Ask a Question Answer a question Read/Write Articles Rate Members Watch Videos
Read Articles
Sign Up










RubyRose

Should I Be Worried?

Average Rating:
Your Rating: 
MiserableBoringEnjoyableInterestingFascinating
 
RubyRose (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
Views: 45     Category: Behavior
So last night was a friends birthday guests mainly included me, one of my best friends, boy I have a crush on and a new guy at work who's kind of cute. Anyway B/F broke up with her boyfriend two days ago, and then yesterday tells me she also has a crush on boy I like. So the night continues with her hiking up her skirt grinding with him (she told me later she made out with him), and after the club she went to her ex's place to spend the night. But she doesn't want to hurt me, and she still wants to be with her ex (the "break up" was mutual and they are trying to work things out). She told me she mainly made out with crush because she kind of wanted to hurt her ex, and ended up hurting me too. and well I spent a good majority of the night dancing with the new guy (crush was well busy), so that's mostly all I did. and when they were leaving she told crush guy that she was going home because she didn't want to like piss off? my crush.
anyway this whole thing is bothering me.

Update: I should've also mentioned that I to do go to school with her and we work together. I don't consider her my best friend she calls me one of hers. I also believe that everyone is entitled to a few mistakes , she hasn't done anything like this before    3 months ago

Update: if anyone reads this.i forgave her.though she acted kind of like a bitch but cute boy said it was because he was drunk.and she wants to stay with her ex.    3 months ago

3000 characters left  Anonymous Spell Check Spell Check
 Report Question  Email Friend Widgets Note This
Answers
  Hide Comments From Guys  
1
From Girls  
4
 

What Guys Said

Selected as Best Answer
Evilsheepempire
1730  
Evilsheepempire (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
You need to talk things over with your friend. You also need to talk to your crush, and this all might end up very ugly, but then again, it might turn out awkwardly okay.
Do you agree?
Agree   1 Disagree   0
Report
 
Question Asker Yeah I talked to her briefly after the party and I told her then that it urked me, but more conversation is (obviously) needed. either way this sucks though. - 3 months ago
 

What Girls Said

millionaremia
420  
millionaremia (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
I still wouldn't care. (my opinoin) If I was in the same situation I would look at it as would she do it again but this time my boyfriend? oyh and him I wouldn't even consider dating him. Just because he was drunk wouldn't give him the excuse of kissing upon some one.
Do you agree?
Agree   0 Disagree   0
Report

S8tr1234
1198  
S8tr1234 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
ditch your best friend. that girl's messed in the head. just because she and her boyfriend broke doesn't give her the right or the excuse to go doing stupid shit to hurt other people. she's your best friend? best friend's don't do that. if I were you find yourself a new one. if you keep letting her walk all over you like this, she'll just keep doing it until you keep getting hurt.
Do you agree?
Agree   1 Disagree   0
Report
 
Question Asker The thing is she's never done anything to hurt me ever. and I can't reasonably ditch her, I see her everyday. - 3 months ago

millionaremia
420  
millionaremia (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
She disgusting it was very intentional of her their are lots of people she could have made out with. Have a talk with her and him. Clear things up, but please make sure she know that she can not disrespect you like that and be your friend. ok? (my opinion)
Do you agree?
Agree   1 Disagree   0
Report

when-the-rain-fall
1100  
when-the-rain-fall (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
It should. You and your best friend need to talk some things out. I KNEW that you had feelings for your crush. She could have picked some other guy to make out to make her ex boyfriend jealous. It was very much a back stabbing whorish thing that she did to hurt you. I KNEW! This was very intensional. Friendships lasts longer than relationship, but if she keep on treating you with disrespect and hurt your feelings intensionally like this, you can't be friends with her anymore. Don't take crap from anybody. You shouldn't have to. Stand up for yourself. It was very wrong for her to put you in a situation like this.
Do you agree?
Agree   1 Disagree   0
Report
 
Related Questions
Search
A Girl Asked Ok so I have a crush on this guy that I met a few days ago. Its...
Ok so I have a crush on this guy that I met a few days ago. Its nothing serious but I want to know if it is ok to get serious or not. So he is just...   View Answers
A Girl Asked Are these crush behaviors from a shy guy?
Met a guy about a year ago, and I see him about once a week. Our meetings are always so random, they range from him being extremely friendly and...   View Answers
Find more questions on
crush on same guy
Home > Behavior Questions > Should I Be Worried?
 
Not a member yet? Sign Up for free in 1 easy step!
  
My Icon
0
Questions View
Answers View
Stories/Articles View
Messages View
Shout Outs View
Reality Check Create
Notebook View
Advice on Video
Behavior Videos
Click on video to play

Advice: How Can I Look More Confident?
Does it ever annoy you that you're single?
random-ren asked 18 days ago

Yes, most of the time! I really wish I had a boyfriend/girlfriend!

A little, because I feel left out.

Not really...

Nope! I have too much fun being single!

What's there to be annoyed about?

Invite a Friend
Invite Friend

oftenconfused (Age:25 to 29)

Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Would start off grabbing Ice cream somewhere, then hitting up the art museum, afterwards grab a bite to eat somewhere not fancy but fun. then if its not to far walk her home and go with the flow not forcing any thing in any direction but not straying away from any thing ether.

Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
Afterward I would hope she would think I am fun a little educated, and just out right hilarious.

Would you date me?
Behavior Articles
 
●  The Biggest Dating Myth Revealed!
by  Hot-Alpha-Female
This is the dating world. I'm sure there are plenty of myths out there that are making people confused, frustrated and angry. But this is one, I believe is the juiciest. The biggest one; The one that...
●  Confidence Central
by  PickUpMan
As I peruse the questions on GirlsAskGuys, there is a buzzword that keeps appearing in the answers: Confidence. Those attempting to master the world of relating to the opposite sex seem to trip over...
Browse Categories: Flirting  |   Dating  |   Relationships  |   Sexuality  |   Break-Up  |   Behavior  |   Style  |   Other                                         Home Top
  Site Links     About GirlsAskGuys     GirlsAskGuys Widgets     Help Us Improve!   RSS Feeds
Home
Videos
Partners
Search Questions
Terms of Use, Privacy
Help
About Us
Contact Us, Send Feedback
Sitemap
Advertise With Us
Links
Post your questions on your blog, website, or any social networking page. You can embed into MySpace, Facebook and more. Click here for more info.
Have a suggestion? See a problem on the site? Click here to give feedback and suggestions on the new GirlsAskGuys, and help us give you a better experience. Visit our blog here
 Subscribe
Add to My AOL
Add to Google Reader or Homepage
©2008 girlsaskguys.com™. All Rights Reserved.