OK so there's this boy I recently started liking. He's a bit of a swinger, but he makes me so happy.I even got him to quit smoking pot. We love to be around eachother, have no problems with trust and tell each other anything. We are quite the pair.We went out for a week and a half and he just cut it off. Then he texts me that night saying he was sorry and that he still really liked me and wanted to try us again, but he needed to smooth things out in his life. So its been a few weeks, I've laid off and given him room to do whatever he needed. So now he's been sending weird mixed signals. Somedays he won't talk to me, others he will flirt with me like no tomorrow. Then when we are alone he acts as though nothing is wrong, like were going out again. I've heard word that he wants to go back out but I don't know if I should keep waiting for him. Am I chasing a ghost?
move on. if he truly likes you than he will contact you. Any guy that truly cares about you will want to be with you. Find a guy who truly deserves your time and effort :)
Move on girl, he's still smoking pot. A man who loves you will only give you one signal and that is he loves you, he will act and say it and he will want to hear see and talk to you throughout the day and night, he will think of you 24/7. Actions speak louder than words, look for a man you don't have to change to suit you and sometimes that requires patience. Jeff
This sounds like a case where, since you tell each other anything, you should be able to just ask him to tell you straight up what's going on. Just say you don't like to act like things are normal and then not hear anything. It's not helping. So what's up? Talk to me.
Don't waste your time. Either way. The fact is that out of all of the guys you date, how many do you think you will marry. of every 2 marriages, 1 will end in divorce. Be picky! Have fun! Be picky! If he is causing stress now, it won't be different two months from now. People have a hard enough time figuring out how to be in a relationship, and this guy can't decide whether or not he even wants to be in one. I would move on, but that is because sticking around would not make me happy. And the fact is that you will probably end up with someone else eventually anyway no matter what.
You feel stressed in this situation, so move on to one that makes you happy.
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