A series of questions for women about their behaviors

ooo this looks like fun. also be aware of tying mistakes because my computer is being sooo annoying. o ya also age:16

1. Why do women bring up old issues that happened months ago?

maybe they want to use the issue to prove a point.
also maybe they want to emphasize the fact that the issue hurt/ment something -i don't want to say hurt but I can't think of a word- to them.
usually they just want to remind someone that they were wrong.
or we haven't gotten the reaction that we thought we deserved from the wrong do-er of the situation. (eg an apology, explaination, statement of regret etc etc)

2. Why do women say "I'm fine" when her boyfriend asks her what's wrong, when they both know she's not "fine"? Why doesn't she just tell us, instead of waiting?

because sometimes she wants to be pushed to tell. it might make her feel more loved or she just might be having second thoughts about telling. or sometimes she might think that the boyfriend should know. or she just wants attention / tlc. or maybe she just doesn't want to tell.

3. Why do most women always feel the need to be in a relationship?

i don't alll the time. so yeah. but women do cus they want to feel loved, wanted and beautiful. or sometimes they just want someone to show off (this sounds really mean) but someone like a prize. but I htink that's mostly mean women. also they want to feel safe and cozy.


4. Have you ever cheated on your past or present boyfriend(s)?
No

5. Do you believe "once a cheater, always a cheater"?
Yes. my best friend just got back with her boyfriend who cheated on her. I was against it to say the least.

6. Do you eventually want to get married?
yes

7. What is the first thing that attracts you to a man: Physically and Personality wise?
physically : 1. eyes personality: polite sweet and smart (yest they have to be a combination)

8. Why do women "always gossip"?
so we don't have to waste time watching tv, its like semi-live entertainment hehe lol.

9. Do you really tell your best friends everything about your relationship?
kinda, except for anything embarassing/ that might make me feel ashamed.

10. Why are women always checking their makeup or "powdering their nose"?

because when make up 'droops'/smudges/sinks you can look horrible! and then when you went it looking semi natural/ clean cut you can end up looking fake and, well, yucky! so you have to check and touch up to maintain the look you had b4 lol. also we just might wnt to get anway from someone

11. At what age do you want kids, if any at all?
definately not b4 26. but preferably 28/29/30.

12. What's one question you would never ask your boyfriend, because you don't want to know the answer?
''am I the prettiest/nicest/coolest/most fun (etc etc) girl youve ever dated?''

13. What's one question you would never ask your boyfriend, but you want to know the answer? Why wouldn't you ask?
how much he likes me. wouldn't ask cus it looks clingy or might scare him off.

I have answers to about two of those:

27. Women are insecure about themselves and are unsure about their very own emotions. By talking about their relationship they may either giving themselves confidence in their love for their partner or may even be fishing for something wrong with the relationship, to fulfill their suspicions of the incapability for a happy ending in their lives.

14. Yes and no. Yes because out of curiosity and sometimes necessity, women want to determine if their man is a player or maybe the complete opposite. No because there are some things, even when asked, should never be said. Their opinion could very well change just from that one question and give them doubts about their relationship, or even get them hurt.

Age:19
1. It still bothers us, 2. Too upset or angry to talk, or wants attention,3. I think from romantic movies,books, and seeing family members that way. 4.no 5.no.6.I am married7.Physical height and face ^^ 8. just do I don't know why.we like drama? 9.no 10. a self-esteem thing, you want to look your best incase you see someone you know or someone that is cute 11. 24ish 12. Was he more attracted to me when we met or now that we have been married for a year. 13. If he likes going down on me ( does it smell/taste good or bad to him) because what if he says it's bad? 14. yes so I know what type of guy he is (player or long relationship type) 15. yes16. When the guy is so romantic that it is on the point of being a wimp all the time. 17. yes, just shows he is the man and likes to take charge. (hehe romance novels are always like that) 18. Now days? Being respectful to women and have a job instead of acting all "gangsta" and "thug"19. Honestly I don't know. Didn't really understand this one o.O 20.Beat someone up that is being mean to an animal or somebody being picked on that can't defend themselves ^^ 21. Not helping themselves. If they have the attitude that everything in the world is everyone elses fault or they pity themselves and do nothing to change it. BIG turn off. 22.Not sure never cheated but I would say staying out late all the time? 23. yes, if it is my ex I am done with him so no issues (unless he would hurt her or cheat on her) 24. They like to party and pick up girls, they don't want to be "whipped" as they would put it. 25. Yes, I like to go too ^^ 26. Honestly no, if a man is smaller but is awsome at arousing and forplaying then who cares about size (plus having a huge size hurts)27.there is always room for improvment and maybe only the guy thinks it is fine and there is something wrong in it for the girl. Maybe she wants to work on it.

I just had to post this one --

27. Why do women always insist on talking about the relationship, and "where it's going" when things are going just fine – because most women have wasted their time in relationships that went no where for years with a guy who had no intentions towards marriage or making a real commitment. After a while, playing house gets old and you want more. This means that they have to know where the guys head is at. If he isn’t seeking marriage then it is fair to let her know, especially if that is her goal. After a period of time, the guys should know if he wants to get married or not. If he can’t decide, then the girl has the right to seek after a man who is more certain of where he wants to go relationship wise before more time goes by.

I had to put my Answers in an email and send it to you on here--this thing wouldn't le me do much more--ir regards to size--no-I had a guy who was twelve and it frickign HURT like hell--I HATED sex with him. six to eight is great -- little known fact--women have various sizes internally just as men have it externally -- this is natures grand design--so if you don't mesh with a girl it may be the wrong one physically.

First of all, a lot of these questions are probably gonna have very varied results, but I'm gonna try to help you out
9. My friends and I are very close, but there are some things about my relationship that I would never tell them. I think every girl needs her little secrets and just a little privacy sometimes. Even your best friends don't need every aspect of you and your boyfriend.

11. The age I want kids also depends on my partners age. I would say around 28-32 is a good age to have children.

23. I think its fine for your friend to date your ex. After all, there is probably a good reason they are your ex.


I hope I at least helped someone somewhere.

25. No. It makes me feel self conscious and ugly. My boyfriend understands this and doesn't watch porn. I love him so much for that.

26. Yes. I don't mean you have to be big, I mean you have to be the right size for the girl. I'm not sure about sizes, but I think my boy is about average. He fits inside me perfectly. Anything bigger is too big.

27. She want to know if you want to spend the rest of your life with her :).

1. Like lots of other people have said, it probably still bothers us, we're not sure if it has been completely resolved, or we want to make a point.

2. She likes it when you pay attention to her enough to realize she is NOT fine without her having to tell you. She may feel what is bothering her is stupid and doesn't want to tell you, or she may want to see how much you care, if you spend time trying to find out what is wrong.

3. Well, I don't. There could be a number of reasons. All of her friends are in a relationship and she feels left out. She is missing feeling loved, being kissed, being hugged. Women love attention.

4. Yes. Messed up as it is, I cheated on my past boyfriend with my current boyfriend, and then I cheated on my current boyfriend with my past boyfriend. The only reason I cheated on my current boyfriend is because I was confused. It's a long distance relationship, and my past boyfriend was close. He was always coming around to my house and giving me attention. Since I couldn't see my boyfriend, this confuses me a lot. Not much happened at all because I knew I shouldn't have been doing it, and hated doing it. My boyfriend knows it happens and he knows how much I regret it. He forgave me.

5. No I do not. I would never cheat on the boy I am with again.

6. Yes. I want to marry the boy I am with. I don't care if I am young, I am in love with him, and I don't know if I will ever again find someone as perfect to me as he is.

7. Physically, the way they are dressed. Personality, they treat me well.

8. I don't. I have no idea to be honest.

9. Nope. I tell her most things but there's some things I'd like to spare her. :P

10. I don't wear make up. However, it's because they feel make up makes them prettier and they think guys like it. My boyfriend doesn't. I'm confident with who I am.

11. I don't want kids, mainly because I am scared of childbirth.

12. I'd ask him anything.

13. ^

14. Yes I would. I'm not sure why. My current boyfriend hasn't slept with anyone other than me, and I'm very happy with that.

15. I tell the truth. I've slept with one other person.

16. Women want romance from a man they love. If they get it from someone they don't love it can be quite intimidating. If you're making her feel like you like her more than she likes you, that will intimidate her too.

17. Yes, because we're nervous :). We know you're nervous too, but you're MEN. You should deal with it :).

18. Well, coming from personal experience, when you're asked to help tidy up, HELP tidy up. Or it'll piss her off.

19. No farting while the girlfriend is around. We DO NOT like it.

20. Treat me perfectly.

21. Cheat on me. Act like they don't like me and only want sex.

22. I'm not sure, to be honest.

23. Depends. If you still like them, no. If you're okay with it, sure.

24. In case they're with the wrong person? They may not want to be tied down to one person.

Continued in another reply.

You should be able to find out my age.

1. Because obviously it still bothers me and wouldn't want it to happen again. I let you know whether it was you or some other dude, so you won't hurt me.

2. I'm not ready to talk about it. When I'm ready I will.

3.Everyone want to be with someone. It just gotta be the right one.

4.Yes in the very end I did, but in my defense the two serious bf's that I had were overly jealous and both cheated on me.

5.No but not everyone is the same.

6.One day and hopefully I end up with a great guy.

7.Physically-his eyes and the way he moves, he has to be strong (at least enough to be able to lift me up with ease!). Personality-smart, caring, honest, bold, humorous, confident and has good manners.

8.Why do guys always gossip? I'm sure it's pretty much the same reason.

9.No.

10.To make sure I look good.

11.Got one beautiful baby girl!

12.Idk.

13.Idk, but if I want to know the answer I'll just ask.

14.Yeah. Because it matters.

15.Yeah, there's no reason to lie.

16.Honestly I haven't really had much romance soooo yeah I can't help you with that:(

17.No, not really.

18.Damn that's a good one I don't know Everything! LOL

19.Isn't this question like #18?

20.I guess it would have to be him telling me how much he loves me and needs me in his life, and then proving it.

21.Treating me like shit.

22.Not spending time with him like before when things were good, catching her in lies.

23.I guess it depends but it would be awkward as hell especially if you're close friends.

24.Because of their past relationships, that would be a good reason. Oh I forgot that we were talking about guys.they're not finished exploring other women. Maybe you should rephrase that question as why we think they're afraid to be with just ONE chick. LOL!

25.Yeah. It's like a turn on for me.

26.I would have to say it matters a little but what definitely matters the MOST is if they know how to work it!

27.Hmm, if she's constantly asking that then things aren't going well.at all.

1. because it still bothers us
2. either because she likes knowing he cares enough to find out, wants attention, finds it amusing or just doesn't want him to know
3. makes you feel loved and someone cares for you. and its fun to cuddle =) you always have someone to turn to
4. nope
5. no I think if they show that they are genuinely guilty then a second chance should be given, only if they seem indifferent to what they've done is this statement true
6. yes
7. physically - hair personality - sense of humour
8. its fun
9. not everything, but most things
10. because it gets smudged and we like to look our best
11. late 20's/early 30s
12. how long do you honestly think we'll last?
13. what he thought about prev. girlfriends and who he preferred.too awkward
14. yes for safety
15. yep
16. when you lose your friends and he becomes too protective
17. nope
18. be more interested in longterm even if no sex is involved because would cause so many less problems
19. being able to open up to their feelings more, without getting it forced out of them lol
20. tell me honestly how much I mean to him and be there when I need him the most
21. rush things and not seem to care about anything but sex
22. finding reasons not to meet up, protective over phone, paying less attention and affection
23. if I was completely over him then yes because it might make them both happy =)
24. don't want to get tied down, get bored of the familiar
25. yep
26. not really, as long as its not either extreme (eg too small too big)
27. scared of getting hurt and its nice to know how much we mean to you

1.Because it still bothers us.
2. For Me it's because I usually get worked up about small things that I don't wanna bother him with.
3. It hurts to be alone,we want to feel needed and loved
4.On my last ex I did because he was never around for me to dump his sorry @ss,i'm not proud of it but I wanted out of the relationship and he knew it when he left.
5.No,it depends on the person
6. Yes
7.Physically: Usually tall,good healthy weight maybe a little bit chubby ,dark hair, a good smile :P
Personality: Intelligence, sense of humor,Cockiness
8. It's fun, and we enjoy it.
9. No
10. I wear no make up so this question I'll pass on ^^
11. about 26 - 28
12.Uh I can ask him anything and I do :P
13. I have a really Dumb question and I'm never gonna ask it to any guy.
14. Uh I actually asked this once because I was curious
15. I'd tell the Truth, and have
16. For me it has to be Random and exciting if a guy romances me every day what fun is that?
17. Uh I don't really think a guy should but,i get to scared to do it.
18. duno
19.duno
20. love me and prove it.
21. cheat on me and Then post it somewhere where I could actually find out easily
22. Not as much attention from them,less sex etc etc.
23. Well if she's into him and wants him why the heck not?
24. No clue
25. Yeh because I know he only loves me :>
26.Not to me it doesn't
27. For me it's a giant boost to my ego, and makes me extremely happy.

I'm 16.
1. It's either still bothering us or we don't understand it.
2. I might not want to talk about it. Or I might feel like I'd be making a big deal out of nothing.
3. I don't feel that need lol. But I guess women are kind of pressured to because it makes you seem more desirable than if you were like never in one. :/
4. Nope
5. Sometimes. I believe it's possible to change, I just don't count on it.
6. Yes
7. Physically: Usually tall, slim, dark hair, a nice face.
Personality: Intelligence, sense of humor, and whether I just find them likable.
8. It's a way to bond, mostly.
9. Not every single detail, just vaguely.
10. That's pretty rare for me.
11. If any, probably around 28
12. I can't really think of anything
13. I would want to know about the girls he liked/loved before me. But that would be awkward to talk about lol.
14. Maybe just for safety [to get tested or something]
15. I'd tell the truth
16. I only like romance in small doses lol, too much and then I get to feeling like I don't really deserve it or that it doesn't mean as much.
17. I prefer it so I know they're definitely interested & I don't have to wonder.
18. Communication, just being more open/expressive.
19. Being more mature, taking things more seriously.
20. It just wins my heart if we have the same interests/opinions.
21. Be rude, I can't stand rudeness.
22. Probably if she's more distant/secretive.
23. If they really like them I wouldn't try to stop them. After all, they're your ex for a reason.
24. I think we're all kind of afraid of it. Maybe we're afraid we won't choose the right person.
25. Strip clubs, maybe, if he's just going with friends or something. Porn is fine by me as long as it's not illegal lol and it doesn't interfere with his life.
26. I don't think it does.
27. For me, it's because I want to make sure he's really serious/committed, I want to know where he expects the relationship to go.

I am 36 years old.
1. Because it still bothers us.
2. Because we either don't know how to tell them what's wrong or we think they are going to get mad and upset if we tell them the truth or we feel they aren't ready to listen.
3. Because it's hard to be alone.
4. I have, but not proud of it. I wasn't getting enough attention and affection so I sought it elsewhere.
5. No, not always.
6. Yes
7. His eyes, his hands and his sense of humor
8. Because we feel the need to talk.
9. I do because my best friend does not judge me right or wrong.
10. Because I want to look good for my man.
11. I wanted kids about the age of 22.
12. I would ask him anything. I trust him, he is my best friend.
13. I would ask