It's not really that bad. I'm only 13 and I know I have big boobs for my age. Unless the girl is incredibly insecure, or someone who doesn't know or like you, I don't see it as a problem.
honestly I doesn't bother me at all i have large boobs for only being 16 and I know it so of course guys are gonna stare and wanna know my size and if I like them enough or trust them enough ill tell them
Wow all these people say no and that it is bad and you will get smacked etc. Well really it depends on the girl. I personally get asked that all the time because mine are big and I really don't care it's actually kind of flattering because they are looking but it just depends on the girl. However apparently the majority say no so just to be safe I guess I wouldn't.
For me, it's a matter of having some self respect. it's like asking a guy how big he is. unless he's my bf, I'd never ask that kind of question to a random stranger or even close friends. not only is it embarrassing but it's also a bit insulting. have a bit of courtesy and decency. - 3 months ago
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Real mature. It's a matter of opinion if I have no problem with it then that is my choice and you should respect that other people have different opinions. And I do have courtesy and decency I don't go flashing guys or something :) - 3 months ago
do you want to get smacked? you NEVER ask girls their measurements whether it's weight, bra size, waist size or height. I mean think about it. do you want girls asking you what size your penis is? didn't think so!
If you're like really really close with her, and you know she won't mind, go right ahead. But other than that no.
Also, like if you've been dating for quite a while (whatever you're definition of "quite a while" is) and you wanna surprise her with some lingerie or something, then go ahead and ask her, if she gets offended, you'll have to tell her why you're asking.
Ask away I'm comfortable with my Body and there's no reason for me to be ashamed about not being hung like a horse. Actually they do make things that you place around the "package" to lift it up. The only reason it isn't seen that well is because of gravity and the way we were designed to be comfortable in our pants. I've actually got a question for you.....Would you like it if your Ovaries stuck to your leg when it gets hot out? - 4 months ago
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Don't ask a girl this unless you really know that she won't mind, and you two are really close!
Not unless you know them very, very well. I mean, if you've been dating this girl for months and want to surprise her with lingerie...But you'd still be better off sneaking a look in one of her bras and not actually asking her. I know very few women who are happy with their bra size (myself included), so it's often a very touchy subject.
So: no, unless she's invited you to go bra shopping with her or something.
Well... I personally think it depends how well you know this girl!
It's definitely not a first date topic of conversation anyway :)
But yeah.... especially for girls who feel they are under average (OR over average) it's a topic best not played with as girls can get VERY self conscious over these things and questions will pop up like "he must not like my size" and "what if he doesn't find me attractive because of my size?"