So last night was a friends birthday guests mainly included me, one of my best friends, boy I have a crush on and a new guy at work who's kind of cute. Anyway B/F broke up with her boyfriend two days ago, and then yesterday tells me she also has a crush on boy I like. So the night continues with her hiking up her skirt grinding with him (she told me later she made out with him), and after the club she went to her ex's place to spend the night. But she doesn't want to hurt me, and she still wants to be with her ex (the "break up" was mutual and they are trying to work things out). She told me she mainly made out with crush because she kind of wanted to hurt her ex, and ended up hurting me too. and well I spent a good majority of the night dancing with the new guy (crush was well busy), so that's mostly all I did. and when they were leaving she told crush guy that she was going home because she didn't want to like piss off? my crush. anyway this whole thing is bothering me.
Update: I should've also mentioned that I to do go to school with her and we work together. I don't consider her my best friend she calls me one of hers. I also believe that everyone is entitled to a few mistakes , she hasn't done anything like this before
3 months ago
Update: if anyone reads this.i forgave her.though she acted kind of like a bitch but cute boy said it was because he was drunk.and she wants to stay with her ex.
3 months ago
You need to talk things over with your friend. You also need to talk to your crush, and this all might end up very ugly, but then again, it might turn out awkwardly okay.
Yeah I talked to her briefly after the party and I told her then that it urked me, but more conversation is (obviously) needed. either way this sucks though. - 3 months ago
I still wouldn't care. (my opinoin) If I was in the same situation I would look at it as would she do it again but this time my boyfriend? oyh and him I wouldn't even consider dating him. Just because he was drunk wouldn't give him the excuse of kissing upon some one.
ditch your best friend. that girl's messed in the head. just because she and her boyfriend broke doesn't give her the right or the excuse to go doing stupid shit to hurt other people. she's your best friend? best friend's don't do that. if I were you find yourself a new one. if you keep letting her walk all over you like this, she'll just keep doing it until you keep getting hurt.
She disgusting it was very intentional of her their are lots of people she could have made out with. Have a talk with her and him. Clear things up, but please make sure she know that she can not disrespect you like that and be your friend. ok? (my opinion)
It should. You and your best friend need to talk some things out. I KNEW that you had feelings for your crush. She could have picked some other guy to make out to make her ex boyfriend jealous. It was very much a back stabbing whorish thing that she did to hurt you. I KNEW! This was very intensional. Friendships lasts longer than relationship, but if she keep on treating you with disrespect and hurt your feelings intensionally like this, you can't be friends with her anymore. Don't take crap from anybody. You shouldn't have to. Stand up for yourself. It was very wrong for her to put you in a situation like this.
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