women when there in a commitmen
25.Yes as long as they look and don't touch, Fantasy is normal and I would rather he do that then go out and cheat
26.Nope not as long as they know what to do with it, but I guess it dose play some role he can't be like 2 inches
27.Cause it maybe just fine be we want to know that he will want to be with us I 5 years or so we want to know that we are not wasting our time

I got about half way through writing answer to these, but got bored. WAY WAY WAY too many questions.

i am 23.
1. I do because most of the time its the best leverage, and I could not be over it
2. I want to know he cares. I don't want to have to tell him everything every time.
3.well first that's a generalization and secondly if she did feel a need she just has a need to be needed
4.no
5.no I believe everyone can change.
6.yes.
7.i like a man that can bring an certain feeling to the room so I would have to say personality
8.once again a generalization and we get bored. personally I don't because I don't like the drama.
9.i tell my best friend a lot but not everything
10. make up tends to fade or smear during the day and looks cheap
11.26-30
12.i don't have one my boyfriend and I are open
13.i have asked we ask each other when we want to know.
14.i did want to know when I didn't know and its a personality check
15.yes I stay honest
16.smothering is when your life is so overran you don't complete your daily activites
17.nope I believe the road runs both ways if you like a person go for it
18.every man is different so I can't answer that
19.stop thinking with their mans and start with their brain not all men thou
20.tell me his true feelings
21.im a really clean person so anything unclean
22.not letting him see her phone keeping things private
23.no as a friend you have to look at it as a ship that has sailed
24.they don't want to only have to sleep with one woman
25.yes. he still comes home to me and he doesn't have sex with them so I'm fine with it.
26.yes if I have to get a microscope to find it its not worth looking for
27.they don't want to stick around for something that's never going to be a life with that person.

1. to solve it or find a solution to it if it's bothering me
2. I don't know
3. not me
4. no
5.yes
6.yes
7.personality
8. no
9.no
10.to look hot
11. when im' done my career & my husband is also financially stable
12. idk, I always ask a ton of questions
13. see above
14.maybe..so I can see how we're different?
15...list goes on

20. What's the one thing a man could do to win your heart?

be my best friend, talk to me openly, make me laugh

21. What's the one thing a man could do to completely turn you off?

be an asshole, play mind games, and never commit

22. What are the signs a man should look for if their girlfriend is cheating?

distancing herself, not answering calls. making up excuses as to why she's not around

23. Is it ok for you friend to ever date your ex? Why?

f*** no. that's gross. she was there for my entire relationship and now she wants my leftovers? that's just like a family member dating your ex - weird.

24. In your opinion, why do you think most men are afraid of "commitment"?

they're going to miss all the sex they could be having

25. Are you "okay" with your boyfriend going to the strip clubs? Looking at pornography? Explain

yeah, I'll be doing the same! lol

26. Ok ladies.. Be honest: Does size really matter? The men are dying to know!

no, we can work on that

27. Why do women always insist on talking about the relationship, and "where it's going" when things are going just fine?

we don't want to get our hopes up and build these dreams in our head that the guy has no intention of helping us fulfill. we want to make sure we're not getting ahead of ourselves

1. Why do women bring up old issues that happened months ago?

i never got over it and I'm still mad as hell/hurt

2. Why do women say "I'm fine" when her boyfriend asks her what's wrong, when they both know she's not "fine"? Why doesn't she just tell us, instead of waiting?

either he did something and he should KNOW what's wrong, or I don't feel like putting my problems on him

3. Why do most women always feel the need to be in a relationship?

a sense of security. knowing you're loved/wanted

4. Have you ever cheated on your past or present boyfriend(s)?

never

5. Do you believe "once a cheater, always a cheater"?

i believe "once trust is broken, forever broken"

6. Do you eventually want to get married?

...yeah

7. What is the first thing that attracts you to a man: Physically and Personality wise

physically - size. I like a little meat on my boys. personality - sense of humor

8. Why do women "always gossip"?

we share stories :)

9. Do you really tell your best friends everything about your relationship?

not really

10. Why are women always checking their makeup or "powdering their nose"?

self-conscious

11. At what age do you want kids, if any at all?

idk about all that, haha

12. What's one question you would never ask your boyfriend, because you don't want to know the answer?

is he attracted to any of my friends

13. What's one question you would never ask your boyfriend, but you want to know the answer? Why wouldn't you ask?

is he attracted to any of my friends - I don't want to sound insecure

14. Would you want to know how many women your boyfriend has slept with? Why?

yes - I don't want STDs, thank you!

15. Do you tell the truth when your boyfriend asks you how many men you've slept with? If no, do you underestimate or over exaggerate?

yes

16. Women say they want romance. But when they get it, some run away. When does it become "too much" or "smothering"?

don't sing to me in public and buy me too much crap

17. Do you believe a man should approach you first? Why?

yes - it's tradition, lol

18. Think of one thing that you think the male sex could improve when it comes to a relationship. Explain

being more honest about how they feel. if they want to break up, say so immediately. if they want to love you, say so immediately. if they hate what you're wearing, tell you gently.

19. Think of one thing the male gender could change about themselves, in general. Explain

stop being so damn competitive.

1. because we feel the issue wasn't fully resolved
2. to see how much a man really cares about issues in our lives
3. securilty
4.never
5. yes
6. yes
7.physically attractive (in good shape, nice teeth, well groomed in general) personality wise (im attracted to out going, friendly, easy going gentlemen)
8. we like to hear about others lives to feel more secure about our own.
9. not ablsolutley everything if I had to give a percent I would say about 90%
10. because we feel embarrassed or self concious if we are not looking our best
11. mid to late twenties
12. how many days those underwear have been worn
13. I doubt there is such a question
14. yes, so I can compare it my own number to see if were "on the same page" so to speak...
15. I was honest
16. it becomes smothering when the balance of one person trying to please the other is off. when one person gives more than the other basically.
17. I like when I man approaches me first because its obvious then that he is interested in me and I don't have to play guessing games about wether or not he is into me. also its a bit of an ego boost to know you look attractive enough to approach.
18. meaning what they say, and backing up words with actions.
19. some of the male gender could use a lesson in personal grooming and general cleanliness
20. teach me a valuable skill
21. be pushy overbearing or jealous
22. lack of sex drive, lying, change in routines, or spending more time than usual with a friend
23.nope, even though I'm not dating these guys anymore I still feel a protectivness over them, and to have to watch any girl (let alone a friend!) date them is hard. I think I'm also too jealous of a person to handle that situation well.
24. I think commitment is associated with settling down and a general lack of fun to the male gender, that's probably why their afraid of it
25. I'm okay with my boyfriend going to the strippers, its seems to be a novelty thing for men so I'm not going to be the one to take away that, but I do hope they will grow up and realize for themselves that the strippers and porn really never measure up to being intimate with someone you actually care about
26. size does matter, obviously your going to have to work twice as hard if his penis is tiny but above all its important to know how to use it.
27. because we don't like suprise so we look to the future to try and find out if were wasting our time.

1. It annoyed them and they never worked it out, and it ate away at them inside.

2. For some reason, we expect our boyfriends to know how we're feeling.

3. To feel loved, that someone cares.

4. Yes, but because he didn't pay attention to me and I felt neglected.

5. Kind of. If someone cheats ONE time and never again, maybe not. But twice or more, then yes.

6. Someday

7. The FIRST thing is physically. But personality is what makes me actually like someone.

8. For me, I like to know what people are up to so I can relate their situations to me.

9. Yeah

10. It makes them feel pretty, and more confident

11. When I can afford them, emotionally mature, and have a guy that I know will help support me and the kids.

12. If he finds other girls attractive

13. His first kiss. I wouldn't want to ask because he might ask mine, and I had mine kind of late.

14. Yes. Usually, the more people someone has slept with, the higher risk of cheating they have, or an std.

15. Yeah

16. Everyone is different, but with me, I get paranoid that the person might break up with me, is cheating, and I want to protect my heart.

17. I think a man should approach you first, or you may look easy

18. Communication. All my friends boyfriends (and mine when I have one) never call enough

19. Don't say "I love you" to a girl just to get sex, and leave her the next day.

20. Be there for me, and make me laugh

21. Rep as a manwhor*, disrespect girls

22. Withdrawling, lack of communication, talking about other guys

23. Only if I'm completely over that person, and it's been at least 6 months since we dated

24. I think they're afraid the girl will be a control freak, or they just aren't interested

25. They will just do it anyway behind your back. But as long as he's not having sex with them it's not a big deal

26. As long as he's not like, 2 inches, it doesnt. It's not the size of the boat its the motion of the ocean.

27. They're paranoid

1. Because they feel as if they want to be the center of attention.
They want things their way, and that's it.
So, maybe they did something wrong.
And they don't want the guy to get all mad so they bring something bad up about them that happened months ago.


2. They may possibly be to embarased to actually tell why.
Or they want more attention from the guy.

1.because, if someone was making the same mistake over and over, woulden't you want to tell them?
2.because, she's afraid that your afraid of her emotions!
3.because, it's like smoking, once you have that "feeling" you want more of it!
4. no, never. I don't cheat on a guy I love!
5. between you and that person, yes.
6. Yes
7. Funny, Understanding of me, sensitive,Really tall
8. because life gets boring haha
9. Not everything
10. I don't do that. if they don't love the way I look now, who needs them?
11.between the ages of 22-28
12. Do you want to be with me forever?
13. would you marry me eventually? because, I'm afraid he would say no
14. No, that's his bussiness. his past is his past
15. I'm a virgin so it's all good
16.because, they're afraid it's not real or realize it's not the right person
17. Yes, because I'm afraid of seeming desperate!
18.Communication. this is sort of a no brainer but if you hate something I'm doing, tell me instead of breaking up with me out of the blue.
19. Having a power to sense bitchy women! the nice guys always get tainted by complete bitches!
20. Be himself
21. Try to have sex with me constanley
22. well, I have never cheated, so, this is harder. Less time spent together perhaps?
23. No, because I loved them and it breaks my heart that I would have to see that. Maybe I would consider it if they asked me first though.
24. yeah :(
25. Yes, as long as he doesn't have sex with them or spend to much time doing it.
26. Ok ladies.. Be honest: Does size really matter? The men are dying to know!
NO! Only sluts care about size. If she cares, RUN! SHES A WHORE! If you in love with someone, that shoulden't matter.
27. Why do women always insist on talking about the relationship, and "where it's going"
when things are going just fine?
because, we want to know. Are you going to commit to us? We want to know so we know how much of ourselfs to give up. Things are going just fine when there is there is stability in both partners lives.

Hope that helps!

P.S. I hang out with an all guy group sometimes and an all girl group so I can see from both points of view!

1. we usually just need to make the person we're fighting with hurt
2. we think that they need to know what's wrong with us and us telling them defeats the purpose
3. it's how our grandmothers were raised, and our mothers. It's kinda in our genes. Sorta the hunter gatherer thing, we need someone to protect us and someone we can take care of
4. yes, but it was just kissing so I don't find it too severe
5. no. people can change.
6. maybe. we change our minds all the time based on what's going on around us.
7. smile, eyes, personality (sometimes looks but it's based on my time of the month)
8. I don't gossip but I guess it's just what we saw our moms doing when we were little (I know I did)
9. never. somethings are supposed to stay between the partners.
10. to look good for our man. we want to look good for them
11. if I were to have children, in my late 20's. 25-34 probably
12. if your parents said dump me would you?
13. if they would really want to get married, I don't think they ever tell the truth about it
14. no. I don't think that is really my business unless they want to tell me.
15. if he asks I tell the truth, but my man should respect me enough to not ask
16. when the man goes too cheesy, like out of the movies, I'd rather something original. Not out of a chick flick
17. I prefer having a guy ask me. I feel much better about myself that way.
18. they should communicate better. Women want someone to talk to. their man should be their best friend, and a best friend is there to talk to.
19. Most should be cleaner. The sweaty shirtless guy is hott but enough is enough with most of the guys
20. um. I would have to say he'd have to just be himself.
21. ask me to do something weird to him. I'm kinky, not that kinky though
22. If she ignores you a lot, doesn't have to tell you about "drinks with the girls" and she hides things from you
23. No. My ex is part of me, if they get married then I'll just die on the inside. If you want my ex then you don't want to be friends with me.
24. No. That's like saying "all blondes are dumb" it's just a stereotype
25. Sure. If he wants to take me then that's cool too. no one should tell you where you can or cannot go
26. To a point. Like if the guy is an inch long and very thin then it isn't fun. But if it has some girth or length, it's all fun
27. I don't know actually. I really don't do that. haha

I hope this helps. I'm 18 and was totally honest.

all of my answers are my *personal* answers:

1. depends on the issue. maybe to make sure we made the right choice or to learn from it.
2. "im fine" is like a test, do they really care enough to dig deeper when they can clearly see that somethings wrong and sometimes to seem stronger, we can handle it on our own.
3.makes them feel like someone wants them, makes them feel valuble
4. never.
5.once you cheat it really takes trust away that is really difficult if not impossible to get back.
6.yes, I want to have that fancy wedding with the love of my life
7. personality- they must MUST make me laugh. once a guy makes my laugh he's on my radar.
8.we dont. but its mostly to distract ourselfs from our own problems but talking about other pplease.
9. no, that's between me and my guy, (except when I need my girlfriends advice)
10. if their single its because they are always for guys to date, wanna catch their eye. girls in a relationships wanna keep their guys eye.
11. 30-35 to start.
12. his past relationships and girls he's dated/ how far they got. I want to focus on this relationship
13. does he ever think about me? and I wouldn't ask because that seems too obsesive...
14. no, its intimidating (because I most likely will have less experiance) and I don't want to think about it/ imagine it.
15. I over exaggerate maybe but one or two...
16. girls want the small romantic jestures, flowers for no reason. bringing their favorite kind of icecream and just snuggling on the couch watching a movie. well thought out and planned (interesting) dates. the whole, romantic dinner, flower petals just isn't what some girls picture when they think romance.
17. yes, mainly because I'm too afrain of rejection. and if I ask them I over think myself (maybe he just said yes because he felt sorry for me, or somthing along those lines) where as if he asks me I know that I'm really wanted.
18. explaining feeling and being pacient, sex can wait boys!
19. can't find something for the WHOLE GENDER, everyhting varies from guy to guy.
20.show me that I mean the world to him. (in a none creepy way.) make me feel wanted.
21. not be funny, smell, chew with his mouth open, be mean to other people for no reason at all.
22. if she doesn't act as engaged in the relationship. either she's getting bored or she's cheating...or both
23.no! this almost happened to me and it broke my heart. 1. you really don't want to think about your friends mouth where yours has been. 2. you and that guy broke up for a reason, you don't want your friend to get hurt.
24.they don't want to be confined to one girl, mostly because they can't handle the maturity.
25.no and no,. he should be looking at me :)
26. maybe a little. but if thier personality rocks, who cares?
27. we are scared for the future. and girls don't like to just "cruise" in a realationship too long.

1. beacuse we hold grudges
2. to me its easier to just say 'im fine' instead of saying how I really feel because it usually much more complicated and I wouldn't know how to exactly say how I feel
3. it sucks to be single when your freinds all have boyfriends, and we get lonely
4.nope
5.nope on this one 2
6.yes
7.physically it would be the face, like his smile and eyes, and personality wise if he can make me laugh
8.maybe beacuse we feel like we need to know everything and be on top of everything
9.i must admit I do
10.i don't wear makeup so I don't have to worry about that stuff
11.omg umm I would have to say like early or mid 30s? I'm not really sure if I want to have kids yet
12.do you honestly think I'm pretty? I woudnt wanna ask because I know he would say I'm not pretty =/
13.why are you going out with me? I woudnt ask because I'm scared of the answer
14.i wouldn't wanna know the exact number, but I would like to know because it tells me kinda what he might expect in the relationship
15.i wouldn't tell the truth, I would underestimate
16. it gets too much if the guy is constantly around you, and wanting to hang with you, I need my space! lol
17. I don't believe that a man should have to be the first to approach me, but it would sure be nice if he did
18. they need to improve on being more honest
19.not be so sexually oriented
20.give me cute compliments, but not too many lol and give me a very long hug
21.ignore me,act like he didn't care
22. ummm the girl being paranoid that he is cheating on her?
23.ya it is
24.i don't believe all are afraid of commitment but definitely most of them!
25.i guess I would be okay with porn, but not strip clubs if he went to strip clubs I couldn't handle that
26. maybe a lil...idk not really though
27.beacuse we are worried that at any moment its gonna take a turn for the worse and everything is gonna go wrong. we just worry a lot by nature.

1.because girls hold grudges and can't forget things until they are fixed and then still can't get over them
2. women don't want people to know when they are feeling bad, it's just the way our brains work 3. because we see all of our friends in one and we get lonely, and once you had one you get lonely and don't want to be alone
4. no , I don't believe in that stuff
5.no , people can change
6.yeah...duh
7. def. hair and sweetness
8.its just what we do , it's in our nature to do that, we can't just hold something in we have to tell someone and then it spreads around
9.no, I don't kiss and tell
10. we want to look pretty for you and ourselves
11. 23 or 24
12. how big is your dick
13.have you ever thought about sex with me, I'm afraid of what he would think of me after wards
14. no, more fear of me getting an std
15.no, underestimate a little
16.some guys have different definitions of romance then girls do
17.yes, because I was raised and taught that was the way it was supposed to be always, no matter what
18. knowing when to quit looking at me sexually and start looking at me more emotionally
19. their obsession with boobs and asses
20. tell me he loved me wiht all his heart and all his strength
21.talk to me rudely, or those awful pick-up lines
22.leaving alot, not being very specific as to where she is going, coming home exhausted, and sweaty
23.yes, if they ask, but HELL NO if they don't honor the girl code!
24. they are too afraid to get married and settle down because they think it will ruin their rep.
25. yes, if he doesn't enjoy it
26. to a certain extent yes, but not too big, but not too small
27.they don't want to be thinking everything is just find and then all of the sudden he's gone and the guy is off happy, and we are left depressed and thinking that we are not good enough for him

1. I guess incidents that happen threaten my security in myself or an insecurity about where I'm headed off in life.
2. I guess I just don't feel like expressing myself at the moment. The guy should ask me again later instead of egging me on.
3. I haven't (at least not yet) felt the need to be in a relationship, but I want to know that I could be liked in romantic way.
4. No
5. He cheats on you once, I can forgive and work it out. Cheats on me twice, I will break up with him because he's no longer in love with me. But I would not stick around after the second time.
6. Undecided.
7. Brains, smile, and cuteness.
8. Probably its entertaining, or a way of moralizing others or we compare ourselves to them and feel like we're superior to others. Makes us feel good. I guess it depends on the type of gossip.
9. I keep 95 percent of that stuff to myself...mostly crammed into my diary.
10. I don't wear makeup, but a lot of women (not all) wear make up because it makes us feel good.
11. undecided.
12. "Do you think I am pretty?"
13. "Why did you pick me to be your girl?"
14. Yes, I think its possible the number of women a man sleeps with will give you hints about how he will treat you.
15. If I expect his truth, its only fair he gets mine.
16. I guess its too much if a guy is around for almost everyday and always complimenting you until his words have lost value.
17. I man CAN approach me first, but I do not expect him to make a move. Well, maybe at first I would wait for him to ask me (in hopes that he does, but to expect it? Not really). It's more of a bonus. I would ask him if he doesn't aks me
18. Communication.
19. Stop letting ego get in the way of love. Or pride to be in the way.
20. Leave cute notes for me? And hug me. Give me a flower once in a long while. But, maybe show loyalty to me and take care of me when I'm sick.
21. Cheat and act like a jerk.
22. Always sneaks out to have a private conversation, or him distancing himself away emotionally or physically. Rejecting gestures of affection.
23. Depends on their personality and situation, and compatibility.
24. Because when they believe they truly fell in love for real, the possibility of seperation is too hard to take. I think men fall harder emotionally when they are in love with a girl, more than a guy. I guess they realize they are risking a lot of things as well - eventual rejection, heartbreak.
25. Porn, no problem. Strip clubs, most likely, strip clubs are too personal. Porn is just from a magazine or tv. As long as I get my romance books.
26. Size doesn't matter to me. I want a man with the right personality and is caring.
27. I think women are bored and look for drama sometimes to entertain us. Other times its because I think they want progression in a relationship to be confirmed heavily. The latter is probably the answer I lean towards.

1.- because we never got the answer we expected
2.- we want them to learn to know us a little better, if you know what you did wrong or upsets me ..Then don't ask just confirm.
3.- we need to feel loved and cared for
4.- yes
5.- no
6.- yes
7.- face/hands. Strong character
8.- it's fun
9.- yes
10.- we care, we need to feel we look our best
11.-I had my first girl at 23.
12.-have you thought about an ex while having sex with me
13.-
14.-no, what for?
15.-I have done both
16.-it's based on maturity; the older we get the smarter we are the more we realize that when a guy cares about you and shows it...Its ok.
17.-no, it's fine if either does
18.-patience; sure we act crazy, we PMS, we cry with Bambi...We are girls we do things like that but it you don't exaggerate and make us look so complicated just go with the flow...We will both be better.
19.-
20.-stand by me; no matter what
21.-be needy
22.-lies, late txts, smiles or get nervous when getting a txt, acting meaner to him, no sex, late nites with "the girls"
23.-no. Loyalty comes first, no matter how long it has been or how hot the guy is. If you are still friends that's a no, no.
24.-they link it to no freedom and getting board.
25.-yes, as long as he comes home to me.
26.-Yes, but not only size what you do with it is ultimately what matters THE MOST
27.- because we are needy and need reassurance. (very stupid of us really)

hope this helps, good luck with ur book

4. I cheated on my first boyfriend when I was 13. so I don't really know how much that counts. And plus he kind of deserved it he totally desserted me on my birthday and made me cry.
5. Well if cheating when your 13 counts as cheating then no I don't believe once a cheater always a cheater because I don't cheat... Except for the 13 year old offense.
6. I absolutely want to get married one day. I love waking up in the morning seeing that one person I love and going to sleep at night with his arms wrapped around me.Not saying that's all there is to that than marriage but it doesn't hurt.
7.Physically I like someone who is generally taller than me and just larger than me I every aspect. Muscular is nice but I don't mind a little chub. As long he has a somewhat attractive face I'm good.
Personality is where I really fall for guys. Anyone who can make me laugh and genuinely have a good time is a keeper in my eyes. Oh and of course honesty.

14. I know how many women my man has slept with.
15. My boyfriend has asked me and I told him the truth
16. I;m not really one for the romantic crap. I see it as a just big show that men put on to impress a woman. However, when they do decide to take the romantic route, it gets to much when a guy is always serenading you with that poetic crap. Candle lit dinners get played out really fast. Take me somewhere fun and exciting make me laugh. It doesn't have to be serious all the time. Real romantics want serious deep conversations about emotions and the stars and this and that. I;m all for an intelligent man who interested in my feelings and shares his. BUT NOT ALL THE TIME.

1.) I was never really over it to begin with. I had just dropped the issue before because I was afraid of p*ssing the guy off, but later I feel I still need to bring it up.
2.) I usually do tell them, but sometimes I feel it's not a good time to talk about serious issues, especially if he seems distracted. I'm not going to tell him in the middle of a sports game.
3.) I need to have children, and I can't get there without a man. It sounds crude, but women have a lot less time to do that than men do.
4.) I kissed another guy right before I broke up with my ex, but the relationship was falling apart. I could never cheat on my current boyfriend.
5.) Not necessarily, because it's not true of me.
6.) Of course.
7.) Being unusual but not weird. Being creative, smart, or funny. And physically, a nice smile that doesn't look too creepy. Some guys have really creepy smiles.
8.) I don't always do it, but usually I'm just bored when I do.
9.) Not really. I only tell them stuff that's either important or funny, but I don't tell my boyfriend's secrets.
10.) Self-conscious, I guess. But usually once I put on my makeup for the night, that's it.
11.) Probably anywhere from 26-34.
12.) Any details about his sex life before me. Specifically, which girls were tighter than me.
13.) When he wants to have kids and get married. I know he wants to eventually, but I don't want to nag him.
14.) Yeah, but it's not that important. I'd just want to make sure it wasn't 0 or 50. 0 because I'd feel like he'd be looking to find more experience, and 50 because I'd wonder if he had something.
15.) At first I didn't tell the truth..I lowered the number by a little. But eventually I came clean. It's not that much to begin with.
16.) I don't run away when it's from someone I really like. When a guy I wasn't very into was smothering me, I was freaked out. But the right guy can get away with a lot.
17.) Yeah, generally. I don't spend time to look this good to have to approach guys. However, when I have a boyfriend I hate when guys approach me because then I have to think of some way to let them down easy.
18.) Expressing themselves. They never admit when they're mad or upset and then we have to guess and be ignored.
19.) See above.
20.) Meet my family probably, but even then he's not guaranteed. Do something creative and cute.
21.) Lick my face.
22.) Suddenly not wanting to talk anymore.
23.) If I broke up with him, sure.
24.) No clue...commitment is the best way to have the most sex.
25.) Strip clubs, no. Porn, sure. I look at porn myself.
26.) Somewhat. You can't be tiny or enormous, but anything in between is OK. And by tiny I mean below 4" and by enormous I mean above 10".
27.) because it isn't!

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23. Is it ok for you friend to ever date your ex? Why?
_Sometimes. The first rule of friendship between girls is that you do NOT go after your friend's ex, or someone you know they like. Period. That's a good way to lose trust, and probably the friendship as well. The only time this is okay is if your friend has talked to you about it first, and you've okayed it. Not that we have 'ownership' over these guys, but there are certain boundaries that most girls won't cross with their friends. I know guys have similar boundaries with each other.

25. Are you "okay" with your boyfriend going to the strip clubs? Looking at pornography? Explain:
_Sure. I would probably go to a strip club with him, just for fun. If he's going out with friends, sure, I'll probably let him. It's not a big deal. I don't think I would like it if it was a frequent thing though. As for porn, I don't really care. Guys are visual creatures, whereas a lot of girls read smutty romance novels and let their imaginations run wild. It's basically the same thing. Besides, it's a fantasy. They're never going to meet these girls in real life.

27. Why do women always insist on talking about the relationship, and "where it's going" when things are going just fine?
_Most girls need reassurance. To the rest of the world, things are going fine. But the girl might be freaking out inside because they haven't put a 'label' on their relationship yet, haha. They feel like a guy must not like them enough to 'officially' make them their girlfriend, and that makes them self-conscious.

I'm not answering all of them, but I'll answer what I can. =]

2. Why do women say "I'm fine" when her boyfriend asks her what's wrong, when they both know she's not "fine"? Why doesn't she just tell us, instead of waiting?
_Because if the boyfriend pushes for a real answer after that, knowing she's NOT fine, then it makes her feel like he cares more about her answer than any other random person.

3. Why do most women always feel the need to be in a relationship?
_A lot of girls evaluate their own self-worth by how many guys like them. If a guy doesn't like them or they don't have a boyfriend, they basically feel like crap. They feel worthless and their self-esteem goes down the drain. These kind of girls seem to care too much what other people think, and that's probably where this whole issue comes from.

4. Have you ever cheated on your past or present boyfriend(s)?
_Nope.

5. Do you believe "once a cheater, always a cheater"?
_Not necessarily. A person who cheats and gets away with it, no consequences, is probably more likely to cheat again than someone who has never cheated. Same with someone who has a long history of cheating. But some people really do learn their lesson and don't do it again. So while I don't agree with that generalization, a history of cheating would make me wary of that person.

6. Do you eventually want to get married?
_No. The concept of marriage has changed so much over the past century. I'm not religious, so I don't need to 'prove' my relationship in the eyes of god. I also don't need a 'license' to prove that I'm in a committed relationship to the rest of the world. I don't plan on marrying. Not because I can't commit, because I can. But because marriage isn't what it used to be. I think loving someone and spending the rest of your life with them is enough.

8. Why do women "always gossip"?
_I'd like to know the answer to that as well. I avoid gossiping women like the plague. I don't like drama and I prefer to stay out of it.

9. Do you really tell your best friends everything about your relationship?
_Not everything. But if I'm having problems, and I need help, who else would I go to?

14. Would you want to know how many women your boyfriend has slept with? Why?
_Yes. Just out of curiosity. I don't really judge people by how many people they've slept with, and I expect the same treatment in return. Like, I'll tell them if they'll tell me, and neither of us can complain about the answers. If I'm going to sleep with someone, I need to know their sexual history and we both need to be tested before going any further.

15. Do you tell the truth when your boyfriend asks you how many men you've slept with? If no, do you underestimate or over exaggerate?
_I do tell the truth.

21. What's the one thing a man could do to completely turn you off?
_Not give me any space. I'm independent and I like my solitude. I don't need ANYONE, even someone I'm in love with, hanging over my shoulder constantly.

1. We bring up old issues because they were never really dealt with completely. We need to deal with them the only way we really know how...thats talking about it.

2. She either wants more attention, she wants him to pretty much beg to know. Or she might not have the words or the energy to explain what's happening at the moment. Chances are that she'll bring it up eventually.

3. Some women grow up without a male figure in their lives, so the need for a man's affection is always in their hearts. Some are just addicted to being in relationships. Either way, its usually a self-esteem issue. Some women are just scared of being alone.
4. Nope.
5. In most cases yes. In about 90% of the cases yes.
6. Most definetely.
7. Physically: The way he's dressed, Personal hygiene must be on point, at least decent looking, nice eyes.
Personality: Sense of humour, Respectful, Kind, Confident, Thoughtful.
8. Because women love to talk. Its like a hobby for us. And when you talk and talk and talk, eventually you end up gossiping.
9. You're best friends?...Almost always EVERYTHING. But its usually only the 1 or 2 closest friends that woman has got. Its just another way to talk and get things off our chest.
10. Because they want to look good. Usually for men to give them a good impressions. And sometimes for themselves.
11. late 20's. Maybe around 28. Once I'm done school and I've got a career.
12. Which non-celebrity woman do you think is prettier than me? lol.
13. How much do you love me? I can't ask this because I'd seem really clingy and pushy lol. I'll just settle with assuming.
14. Yea. I want to know the potential that I might catch something! And if he's a man-whore I want to know also haha.
15. Yes.
16. When you barely have time to miss the person. Sometimes you want to kinda long for the romance. Its too smothering if you don't have any time for yourself.
17. Yes, because I don't want to appear to desperate. And a man that approaches first, but with respect has a higher mark in my books lol.
18.Communication. Don't assume everything is alright, and don't neglect and hide your emotions. Eventually the women will start thinking you're too insensitive and leave.
19.Playing with people's emotions. Don't be a player, no you're not cool. You're a man whore.
20. Put aside his pride, and show me how much he loves me with no shame
21. Let his pride ruin everything, and hide his emotions.
22. If she wants to go out alone all the time and not take you anywhere with her.
23.Depends. If she's a good friend, and I had deep feelings for him..then no.
24. Because they don't want to miss out on other women. Even though, sometimes the best girl they'll ever have is the one asking for their commitment.
25.no. Its against my beliefs.
26. usually not, unless its like 2 inches.
27. Because that's what women do, we talk. And if we do this, its a good sign because it means we see you in our future.

1. I think we bring up old issues when something happens to remind us of it. even over time it still sucks that certain things happened and they can be hard to forget and get over.
2. It depends. Sometimes we blame them for it so we want them to figure it out, we may not be ready to talk about it, or we just want the attention of knowing they care.
3. We like attention and having the security of one guy. having a relationship title just makes it feel more official and secure.
4. Nope. If its someone I really care about I can't even imagine doing something like that knowing how much it could hurt them. I would never be able to do it.
5. To an extent. If it was a one time only thing or if there were certain circumstances that prove it wasnt a habit then no, but if its happened more than once then yes
6. yeah
7. Physically, smile and size. I'm a tiny girl so I like the idea of someone protecting me as dumb as that sounds. personality wise, honest, and laid back. Its mostly just how I connect with the other person. it can vary.
8. There is the theory that it makes us feel better abt ourselves, which can be true. it just makes you feel like you know more abt ppl
9. No. usually just the best and worst moments, and the most amusing parts
10. It makes us feel good when we know we look good
11. somewhere between 28-34 or whenever I'm settled into my life
12. Who was the best he's had at any sexual/fooling around activity.
13. What he says about you to his friends. I'm not sure how I would ask. just word it carefully I guess
14. Yes, I'm not big on the idea of someone that's been around a lot. it shows they aren't very serious about those things and I am
15. I am honest about it.
16. If its just cute little things and a few romantice dinners here and there its fine. when they won't let you out of their sight and focus only on making you happy it can be scary sometimes.
17. Yes. Mostly just because I'm shy and I like the idea of the guy noticing me and having the courage to come to me first
18. I think they could give us a little more attention during sports. I don't like the idea of having to stand infront of the tv to make him realize I'm there
19. The idea that being over confident is attractive needs to change. I like the idea of someone who has confidence, but when they think they're the sh*t its annoying
20. Be my best friend and just makes an effort
21. Yell at me, get completely trashed or smoke anything
22. If she starts kissing differently. everyone kisses different. if she's used to someone else it shows
23. That depends on how long after you dated and how it ended
24. I think depending on age, men are affraid to get too involved with 1 person
25. if its just looking then sure as long as he doesn't compare me to them. and no touching
26. No. but too big isn't fun at all
27. We get nervous and want to make sure we don't get more invested in it than they are. and its comforting if the other person reassures you anyways

1-because we just want to know the answer
2-for me I want him to actually want to know what wrong with us
3-security that your actually together
4-nope
5-yes I do because what makes us think that their not going to change
6-yes I do want to get married
7-personality well for me
8-we like to know what's going on in other peoples lives
9-it depemds the type of person you are
10-to make sure we look ok
11-late 20's
12-if he wasnt with you if he'd ever go back to their ex's
13-whats one thing he didn't like about me
14-yes so that way I would know that I won't get like a std
15-yes..
16-its when they never give you your space
17-no because either one of them could be shy and one has to have the bravery cause I do it sometimes..
18-to always tell the truth or at least how they are feeling cause it drives me crazy not knowing if they feel the same way or not
19-how they think of woman
20-treat me like I'm worth something and different from every other girl but in a good way
21-to touchy feely
22-if she's not really paying as much attention to him
23-no its just the girl rule
24-maybe because they don't want to get hurt?
25-umm depends on the type of guy it is
26-no because you should like them for who he is not for the size
27-because we just want to know that everything is going ok not just for us but for them to

1. Personally, it's because I need reassurance or it's been bothering me in some way and I need it resolved.
2. I want to think things through on my own or I want you to make an effort into cheering me up or helping me come down from whatever it is that's getting me upset. But that's just me.
3. I don't, but it's nice. I like to know that I'm wanted and cared about.
4. No. And I wouldn't. If I'm with a person, I'm absolutely committed to them. There's a reason I'm with them in the first place, after all.
5. 50/50, really. People can change and there are such things like being drunk or under some other influence, I suppose.
6. I'm not sure on that one. Half of me wants to be committed with that person for the rest of my life, the other half... not so much. It's just a piece of paper, really. Why can't I just be with that person?
7. Personality, all the way.
8. Men gossip too, you know. :P
9. I don't, no. Some things should be private.
10. This I don't know and don't understand myself.
11. Early twenties.
12. What physical aspect he liked best about any of his exes. I just don't want to know. I'll no doubt start nitpicking myself, seeing where I fall short where they didn't, you know?
13. See above answer. I also want to know, but I don't want to be hurt in the process, either.
14. I would, yes, mainly to know how experienced he was (and to see if he has any chance of having anything). I prefer to be with someone inexperienced so we can learn together ...
15. Yes, of course.
16. Phone calls past midnight (or every hour on the hour), being overly jealous, and other such things. It gets to be too much.
17. Yes, because I'm too shy to make the first move.
18. It all depends on the man.
19. Stereotypically? Not sharing their feelings. It's hard to know what you're feeling and thinking! I'm not psychic.
20. Make me laugh everyday, just being there for me, and listening to me when I need to be listened to. I'll go out of my way to do the same for you. Honest. =)
21. Arrogance and ignorance.
22. If she stops paying attention to you or saying nice things for an extended period of time.
23. No, I don't think so. There's a reason we're not together and if you're my friend, you probably shouldn't be with them anyway.
24. Honestly, I haven't a clue.
25. Strip clubs? No. Porn is okay. What bothers me about porn, though, is I usually don't know what exactly is is you're looking at or thinking about at the time.
26. Nothing below six inches for me, thanks. I'm a tiny girl, however, and too big hurts.
27. I'd want to know what your point of view is on the whole relationship.

Age 16
1. Maybe they feel that they didn't get the issue discussed thoroughly and they want to stop thinking about it, because they were really hurt and they want to hear more of what yo would say about it.
2. Because sometimes men don't understand everything that women go through, and they don't want to have to explain.
3. They want to feel loved and happy, and they want to feel excited to have a guy they love in their life, and feel excited and look forward to something.
4. Nope, never will.
5. It depends on the person, if they are willing to get help and want to stop, they might change their ways.
6. Duh.
7. Eyes, smile, hair, body. Sense of Humor, Caring, Nice, Honest, Thoughtful
8. There's always gonna be competition and envy and dislike that make girls gossip.
9. Not all the details, just the stuff that make me happy about our relationship
10. It could get messed up, and we don't want to look like fools infront of hot guys.
11. maybe 25 or 26.
12. If we never met, who do you think you would want to date?
13. What are all of my flaws he notices on me (my looks and personality)
14. Yes, it says if the guy is a totaly man-whore, or an innocent virgin (or close)
15. Yes, if you do your part of the relationship and tell the truth, he will too, and there will be an honest relationsip.
16. If they are a little obsessed with you and give you like no space, they call/txt/im you 24/7
17. Yes, it shows the girl that you have enough guts to be brave enough to do that, and that you are confident enough, and you must really like her enough to do that, it shows ur in control.
18. Being more considerate, and not hurting the girls feelings, watching what you say.
19. Cockiness, like if they think they are too good and hot to even talk to you! What jerks.
20. Write me a pleasant poem explaining how he feels about me.
21. Call someone whethere I know them or not, "Ugly," or make fun of ANYONE.
22. If she loses interest in the relationship, doesn't text/call/ or want to be with you as much, may become a little rude, doesn't care about what you say or think.
23. It depends on if I really liked my ex or not. They should ask me though, or talk to me just incase. I hate dated my friends ex's before, and my friends have dated my ex's too, but we made sure it was okay with the friend first.
24. They may be too young, or are not used to serious long relationships.
25.It depends he has to talk to me about it, he can't keep it a secret.Yes to porn, no 2 strip club
26. Nope, it doesn't make a big impact, the guys feel the same about girls with a little more meat on them, we feel the same way about guys with extra meat, it doesn't really matter.
27. Because they want to make sure that there is open communication and that the other feels the same about the relationship, they want to make sure that they feel stable at where they are with the guy, and that they are on the same street.

1. Because men often walk away or tell them to drop the issue... but the women never get a chance to handle the issue.
2. Because sometimes if the man is in a mood... now is not the time... trust me... fine will change.
3. A lot of women do... and a lot of women don't... It's as random as the women.
4. Yes... past and present... all but one of them... but they cheated or tried to cheat first.
5. No... it depends on the reason for cheating... If I had a stable man, I wouldn't have cheated.
6. I am married.
7. A nice, caring, kind man. He's got to be tough with a little bit of a bad boy side... he's got to have nice eyes.
8. I think it was the way I was raised... who I grew up with... my current friends. Some of my friends are gossips... some aren't as much.
9. Yes, my bestfriend knows everything about me and me about her.
10. Because we don't want to look bad... We want to be the hottest girl in the bar.
11. I have already had my 2 and am happy.
12. I have asked him everything... and he has asked me.
13. We have an honest relationship now... there is nothing I am afraid of.
14. Yes, because I don't want an STD
15. I am honest... He knows who they were, my age at the time, if I used protection, and their names.
16. When in a serious relationship I have never been smothered... when dating it has happened... The guy pushing for a relationship too soon.
17. Yes, because if he don't then he won't be willing to pursue me... I like being chased.
18. Romance- I think most men let it drop after time... It's needed for me to feel special.
19. Being more outgoing and fun... It's a turn on.
20. Being there for me.
21. Being a jerk... to me or my friends.
22. She will be distant, annoyed by your presence, not come to bed, not talk about her feelings with you. Look for the person she has turned to if male... there is the guy involved.
23. Yes and no... Out of my 3 ex's two are still hooked on me... they would use my friends to get to be near me... The other one is fine.
24. The same reason women can be... the past relationships. Fear of opening up and losing the one that you want, fear of divorce.
25. Yes, he is fine to do any of those things... just not lie about it and take care of me if needed.
26. No... I have been with all sizes. The best was the smallest... believe it or not.
27. Because women want to know what the future has in store for them... should she be getting ready to move on... or is she secure where she is. Women look long term and at the consequences... men look at the present.

13. Again, I could ask anything. I used to be afraid to ask him stuff.. like, are you cheating on me? Because yes, I was afraid of the answer. But sometimes when you have to ask a question, you already know the answer

14. Of course. I think you should always know before sleeping with someone how many partners they have had. It's just common sense.

15. I tell him straight up. That's something I want to be completely honest about.

16. Romance is good, but not constant in-your-face romance. Like.. occasional romance to let you know you care, but not every minute of every day or it becomes too much to handle, and it's just like "Back off!"

17. I prefer if men approach me.. but that's just because I'm shy.

18. Being able to talk about anything straight-up (being able to talk about feelings, as corny at it is) Most guys that I know can't talk about how they really feel in situations. I've noticed guys that I've dated have a hard time opening up in that way.

19. Wasn't this already a question? I'd say the same.. being open about their feelings.

20. Be completely honest with me.

21. Make me trust him, get me to move away with him, lie to me, cheat on me, deny the whole thing and never admit it even though I have proof. How's that one?

22. Emotional distance, sneaking around, lying, when you ask them about something and they just "don't know" or "can't remember" (if it becomes a regular thing)

23. Depends on the situation. If they came to me first before anything to make sure I was okay with it, It would be okay. I guess it depends how it ended and how comfortable you are with it. I think it's just easier to

24. In your opinion, why do you think most men are afraid of "commitment"?

25. Strip-clubs yeah as long as they don't touch, pay for "stuff", etc. I would prefer a guy who didn't go, but it's not a complete deal-breaker. If I trust him, then I don't care. Porno? As long as it's not an addiction. I actually tried to get my boyfriend to watch porn with me, but he was too embarassed.

26. It matters to some degree, but it should never be a deciding factor.

27. Some women need reassurance. Others need to know that it's not just a waste of time. The reason I want to talk about our relationship is (1) makes sure we're on the same page about everything, (2) Helps address any problems, (3) My need to know things, (4) It's healthy to talk about your relationship with your partner. I had a boyfriend who couldn't talk about things and it ruined us. If we talked about issues when they happened, we could have fixed things, but he refused to deal with things, so it went sour. I think talking about the relationship is essential.

1. I think part of it is that women are constantly thinking, and I know for a fact if I see something, it will remind me of something else and so on.. eventually it gets back to old issues. Also, I bring up old issues mainly if they are left unresolved. If I can't fully solve an issue in my life, I will bring it up later because something about it still bothers me.

2. I know I do this sometimes. Sometimes I'm shy, other times I just don't know what to say. I have a problem where sometimes I don't speak up. Also, I want to see sometimes if the guy notices that it really bothers me. It's always good when guys notice how you feel, understand it and help you get through it.

3. I don't think this one is true. I know many women who swear against relationships. I know many men who don't like the single life. I think it depends on the person and how they were raised and what has happened to them in previous relationships.

4. Have you ever cheated on your past or present boyfriend(s)? Never. I've been cheated on pretty badly, but I have never and will never cheat. Ever.

5. I used to believe that. It's harder when you're madly in love with someone and they cheat on you. It happened to me and there is still a part of me that wants to forgive him. I am too forgiving. It's pretty bad. I want to believe that if someone makes a mistake they can realize what they have done and change. For the most part, I don't think many cheaters actually change.

6. I would love to get married, but I would only marry if I found the right person. Otherwise, I'll never walk down the isle.

7. Physically - eyes, Personality - either sense of humour or intelligence

8. I honestly don't like to gossip. I don't like drama, and if I say something about someone else, it's not gossip, it's just news.

9. If I need advice about my relationship I will tell certain friends, but I like to keep private issues staying in the relationship. However, if I can't talk to my partner, I am bound to share everything with extremely close friends. (To clarify, I was just in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable man who didn't like serious conversation)

10. So we look good? It's pretty simple. Makeup smudges, foundation can wear off. It's about looking good and feeling confident.

11. I only want kids if I find a compatiple partner who I want to spend the rest of my life with. So when I find him and know I'm keeping him for good, I'll consider kids. Idealy, I would like children around age 28-30yrs old (I'm only 22 now)

12. I can ask absolutely anything and everything. Why? Because there is no question I am too afraid to know the answer to. If I am that afraid to know, it can't be good news. I'm a need-to-know stuff kinda girl. If something bothers me enough, I won't eat or sleep because I need to know.

1. for the most part probably because their not over it
2. they might too mad or not want to tell?
3. to have that comfort zone
4. yes :( unfortuntely. that was dumb
5. no I believe if you don't love yourself you cannot love someone else
6 I'm not sure probably
7. tattoos, piercings, guages, and personality wise funny and able to laugh at himself (laid back and confiden)
8. to bring up conversation?
9. not everything somethings are private
10. they might be insecure about the way they look
11. after finished with college and my goals.
12. sex relationships with other girls
13. probably questions about him and checking out girls...maybe
14. maybe if it was serious just to see if he was clean or what not
15. yes why not?
16. its confusion I don't know how to answer that
17. I guess not girls can too, its just awkward for me personally
18. honesty
19. ...
20. give me butterflies :) not literally haha
21. be cheesy or annoying
22. distance or guilt
23. I don't care but I might kinda wonder what they see in him...maybe get jealous but wouldn't make it a deal
24. because they like going out and having vriety of girls the game is fun
25. pornography I don't care. strip clubs...hed have to show me loyalty first
26. a little. obviously you don't want it too big but really small could be lame
27. their happy? and are excited about the future? idk

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8) I have always wondered the same thing because I have never been wone to gossip because it leads to nothing but problems
7)physically the first thing that attracts me to a man is his eyes, I think you can tell a lot about a person from what you see in thier eyes, and Personality wise the first would have to be that I have something in common with them, other then that knowing something about what is going on in the world is a big thing for me as is the ability to make me laugh
6)Yes I do want to get married eventually when I find the right guy for me and I think I have
5) Not really because I think that people always deserve at least a second chance, but if someone cheats on me then no I would not go back out with the person unles I was completly sure that I was in love with them and that I knew that it was a mistake and would not happen again
4) Yes I have cheated in the past and it was the worst mistake I have ever made and I have made some huge mistakes in my life, but this one caused me to lose someone that meant the world to me , and I saw how much I hurt that person so no I would never do it again
3) personally I don't feel that way but I think that the reason that some women feel that way is that they feel validated when they have a man in thier lifes, and they feel like life is complete
2) I have done this in the past and its because I just didn't fel like talking about because I knew a fight and argument would insue becasue of the way I was feeling, but other times I think it;s just because they don-t feel like burdening the other person with the way they feel too, I have also always wondered why guys do it so I try not to do it too much
1) I have always teird not to do this but some times you just can't help but want to reslove the issues that maybe weren't dealt with back in the past, but personally I know that bringing up old issues never makes anything but a bigger problem so I don't do it

First off I love this question, it 's a bg change from what I have seen on a lot of these questions on here...Age 23

27) because some women feel the need to define a relationship to feel that is actually a relationship..Personally I don't unless I have been talking to a guy for a couple of months and I still don't know wether or not we are considered BF/GF
26)NO! I keep telling men and women that no it does not matter, to me it how you use the tool not the size of it
25) yes because I know that he is not comparing it to me, and that I am in no danger of losing him just because he likes to look at porn or go to a strip club
24) I don't think most men are afraid of commitment, some just haven't reached that point in thier lives where the feel the need to settle down, to me it has to do with maturity of the male that your dating
23)yes I think it if fine, because I am not dating that person anymore...you should just let a good period of time pass before you move in on the guy...Let the wounds close before you open them by dating the ex
22) I think that honestly you can't really tell unless the person is blantly flaunting it, because everyone acts differently
21) disrespect me or my family
20)just respeact me and don't play games with me
19)Talk about thier feelings more and learn to actually express thier feelings toward a girl,
18) just quit playing head games with us either you like us for who we are or you don't
17)no I think women should approach men just as much as a man should approach a female, like I keep sayign quit playing games with each other
16) when they want to know everything you do and when you do it and how you do it...basically when they become more of a parental figure then a signifcant other, and when they want to be with you every minute of the day..i understand that you love me but sometimes I jsut want a little personal space
15)I tell the truth because honesty is the most important factor in a relationship
14) in some yes I would be a little curious but in the end I would know that it would only make me mad and insecure about the sex life of my relationship but for me that is just because I am a little insecure about my body somtimes so I would always wonder if he was comparing me to his last girlfriend
13) If his last girlfriend was better in bed then me, and I would never ask because no matter what the answer would be I wouldn't like or I wouldn't believe it
12) see above
11) I don't really have an age that I want kids but I do want them but I want to be married and be able to give them a better childhood then I had so I would want to be stable and be completly sure that I could support them
10) to make sure I look good for my guy, and personally I don;t do it as often as some people I know or as much as they make it look like a women does in the movies and on tv
9)No some things in a relationship are just between the people in that relationship, one major thing for me is I don't kiss and tel

1. looking for sympathy/attention
2. She's not ready to talk about it yet...or she is just trying to make him mad.
3. Attention, love?, companionship, girls can only go so far and then a boy is needed (you can quote me on that...anonymously.)
4. Never had one, but if I did, I wouldn't cheat.
5. No, just like the songs say "ch-ch-ch-changes!" people change.
6. Yes.
7. Physically: Straight teeth and pretty eyes. Personally: Funny and thoughtful
8. sympathy, "get it off their chest", guilt, anger
9. Never had a relationship. But I'd tell to a point. After kissing is too far to tell.
10. Self-awarness and self-conscious "Must be attractive 24/7"
11. 26
12. How many porn movies have you watched?
13. How many women have you slept with? I'd ask just to stop myself from wondering.
14. Probably. answer above^
15. Never had boyfriend, but I'd tell the truth unless I've slept around which I haven't.
16. Presents aren't everything. Too many presents and you get smothered, but love doesn't smother unless the other is OBSESSED.
17. Ideally, yes, but it all depends. Usually guys are shy, but they shouldn't be weirded out when the girl approaches. They were too p**** to do it in the first place!
18. Thoughtfulness. If boys thought about what a girl wanted (and vice versa) the relationship would grow stronger.
19. Cockyness needs to take it down a notch...or five. Not all guys are like that, but some just get to wrapped around themselves.
20. Sing a song for me that he wrote.
21. Smother me...be obsessed.
22. Pauses in conversations, head down while talking to aviod eye contact, return late at night.
23. Depends if I'm over him or not.
24. I'm taking this from a guy friend's opinion not from mine (I personally don't have one). "A commitment means one vagina for the rest of your life."
25. No. That sends the message of him not be satisfied with me.
26. Well...yeah. Not to sound picky, but my friend say the bigger the better. But if the guy is a great person but has a small dick, it all evens out.
27. I honestly don't know. Maybe because they like to gloat about their relationship status?

1.i personally don't
2.i only say that after I'm upset about something that I told you really bothers me yet you've made no effort to stop or slow it and I'm sick of sounding like a parrot
3. we want to be loved completely through and through and most think the only way is through a man
4.never and never will
5. usually can tell varies from guy to guy
6. yup
7. eyes
8. I don't. used to though, makes us feel better about our situation
9. yup yup
10. don't wear any of that kind
11. I'm adopting when I feel I'm ready which is no time soon
12. if you had to change the way I looked what would you change
13. I'll have to think on that one
14. yeah, sex bonds people whether they know it or not. I want to know how many people you broke that bond with
15. I don't say the number only under"x"
16. when I can't fart without you knowing about it
17.yes. I'm old fashioned and usually when the girl approaches she's labeled as depserate
18.time management. learn how to split time between me and everything else. when you have no time I think you have no interest therefore you'll have no me
19. truth about their dating life. is she the only one, are there feelings for someone else, were you hurt badly and she's a rebound?
20.write a nice song about me. doesn't have to rhyme, be sung well or anything. leave me smiley notes, be random ask me if I want to go walking in the middle of a rain storm
21. break a promise that can easily be kept
22.i don't know that's not something I'd do so...
23. no, just because the relationship is done doesn't mean I'm over him. I don't need my friend talking to me about what romantic thing he did for her only to realize he did the same for me.
24. they don't want responsibility. no one to check in with. no one to make sure is ok. no one to hurt by looking at porn in the open or flirting. no one to keep secrets relationships (aka sex partners) from ect
25. no, it makes me think. am I not enough. do I need double d's a huge butt and a six pack for him to want me that way.
26. yeah too big and it will hurt.
27. um I don't do that

12. What's one question you would never ask your boyfriend, because you don't want to know the answer?
A. How many people they've slept with. It's always a higher number than mine I'm pretty sure of that.
14. Would you want to know how many women your boyfriend has slept with? Why?
A. Check above answer
15. Do you tell the truth when your boyfriend asks you how many men you've slept with? If no, do you underestimate or over exaggerate?
A. I've never been asked I probably would underestimate not that its been very many but I'm ashamed of the fact I've only really wanted to sleep with one guy so everyone else was just a because he was there kinda thing.
21. What's the one thing a man could do to completely turn you off?
A. Not beable to stimulate my mind as well as me.Hee Hee
20. What's the one thing a man could do to win your heart?
A. Treat me like girlfriends treat each other anticipate my needs and thoughts appreciate me for me.
18. Think of one thing that you think the male sex could improve when it comes to a relationship
A. Communication on their emotions
5. Do you believe "once a cheater, always a cheater"?
A. It's about fulfilling a need their girlfriend or boyfriend wasen't giving and they weren't willing to have positive ackward communication to improve it. Cheating is actually an emotional thing and not really about the act of sex.
26. Ok ladies.. Be honest: Does size really matter? The men are dying to know!
A. Not really but it helps because a well endowed person usually knows it and they are confident about what he's doing as a not so bigger person is not mostly cause they can't do to much about it but if they learn how to work it. It probably wouln't matter to a girl especially if she loved you already.
27. Why do women always insist on talking about the relationship, and "where it's going" when things are going just fine?
Women don't want to waste time and look stupid while your out playing the field whether it is having sex with other people or not. They actually have a right to know what you think of them and what is or is not going to happen. We realize you won't be able to anticipate everything but some general idea to reassure you still really want to be with her is mostly what women are looking for if you could give a good answer even if it wasen't what we wanted to here it would still be appreciated because then we can make a better choice based on facts rather than our imagination. We want a choice to have what happens to us too. And usually things aren't all that fine if she has to ask anyways it is only in a guys mind where things are fine.

1) becouse even after month or so it still hurts, and its always there. I can bring something up even after a year, like we say its easy to forgive, but hard to forget.
2) becouse its a lot easier to say I'm fine, and leave him confuesed and guesing, instead of admit that he hurted u
3)becouse its makes us feel wanted and good about ourselfs, no one really wants to be alone
4) its depends of situation, I have once, becouse I didn't realise what I already got.
5)no people do change, things can happen
6) yes I think it makes you feel like a family
7)both- looks and personality, you have to have both
8) becouse that is the way we are
9) maybe not really everything, but in most cases I do. its nice to talk and det somebodys else opinion in things
10) I never do that so can't answer
11) Can't answer that, I think when the moment is right, when you feel like it
12) when things are going wrong I'm scared to ask don't you want to be with me anymore?
13)The same as ?12
14)yes I would like to know, so I know if he is a ladys man and a player
15) I tell the truth if he can't live with that then what's the point
16) Romence for me can never be too much as I am very loving person my self. But if its beginin of the ralationship then too much sweetness and attention can drive me away.
17) No I don't believe in that if you want go and get it. cos some guys are really shy them selfs so they may never do the first step
18) Be more understandable about how we react on things and how we emotionaly express them (crying) becouse we are a lot more sensative than guys
19) they should express more how they feel about us, its always nice to hear nice things
20) be charming
21) be a complete a-hole
22) there could be a lot of things, I suppose the same what in guys( changin ways, going out more to see friends, changin apperance etc)
23)NO NO NO .Cos no matter that he is your ex its just out of question
24) can't answe I'm not a guy
25)I don't mind if he watches porno,(some people get turned on by watchin) but I think I would mind stripers
26)I don't think it does. Bigger sixe doesn't always mean better in bed. Smaller can prove to be waaaay better sometimes. It depends of a men himself, how strong is his sex drive and is he willing to be experimental or just boring and do old same old
27) becouse sometimes we tend to feel insecure and we always like to fish for compliments to feed our ego, to feel needed and wanted.

Hope this helps =)

Part 2, Continued...

25. I'm not okay with strip clubs, because with my experience it didn't go too well when I had went, BUT now I realized that it was dumb to expect a stripper having a young guy come up to her asking for a lapdance to just want topless only and not just completely undress. They become addicting, and I think he should be with his girlfriend/wife if she's OK with it going with each other once and a while would be healthy. Not alone though, because I feel it's not healthy for the relationship.

Pornography, ugh... if it's used in a manner where it's before his significant other. It can destroy her self-esteem. I had horribly experience because my current boyfriend is addicted, and I want to get him help. I'm fine with watching it with one another, I think that is a healthy thing for a relationship, but I just think it's unhealthy if he can't have sex with her without wanting to watch it after or before. But it is fine when we're not together and he's in the mood, and I wouldn't be home for a while longer.

26. Size DOES matter but doesn't have to be HUGE just not tiny..sorry =\ No less than a 4 or 5 in my opinion.

27. I actually don't talk about my relationship and where it's headed, but I do have a girlfriend who does, and I am so annoyed with her always talking about it, I think woman just want to know the man loves her and is willing to marry her and to know there is no other.

1. Because it still possibly affects her, or maybe she believes the answer given wasn't the truth.

2. With me, I'm wording everything in my head first, before I let everything out.

3. The instinct of feeling "protected" and "wanted"

4.Never cheated, never will.

5. Yes, you open the doors to something and especially if you get away with it once, you will want to keep doing it that's how I see it.

6. Yes, when I'm absolutely ready, and he is 100% ready.

7. Physically - taller than me, nice face / smile, in shape body.
Personality - Open-minded, caring, thoughtful of others and informed of what's going on around the world and not just USA. and someone with goals is very important.

8. Everyone gossips in some form or another.. but women feel they have to let everyone know that juicy piece of info they just heard even though it could be untrue.. it just aches if we don't tell one soul!

9. Not [ everything ] because I think some things should definitely remain between you and your partner.

10. We are always in competition with one another, no matter if we already have a significant other, or not, we were made to catch in the prey, or a man to notice us.

11. I [ wanted ] to have children when I was 22 or 23, I had one a year and a half earlier though.

12. Has/does he ever think of another woman or body part from another woman while we're intimate.

13. Is it when he looks at porn, that he really isn't completely satisfied with me? I don't want to ask because it will probably cause a fight. =[

14. Yes, because since we are serious and have a son together, I have a right to know, or in the beginning of the relationship it kind of establishes a question to see how safe he was during sex in order to get him tested, also.

15. Yes, I thought he deserved to know how many I was with before we had slept together ourselves.

16. Possibly something all the time, I like spontaneous and out of the ordinary romance. Something that stays alive and doesn't wear out.

17. I do believe he should come first because I don't want to seem too desperate. The way I see it is, if I had made eye contact with you, and showed you I was interested, that's an open invitation for you and your invited to come and chat.

18. Opening up about his feelings, and what he wants.

19. Stop starring at other woman while your with your significant other. It's rude to me and her, just glance and let that be it.

20. Listen to my feelings and wants in life.

21. Smell bad. Or during intercourse, lose an erection, honestly.. it is a turn-off because I would think it's me.

22. Constantly accuse him of cheating. It's a sign of guilt BUT doesn't mean she did it, but maybe there is a man in her life trying to be with her or maybe he can just ask if he really thinks she is?

24. They don't want to be "caged" and lose there "freedom" I think that's what they think will happen.

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Age 24

1. Because I was not happy with the answer/solution and something similar probably happened again.
2. Because sometimes I need time to stop and pull my thoughts together. I don't want to say it right away when I'm fueled with all these emotions.
3. Because growing up I was taught that being in a relationship would make me happiest. I've learned otherwise.
4. No.
5. In some cases, yes. I think it depends on the reason why the person cheated.
6. I'm not sure yet, but probably yes.
7. Physically, his eyes. Personality, witty and humorous.
8. I think most people gossip, not just women. Sometimes, I just need to get things off my chest that I've heard or I want to hear other people's opinions.
9. No, I don't. I make it a point not to talk too badly about boyfriends, even after a break up.
10. I don't wear makeup or powder my nose. I rely on my natural beauty.
11. I'm not sure I want kids. I'd adopt if anything, and not until later in life.
12. What's the worst thing you've ever done to a woman?
13. How many women have you slept with? I wouldn't ask because I wouldn't want him to ask me.
14. See #13. I would want to know just out of curiosity, but I'd be afraid he'd look at me differently if I told him my number if he asked me back.
15. I would tell the truth.
16. When he goes overboard and does it all the time or does too much. It no longer becomes something special.
17. No I don't. Some people are shy. I'm not shy so it would be easier for me to approach first.
18. In the initial stages, none of this hot and cold business (ie. interested one day, not the next day, etc.). In a long-term relationship, listening more. If I say I need time to think, I mean it.
19. See #18. Just be honest when asked a question. Don't confuse women.
20. Be there for me in the hardest times.
21. Become distant when something is wrong with him.
22. Going out more. Spending more time at work or school or wherever. More use of her phone. Not wanting to hang out with boyfriend/husband. I've never cheated, but these are things that my ex did.
23. Yes, if I was over him and it was a mutual or fairly civil break up. No, if he cheated on me or did something horrible to me because I'd still be hurt, plus I wouldn't want him to do the same to my friend.
24. Same reason I am. Because of a lack of freedom and having to change some aspects of my life that I enjoy.
25. Yes. I just don't see anything wrong with it if it's what he likes. I wouldn't want him to not allow me to do what I like. Btw, I watch porn and would like to go to a strip club someday.
26. I do appreciate an average or bigger size, but if it's small and the man knows what he's doing, it's fine with me.
27. Because there's always another step to go. If you just started dating, then will you end up in a serious, committed relationship? If you're in a serious, long-term relationship, will it lead to marriage, etc. etc. etc.

ok first, I'm 16...and here's my answers :)
1.i really don't know why we do that...usually I only bring it up if something reminds me of that topic =/
2.i personally just don't like to be bothered about what's going on with me so I pretend I'm fine. if I decide to tell you later it means that I feel better about telling it to you.
3.personally I don't feel the need to be in a relationship but why some women do is probably because they always want someone to care for them and to support them...thats my guess
4.no I haven't and I don't plan on it either
5.Yes...no question about it...
6. I'm not entirely sure yet =/
7. physically I like tall guys for some reason...cause I'm short lol and if he has a certain confidence to him it attracts me right away. personality wise I like humorous guys who aren't afraid of being themselves in front of everyone around them.
8.I don't always gossip but I think the reason why some women always do is because either thwey are jealous of the person or they get a thrill out of it.
9.No. I keep some things secret.
10.Well, I don't "powder my nose" rofl. I usually check my make up about 5 to 6 times a day but I think its really because I want to look presentable and make sure it didn't smudge or anything. lol I just don't want to be embarassed because my make up smudged and I look like a clown or something..or if I have a chocolate stain or something...that would be embarrassing...
11. I don't know if I want kids yet but if I do id say around 25 or 26...somewhere in my 20s id say. id rather have them kinda early.
12. I'm not sure, but I think I wouldn't ask Do you really love me? I would just feel awkward asking that and I would be afraid to know.
13.Id say Are you cheating on me? would be something I wouldn't ask but want to know the answer to...
14.No because id be better off not knowing...because than once I find out that's all I'll think about.
15.yes I tell the truth. only because I haven't slept with a lot of guys.
16.When he's all you ever hang out with and you don't have any time with your friends.
17.Yes because it makes it a lot easier on me...i just want to know if you like me or not...i don't like trying to find out myself..
18.Guys could be alittle more observant when us women get a haircut or get new clothes...because I would really appreciate a complement once in awhile when I've gotten a haircut or not...i want to know if you think it looks good..believe it or not, the boyfriend's opinion is the most important opinion to us.
19.i think the male gender should stop being so immature...it pisses me off...i can't date guys that are younger than me because of this...
20.writing me a heartfelt song or poetry would be nice :) I find that the most romantic thing ever
21. if he's totally obnoxious or if he acts creepy/ perverted I totally can't deal with him.
22. if she's staying out with "friends" after midnight...shes probably cheating

1. probably because we don't give up the past.
2. I really don't know. I do it to. maybe its because we don't really want to explain anything.
3. because we are scared of being alone the rest of our lives. so we try and find a relationship early on in our lives.
4. nope. once a cheater always a cheater.
5. obviously.
6. well yes.
7. eyes smile. how he treats me. and definitely his butt. lol.
8. because we are scared to give away crap about ourselves.
9. umm. totally. because its not good for a women to keep all that to herself. lol.
10. they are scared that they are ugly.
11. I don't really want any kids. I don't know why. but the main reason is I don't want to clean up their barf.
12. have you ever had sex with another person.
13. I speak what's on my mind.
14. no.
15. umm. I plan to stay a virgin until I get married.
16. I don't really know to be honest.
17. yes because we women were not raised that way (at least I hope not)
18. ummm definitely on thinking about their words first.
19. same thing as the answer to question 18
20. when I find out I will tell you.
21. pop a zit. ewww.
22. I don't know!
23. no. at least not my friends.
24. because they don't want to wake up to the same breasts and vaginas every morning.
25. no. because if he is commited to me. then he should only look at my body.
26. umm. yeah sorta.
27. I don't know. quite dumb frankley.

1. Because we never told you how we really felt and now is ouropportunity
2.because we don't want you to think we're insane or nagging
3. media, peer pressure, need to feel loved
4.no
5.not sure
6.YES!
7.Physically, ima tall dark and handsome gal, plus a nice smileand good teeth oooh and a six pack,personality: I believe if you can makea girl laugh you can make her do anything and just genuine affection.
8. because its who we are women ike gossiping & handbags, men like cars& football
9. Not nessecarily
10. because again we are insecure and want to make sure our makeup is right ( not just for men but under the watchful eye of fellow ladyfolk checking out the competition
11. 25-30
12. not sure, sorry
13. what does he honesty thinkof my whole body, afraid of the answer
14. Yes and no, yes because I think it would show what type of guy he is, player or shy guy and no because if extremely high or low I could just be freaked out
15. overexaggerate
16. it really depends on the guy himself and how much you like him, if it feels too forced on his part id feel trapped
17. yes, because I'm a traditional gal and way too shy :(
18. being moreopen minded and less show offy if that makes sense, its just a total turn off
19. hygine, I have a younger brother, I've seen it all
20. its a gradual thing
21. anything mildly unhygenic4
22. no idea
23. yes if you are wel and truly over him, because quite simply if you don't want him she might be able to get use from him
24. because some women are obsessed with ahving children
25.yes because I do so why shouldnt he have the same opportunities
26. no just what you do with it
27 because we don't like wasting our time

Age-23
1. I can forgive, but not forget. I get easily wounded.
2. Because we are usually mad about something for the 15th time and if you don't know what you did wrong by now you never will so it isn't worth talking about!
3.I don't feel this way I would rather be alone and be able to find someone worthwhile then be in a dead-end relationship.
4.NO and I never would, that is immoral.
5 Yes, people can change but I think cheating is a like a addiction for some and I don't want to deal with it.
6.NO , I think most marriages fail because people don't look at it as a scared union, and I fear marrying and having it fail.
7.Physically-big arms and shoulder and a nice smile, personality someone FUNNY!
8.Only women with boring lives gossip. I believe in karma so anything I have to say I say to someones face!
9.No, some things are too personal
10.Insercurites.
11.I have a one year old little girl and I don't want anymore.
12.Nothing I love the truth even when it hurts
13.See above
14. Yes it is a part of being honest and open. Secrets can make or break a relationship.
15.YES I have only been with 3 men so I have no shame
16.When it seems stalkerish
17.Yes, because I am old fashioned that way, and lazy lol
18. Communication, it wouldn't kill them to tell us more of what they want and don't want.
19.Be honest. Don't play head games, just be upfront about your feelings so nobody gets hurt.
20.Treat me the way they want to be treated.
21.Try to screw me when first meeting me or coming on too strong
22.Distance, seeing friends more, change in apperances, disinterest in sex
23.No it is a unwritten rule. Anyways who want sloppy seconds?
24.Because they feel why settle for Strawberry when there is Rocky Road and chocolate still avaliable to men. They feel the grass is always greener on the other side.
25.NO to strip clubs. Why throw money at some skank that can be spent to take me to dinner also its disrespectful. Would you like us to have strange penis in our face? Porno doesn't bother me that much, it isn't as up close and personal as a strip club.
26.Kinda, you have to be able to feel it!
27.Because we are unsure creatures. We are always planning for tomorrow and trying to make sure we do everything right so we don't drive the man we love away. Although this can backfire because it comes across as nagging.

age:16

1. we haven't said everything we've wanted to say, or need attention from the issue.
2. We want to know if the guy really cares for us, if he doesn't then he'll just be like w/e. but if he keeps bugging you about it then you know he really cares about you.
3. they need to be talked about by others, or maybe like the attention.
4. no
5. depends on the situation, but yes.
6. not right now, boys are stupid
7. physically=shaggy hair...kind of a laid back vibe but not dirty as in he hasn't showered to achieve the chilled out look <_< .
personality= he can make me laugh and jokes around, but knows when to be serious as well. also, immaturity is NOT a turn on .
8. I feel I talk about gossip when everyone else is just to be included in the convo, and its funny to see peoples reactions to some of the gos
9. nope
10.insecurity, unconfident ... feel they need to impress guys 24/7 .
11. I don't want kids
12. do I look fat in this ?
13. something about crazy sex positions.. he might think I'm a freak :S
14.yes, my friend found out her boyfriend had sex with over 90 girls. she is still with him ... I think its disgusting. but I'm glad she knows, because now she's never having sex with him haha!
15. well I'm a virgin, so I would be sort of embarassed to say that I'm one to a guy.
16. I hate guys who are CLINGY. that is the worst
17. yes, if a girl aproaches a guy and it fails then her emotions will be shot for the next month. we're really insecure about approaching guys.
18. not being so immature,saying "i love you" and actually mean it
19. spend time with your girlfriend not your flippin x-box
20. compliments ! always has a way to make me smile,
21. burping/farting in public. acting like a 2 year old, if he dresses like a cowboy
22. we avoid hanging out, or not talk as often as you used to
23. NO,i've dealt with the breakup once...i don't wanna hear about my friend breaking up with him either because all your gonna hear is "i told you so"
24. they can only hit on 1 girl out of 384783274 other girls
25. yeah it doesn't matter
26. yes it does . I had this crush on a guy and then heard rumours that his dick was small and I completely lost interest, its harsh but its the truth.
27. you always want to make sure he feels the same way you do

1. Because we feel it hasn't been resolved and he did something that made us think of it & we want them to know we haven't forgotten & it's still not ok.
2. The moments not right or we're waiting until we can talk about it without being overly emotional.
3. I don't, but it's comforting to feel like someone's looking out for you or there's someone out there you can depend on, or would at least notice if you didn't make it home.
4. NEVER
5. Yes
6. I honestly don't know
7. It's one of three...sense of humor, easy to talk to, chemistry. Physically: I like tall guys
8. I don't think it's meant to be malicious but it's entertaining
9. No
10. Because make-up shifts & if I'm going to be looking someone square in the eye to hold a conversation I need to make sure I don't look like some kind of a crazy person
11. I don't know that I do want kids but I wouldn't want to wait any later than 35 when you enter high risk pregnancy stats
12. Do you still love your ex
13. How do you really feel about my body? I'm curious because when I need that extra motivation in the gym he's the one I think about but I don't ask because 1. it sounds pathetic and 2. if it's something I can't change I don't want to be self concious about it because that would be worse.
14. Yes & No. Yes, because if you're sleeping with me I want to know what kind of a risk I'm taking and No because I don't like thinking about him with other people
15. Yes
16. Too much romance early on is scary but random romantic gestures from someone you're in a relationship with is nice. It's nice to know they were thinking about you.
17. YES, if you want go for it. It says a lot about his character
18. Sometimes we try to explain how we feel and all you hear is our being critical of you. It's not about you!
19. Go for what you want, have some confidence in yourself and she will have confidence in you too.
20. I don't know that there is just ONE thing...
21. Smoking
22. I don't know... I've never done it
23. I guess it depends on the ex. I can think of some I couldn't care less about but there's one that would really upset me. Why? because I still have feelings for him
24. They're afraid they may be selling themselves short & there's something better around the corner. Either that or they think they're giving up a part of themselves &/or compromising their lifestyle.
25. Strip clubs, NO! That's gross (unless it's a bachelor party or some such thing I guess) Porn, Yes! It's fun =)
26. Yes, if it's too big it's a TURN OFF! I've never really encounterd a penis that was too small
27. For me, it's because I'm a planner. I've been making decisions for myself for a long time and to take you into consideration while I'm planning is scary. I guess I need to make sure you're on the same page & on board.

age 15- answers are from my point of view, not the view of All women!
1) We simply do it because we can.
2) We want to know that they care enough to see through our lie and find out what's really up.
3) Most women feel the need to be in a relationship because we need the constant reminder that someone does love us, counts on us and need us.
4) No, I have never cheated. I know what its like to be cheated on, and I never want to cause someone that pain.
5) I do believe "once a cheater, always a cheater" If theyre willing to cheat once, what makes you think the next time will be any different.
6) Someday, but I feel that love is more than a piece of paper, you don't need to be married to love someone unconditionally.
7) I always go for a tall, dark haired, well dressed man and always the bad boy.There's just something sexy about a guy who doesn't give a ****, an a**hole at times but still has that sensitive side.
8) Women gossip because were bored with our own lives, so we talk about others.
9) No, no one needs to know everything.
10) We like looking our best so we can get attention and turn a couple heads.
11) Early 20's.
12) Hmm..thats a hard one. I can't think of one, everything that I wouldn't want to know the answer too, I would also want to know the answer.
13) Another hard one, if you can't ask a question that you want the answer to, what does that show? You can't ask a question..why not?
14) Yes, to get an estimate of how many girls I have to be better at in bed. Ha! but at the same time, its in his past...why know.
15) Yes, I'm not ashamed of my past. Two (including him) isn't bad.
16) We want romance, yes. But we don't want them to try too hard or cross boundaries. It really depends on how long theyve been together and how well they know eachother, that will determine the boundaries of smothering and the level of romance to go for.
17) Yes, I've always been the approachee, so I wouldn't know what to do being the approacher.
18) Showing and or talking about emotions! Men leave everything a mystery, how are we to solve anything without knowing what they think or feel!
19) Just have confidence, but don't over do it.
20) Honestly, I don't know the answer to this question..
21) Talk about previous relationships! (ie. how amazing she is in bed..that sort of stuff)
22) Lack of affection, shady attitude and accusing him of cheating (they always accuse the other of doing what theyre doing)
23) Depends on the seriousness of the relationship
24) Afraid of losing their freedom, women taking over their "man cave" so to speak
25) Yeah, strip clubs and porn isn't always a bad thing. My rule is "look but don't touch" As long as they obey that, theyre in the clear.
26) Yes! It has to be big enough to hit the right spot, but not so big its scary.
27) We like to know what to expect in the future, plan ahead. Know weather to buy one plane ticket home for christmas or two.

1. I think it's because we haven't let it go yet. Also because we want the guy to know that if he pulls any of the same things that said "guy we're talking about" did, then we'll kick him to the curb. Also, we want the guy to symphasize with us and be like "Yeah that's guy's a jerk too."
2. We often feel like it's too much trouble to explain or that guys don't like it when we express our feelings anyway. Why bother?
3. Not always. Just some more than others. It's a security thing I believe.
4. Yeah. Once. But he was cheating on me too.
5. No. I think people can change. I give people the benefit of the doubt.
6. someday. But not now.
7. Physically I love eyes. Personality Wise: I love it when a guy listens and lets me talk as well.
8. Why do women "always gossip"? We're bored with our own lives. And it's jealousy.
9. No. That stuff's personal.
10. Insecurity. Men always say they like looks, therefore we want to look good for you. Give us a break!
11. 30s.
12. What's the craziest thing you've ever done with a girl?
13. What's the most annoying thing about me? It might be bad because it could be something that he's always lied about.
14. Yeah. So that I know if he's being safe and about possible STDS and stuff. Why wouldn't you.
15. Yes. What's the point in lying?
16. When the guy wants that 24/7 all the time. And it seems like he doesn't have a life besides me. Always calling, asking nosy questions, etc.
17. No. I believe in equality for both sexes. It's the 21st century for crying out loud. Who cares who does what?
18. Tell me his feelings a little bit. Be honest.
19. Give up the macho act. You CAN be a little sensitive you know.
20. Just be honest and tell me he likes me. Be straightforward.
21. Bragging about his sex life during the first date.
22. aloofness, disinterest, bogus excuses for as why she's busy, leaving the room when she gets a phonecall, a lot of secretive text messaging, sudden change of plans.
23. No. Too much drama goes on. It would be weird to think of my ex and my friend making out or sleeping together. weird..
24. They don't want to be tied down. They want to do what they want and with who they want.
25. No. He has a girlfriend. He shouldn't have to do that. If he doesn't like me, then break up with me and do that stuff.
26. No. It's more about how you use it. lol
27. Because we want to know what the guy is really thinking. We don't want any secrets. Like I've said before, women are all about honesty and sharing their feelings.

1. I'm not exactly sure but my opinion is that when they want a guy to look bad they'll say everything that they remember a guy did wrong, and they have good memories when it comes to people's actions.
2. because they're afraid of getting in a fight
3. because we were both born and raised that way; for security and to feel loved
4. no
5. no; if a guy finds the right girl then it's very possible that he won't cheat on her even though he's cheated before
6. yes
7. hair [longish] and body [slim]; good listener and sense of humor
8. we have nothing better to do, and we're very relational
9.yes, and even though my "best friends" are all guys now, I still tell them a lot about the special and used-to-be special guys in my life
10. we want to look as good as we can for you guys
11. no later than 25
12. how far have you gone with a girl?
13. Do you love me? because I might think that either he's lying if he says yes or I would feel anxious if he doesn't say yes [I don't have a boyfriend btw]
14. no; I don't want to think about him being with other girls
15. yes I would tell the truth because that would be 0! [now if he asked how many guys I've kissed withing one month - which is 3 - I would be embarrassed to tell because that would make me look like a player or a slut]
16. when it's texting or calling to say "I love you" or any other romantic thing every day and bringing flowers and candy every date
17. yes; both because I don't want to seem desperate or like a weirdo if I approach him first and it shows that he really is interested in me, or at least what I look like
18. everything, no just kidding; I think that he should do more work when he likes a girl such as contact her more and actually ask her out, also if he's going to be physical like at least kissing then he should expect to make somewhat of a commitment to her
19. see above
20. just ask me out already! and have good conversations with me, and to be willing to at least cuddle and/or make out with me
21. ignore me
22. not want to be seen in public with him, acting very busy
23. yes if the relationship was from a while back
24. they like their freedom and they're afraid/may know that they'll lose it if they have an exclusive girlfriend; also they might also like having more than one girl around
25. nope; I think it's degrading and if he's going to be with me then he better not be thinking about other girls that way even if he doesn't know them
26. not when it comes to what you're talking about, but yes when it comes to their whole body
27. because they want things to progress

25. it actually hurts me pretty bad, but at the same time, I realize he should be able to do what he wants, just like I can.
26. it does, but not the way most guys think. if it's too small, the guy can always make up for it with is hands and tongue, but if it's too big, it just hurts!
27. i... have no idea. I've never met a woman who does that.

1. women bring up old issues that happened months ago because, in my opinion, women are less likely to forgive and forget for fear of being hurt again. there is always that wall of caution there, so something reminds us of a bad time even if it was months ago.
2. I personally say "i'm fine" usually when a) I know he will get upset with me if I tell him the truth of how I'm feeling, or b) there is someone else in the room I don't want to discuss it in front of.
3. I think it has something to do with insecurity. that said, I know several women who are perfectly fine being single, so I'm really not sure.
4. never without express permission
5. yes.
6. I don't know that I'm the marrying type, but I have found a guy who wants to, so I'm keeping my options open.
7. physically, it's really more of an overall appearance than one or two features I look for. personality-wise, I like a guy who has a sense of humor as wicked as mine, but at the same time is not shy with the compliments.
8. we don't.
9. not unless I'm asked
10. I think it goes back once again to insecurity, though I have to say most women I know don't do this.
11. I'm not sure I want kids, but if I do have them eventually, probably in my late 20s or early 30s.
12. I can't think of anything for this one
13. I ask him pretty much everything I am curious about
14. I do know that, and it's comforting to know he's not "been around," but it's not vital to know
15. I tell the truth if I'm asked
16. it becomes too much, or smothering, for a couple of reasons. either they are not particularly attracted to the guy, or they get the feeling he is faking it to get them in bed.
17. I don't believe he "should," as this is the time for women's equality if there ever was one, but I sure do like it when he does.
18. just reading these questions answers this question for me. it is unbelievable how much women are stereotyped... not all women are the same.
19. base their qualifications of a relationship more on a woman's personality than purely how she looks
20. there is no "one thing." my heart is won through many small, caring gestures.
21. tell me I could stand to lose some weight. compare me to another girl. ogle other women in front of me. the list goes on. I am a territorial, insecure creature, and anything that aggravates that is generally a turn-off.
22. disinterest in sex, emotional distance... the exact same ways a woman can tell her boyfriend is cheating.
23. depending on the circumstances it could be pretty awkward, but if they ask me if its ok first, it would be a lot easier for me to accept.
24. because (and I'll be a hypocrite for stereotyping) looks fade, and men want pretty women. also, it takes a lot of work to maintain a relationship, and some guys may just be afraid that they will put all that work into it and it won't be worth it.

1)Some women like to hold grudges. We have a very good memory, so sometimes when the mood strikes, we have to bring up old stuff that happened so we can make a point


2)Us girls can be mental terrorists(*thank you DC), we can't just drop our bombs all willy-nilly. We have to plan.

3)In my opinion, sometimes our silly girlfriends just aren't enough. Also, masturbating is fun, but we like to be taken care of by a man sometimes.


4)I have not cheated.


5)Yes I do believe in "once a cheater."

6)Honestly no marriage for me. I have yet to meet a man that I would want to make that lifelong committment with. Besides if I get tired of him, it's much easier to pack up my stuff, leave, and have it over then, rather then packing up, leaving, but still having to see him in court for the divorce process.

7)As long as the guy is clean, I personally do not have a "type." As far as personality, a guy who knows when to joke around and when to be serious is a good catch for me. Also a guy that's career driven(I mean who at least knows the area he wants to have a career in) is good.

8. Gossip is fun as long as it's not about US.

9. I wouldn't tell my best friend about my relationship, because she could possibly use it against me.

10. Makeup likes to smear and streak. We don't want to look like raccoons!

11. No kids for me!

12. How many women have you slept with?

13. Would you have sex with my best friend? I'd be afraid to ask bcuz he might say YES, and then I'd have to choose between her and my BF/


14. LOL, see answer number 12

15. I tell the truth because I haven't slept with a lot. I can keep mine on one hand.

16. It becomes too much when you want to spend every waking second with us.

17. Yes, because I am old fashioned, and my experience with asking the guy out hasn't turned out good.

18. STOP LYING!

19. TELL THE TRUTH!

20. Take care of me when I'm sick

21. LIE.

22. I'd tell you, but then I'd have to kill you.

23. I say no, but luckily none of my real friends would date any of my exes

24. It's not that men are afraid of committing, its that they are so obessed with having sex with bimbos that when a good girl comes along, they are blinded. And it doesn't help when they have their Neanderthal friends hanging around with the same problem.

25. I always do what I can to make sure my guy KNOWS what he has at home, so strips club and porn don't bug me a bit. I watch porn too, I haven't been to a strip club, but I'd go to one.

26. NO. size doesn't matter! A guy can have a big penis, but have no idea what to do with it! And also, a man's ethnic or racial background does not necessarily determine their penis size either.

27. Because we don;t like our time to be wasted. If the relationship isn't going anywhere, we'd like to know upfront so we can make a decision.