SEXUALLY, A man can hundreds of women at once. How? Simple. I hired 5 women at 4 different brothels in Nevada within a 14 hours span, stopping only to sleep. Sure it cost me a grand total of $1200 but the fact that I had sex with that many women proves it. No lie.
But for genuine love, best to only love person at a time. It is possible but very very unlikely for ANYONE to love two people at once. A love triangle causes many problems, too many to list here but mostly due to jealousy and inner conflict between the three. I have never seen any three-way love work out before, sex-flings does not count; whole different subject.
I say resolve this one quickly. Either he man-up and chooses which one he wants or you disengage with him and find someone else. You stated that you love this guy and this situation hurts you. The longer you put this off, the more it will hurt you in the long run and quite possibly ruin it for anyone else you get involved with in the future.
You can not truly be in love with 2 people at the same time. You can be infatuated with, or lust after 2 girls, that's easy. But as far as truly loving 2 girls or 2 guys at once is impossible. Because it totally contradicts the definition of real love.
But just because a guy says he "loves" you means jack squat. Love isn't a word, it isn't an emotion, it is even more then an action. But if a guy says he loves you and loves another girl, it' isn't love and he's toying with you.
I can *not* love two girls at once. Lust, maybe (well, with like hundreds, sure), but love, no. You may be surprise by how fierce and loyal love can make a guy!
You can "love" as many people as you want. But you can only be "in love" with one person. If some guy pulls that "i love you and this other girl" bullshit tell him that's not how you work. If you don't "nip" the situation ASAP its just gonna result in you getting hurt.
He told me he loves me and don't wanna lose me...same as with the other girl...I'm really confused...yeah its true I'm hurting a lot.. - 6 months ago
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Make him choose... you can't have your cake and eat it to. Dump him and get a new boyfriend. How old are you? Why would you be falling in love with someone who is disrespecting you like this? - 6 months ago
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I'm scared of what he's going to answer that's why I'm not going to make him choose......I'm 22..if you wanna know the full details you can read my other question..thank you - 6 months ago
If he cannot choose which of the two he wants then you make the choice for him as in "I'm outta here! Playa!" Either he man-up and fixes this problem now or you find someone else who has his head on straight. - 6 months ago
He sounds like he would be trouble in the long run. If a guy had divided attention in the honeymoon phase of a relationship then it's only downhill from there. - 6 months ago
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