Guys, I am just wondering how you would react to something like this. I like this guy and I think there might be a chance he likes me back. I mean he looks at me a lot and stuff like that. Well there is this one girl who always is trying to be near him. I think she might like him but it is hard to tell since she flirts with everyone. But she seems to pay special attention to my crush. She'll always walk beside him and try to talk to him (sometimes it looks like he ignores her) or sometime he will listen. She always sits beside him, like this morning he was sitting on a bench and she ran up and sat beside him. And she ALWAYS is touching him, like playfully shoving him and stuff like that. So of course I get jealous. I don't think he likes her because if he does then he doesn't act like it. At least with me he always makes eye contact and stuff. I never see him push her back or anything. I am just wondering how you guys would react to a situation like this? Where there is a girl who is always trying to be near you and pushing you. Would you like it? Would it get on your nerves?
For me personally I chat/joke/flirt with other girls that I consider just friends, but I only "have eyes" for the girl I like and have a different kind of eye contact with her than with other people. I have friends that I joke around with and tease that flirt physically with me like hitting me or bumping into me but that contact doesn't mean anything to me. Its just joking/flirting between friends.
There have been girls who I know were interested by the way they'd flirt and look at me when making eye contact and I did exactly what you described your guy as doing. I'd talk to them, listen to them, but I'd never really acknowledge them in that sense.
Out of curiosity when he makes eye contact with you what do his eyes look like? Do they have that I'm listening but not really paying attention look or do have a smile in them that says they're glad to be talking to you. If its the latter than he's into you.
Another indication of whether he is interested in you or the other girl would be the positioning of his body when he speaks to you and the other girl. If he always positions her at an angle from him when talking to her then he's not really interested and is only being cordial. If he's facing you directly with his body open in your direction then its a good sign that he's interested in you or at least what you have to say to him.
We didn't have classes together this semester so we only got to talk a few times but when we did talk he looked me right in the eyes, and it seemed like he was glad t be talking to me, and he started the conversation. and when he talk to the other girl he is usually sitting beside her and not facing her but one time he was right across from her looking at her and listening, but that was the only time I saw that. what does that stuff mean? - 6 months ago
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The eye contact is good especially if you got the feeling he was happy to be talking to you but its not the definitive sign. The substance of your conversations are also an indicator of his interest. If he's asking a lot of information about you or how you've been then its a good sign. What do you do to try to let him know you like him? It takes two to tango, if you don't reciprocate by saying hello/smiling/waving when you see him he may start thinking you're not interested and move on. - 6 months ago
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A lot of times when I talk to him he teases me. one time my friend was absent and he said is your buddy not here today and I said no and he said do you want me to be your buddy. stuff like that. and I am probably guilt of not showing I like him well enough. I am very shy and I try to make eye contact with him as much as possible. if we had classes together I could talk t o him but there aren't any chances now. but school is over now anyway, I hope he still likes me (if he did) next year. - 6 months ago
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