I really don't understand how women deal with men and sex.
They get raped, used, abused, and prostituted for the criss-crossing belts of muscles inside their hole - guys will love, comfort, and idolize girls for a chance to spend 5 minutes with their penis in there. Some are sincere, others are playas. How can you tell the difference when a guy is driven by hormonal lust?
Women don't feel the same way about the male genitalia as men feel about female genitalia. For a guy - it's ALL about the hole. That has GOT to be resentful to women on many levels.
I can way more easily understand why women should generally fear and hate men and sex instead.
Yeah being a woman sucks sometimes. But hey no pain no gain also its shiz like this that makes us stronger and maybe bring out the inner feminist just hopefully right to the point that stops and we don't swing the other way if you know what I mean.
hey if we get sick of men we can just be bi or something I mean we have more power over men cause men needs us if they want some they better earn some plus men are only good for one thing. half the time lol. I guess women of today have to make use of the men available and always be ahead of their game.
I know for sure when a guys a player. cause they're thinking the exact same thing when I'm talking to them. Also when a guys wants sex you can just tell in his attitude etc makes me sad though like am I only good for one thing? Apparently so. gotta roll with the punches I say and make do.
I realize that men are so obsessed with sex as a biological thing. It's nature's way of preserving the human race I guess. It is natural to want sex. I wouldn't date a guy if I wasn't attracted to him and would eventually possibly sleep with him either.
I had a good example of a father growing up, so even though a lot of guys are dogs and assholes, I know that they're not all like that. It's hard but it's part of the game. I know a man can truly care for a woman because why would he get married? Why would he start a family?
I hope guys don't hate all women because there are some out there who play games with their feelings and use them for money. That's obviously not as bad as rape, but neither speaks about the gender as a whole.
I can usually tell when a guy has bad intentions, and I carry myself pretty well so thankfully & luckily the guys with bad intentions leave me alone and/or don't stick around for long to use me in the first place.
men, men, men the universal puzzle to us women. I'd have to say that yeah it's a love-hate relationship with you guys. some of you are just wonderful some of you should just . be sent to an island.
I don't think that it's so much about our bodies, (personally I love my body!) but I think that there is a difference between making love and having sex and I also think we women can perceive/feel (don't know how you want to interpret it) when a guy is just after our bodies, there are certain cues; the way he looks at us, the way he treats us, the way he talks to us, the things he talks about, does he keep bringing the sex topic, I mean, there are minor things that really do let us know. We tend to ignore them. I'd say yeah, but I'd also say that most of the time when those "flags" are ignored is because we are hoping that the guy likes us back the way we like him
As a raging hormonal kid, I can tell you the fluff you mentioned above is all just to get down your pants. We want in. That's all we focus on. It's why we get boners. You - and all girls - are walking pleasure palaces of pussy and we see your crotch in your eyes when we look at you. I don't care what any other guy has ever told you. Without your hole, you'd be nothing more than chattle to us. I'm sorry to be blunt and I hope this isn't disrespectful. It's just the truth. How do you feel on that? - 4 months ago
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I guess that what I tried to say is that if a guy tells us "I really like hanging out with you.. you are so pretty, I can see me falling for you.. blah, blah, blah" when it's just the first couple dates.. we KNOW you are lying (we tend to ignore it yeah, but again because we hope that you'll be serious). Once again, speaking for me, I try(and some of you guys are super smooth talkers) to shield my heart, then guys get frustrated and just leave.. how frustrating! lol - 4 months ago
Also, as a raging hormonal kid, all you do is about getting in their pants. Wait till you grow out of it a little. There's more to it than that. - 4 months ago
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I have a brother in Iraq and he's schooled me on the thoughts of guys who are 20-and 30-somethings. From his perspective on the battlefield, that IS what it's about. Getting home and getting laid. How old does he have to get before there's more to life? - 4 months ago
Ignore the question asker. Men would be the same if women would gag at them all the time (Imagine if men were women and women men). It is more our minds and perceptions that separate than our biology. - 2 months ago
With me, I understand and know that there are male jerks out there but I still believe that there's great men on earth. But it sucks cause they always happen to be taken.
But I'll still keep hoping that the next time around it'll be my turn to find someone great.
Don't you get angry because you KNOW the absolute motivation for a guy is to persue you for a chance to be in your hole, though? You may want that special relationship -- and probably he does too -- but without your hole, he would have any interest in you? - 4 months ago
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Who said I was angry lol...I know that the act of "hole" poking (and its funny cause I refer it to as the hole too sometimes haha) is an important aspect in a relationship for any guy....nice guy or not.
So yeah I know it's as important as kissing and affection is too...no one would be without anyone if there was no intimacy of any form. - 4 months ago
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I don't mean you're angry, but thinking about what motivates guys, I'd be angry if I was a girl. How many times have you heard a girl break up with a guy saying "He only wants me for my body". You'll NEVER hear a guy say that! For girls, a guy is NOT his genitalia like your genitalia is to him. Your motivation is with his big head, not his little one and ALL guys you date see you as a hole they want in. You may want his member too, but what percent does that motivate you? For a guy, it's 100%. - 4 months ago
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Well yeah it's not like the idea hasn't occurred to us women. But it's like sex is important to a relationship to a man as is "unconditional love" is to women...sex is important to all men. Bad AND good men. - 4 months ago
I'm very careful about the guys I date. My ex boyfriend respected me so much. When we'd make out for 2-3 hours I knew he wanted to do more and he'd try but then he'd catch himself and stop. He respected me so much, I just know that guys like that are out there because those are the kinds of guys I attract. They know I'm not easy to get.
You may be careful, but ALL guys you've dated want their finger eleven in your pie. If you didn't have a hole, you wouldn't be pursued. Don't you hate men in general because a few perverts rape and use women? As a guy, I feel guilty being a dude though I don't have a hurtful bone in my body (though I want my bone in your body...sorry for the pun). How do you mentally deal with this? You -are- your hole to guys even if they don't admit it. Doesn't that make you resentful? - 4 months ago
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No because every guy wants this. It's human nature. You know? It's your raging hormones you can't help it. There's nothing wrong with wanting to have sex, it's just the guy that pursues it needs a wakeup call. Those guys give me a goal, and that is to teach them that girls are not just a height and weight. - 4 months ago
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It's amazing how well balanced and level headed your comments are. You've really got it figured out. Still, I don't think you'll ever teach a guy to not want your hole above all else. - 4 months ago
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Define want. Something a person yearns strongly for right? A desire, depending on the guy, could turn into a need. For some guys, they'll just take it anyway. Humans are sexual beings, we are designed to have sex. But, we are also made with an intellect, knowing right from wrong. The right thing to do is to avoid sex until you're in the lines of marriage, outside of having that ring on your finger, in my opinion, is harmful. Guys may "want" it but that doesn't mean they can't control it. - 4 months ago
You really shouldn't stereotype all guys into the same group. As a guy I can tell you that when I'm spending time with the girl I'm interested in, its hardly "ALL about the hole". When I'm spending time with her of course I'm trying to make her laugh/smile/happy but I'm trying to get to know her not get in her pants. I'm not after "5 min of pleasure in her hole" but rather trying to find out if she's the one I can spend a lifetime with. Sharing a smile or a laugh with her is the highlight of my time with her. And I may be old fashioned in that I don't plan on having sex with anyone but the girl I marry but its a fact I'm proud of. I'm not doing this because its a some "spiritual" thing" or "a gift I'm saving for her" but because there's more to a girl than what's between her legs.
For every "asshole" guy out there. there's a bitchy/whore female out there to match his moral fortitude.
How about all those "gold diggers" that marry men. than steal 1/2 of his net worth when they divorse them.
I've seen/known women and men that have sexual partners in the triple digits. nobody is better than anybody else. women just seem to be a lot more "undercover" about the things they do
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