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What do YOU like to do after sex?

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when-the-rain-fall (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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What do others do after sex?

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  Poll added by question asker. Cast your vote to see the current results.   What is this?

Cuddle (best part of the sex)!

Sleep (I get so damn tired).

Get up an go on with my business (school, work..etc...)

None of the above (explain).
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ApocalypseAO
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ApocalypseAO (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
wow I'm surprised with these answers. hmmm after sex there is only one thing in my mind. FOOD!
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mav0502
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mav0502 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
i like to cuddle and wait for round 2 to start again. =)
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dohcrwd
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dohcrwd (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
cuddle and go to sleep.

what else?
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ThunderGod
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ThunderGod (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
I usually wipe up with a towel, turn the computer off, and try not to wake my girlfriend up when I come back to bed ; - ) lol
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disfabioguise Damn that's funny! - 4 months ago

MixOughT
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MixOughT (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
sleep is the best thing , holding each other is so romantic
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Anonymous User
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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
Drink a tall glass of ice water, take a cold shower with the woman I had sex with (maybe have some more sex in the shower depending on our moods) then collapse on the bed together and fall asleep in each other's arms.
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tex151
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tex151 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
Put on my clothes and leave or if she's at my house she puts on her clothes and leaves because I make up an excuse on why she has to go, or sometimes she falls asleep in my bed, we wake up in the morning and have sex again and then she leaves.
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Crapshoot
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Crapshoot (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
I agree with justthefriend, but when I'm actually DONE done I usually let her decide. I usually try to cuddle for a bit unless she doesn't want to and pushes me away, and if she just lays there staring at the ceiling I do the same. Some girls just like to lay there and enjoy winding down in complete silence, and if she wants to talk I let her initiate it and actively participate to let her know that I'm interested in talking to her, rather than simply answering her questions like most guys do.

Honestly, this is just kinda the extremely short abridged version. I can't list every possible scenario, there are just too many and it's really just one of those things where you have to feel it out. For me, her body language tells me when she wants to be held, talk, or just go to sleep.

Actually, on a side note, don't blame your man if he is just too tired to talk or cuddle for an extended period of time after sex. I read an article about hormone release during sex and it stated that the chemical changes cause completely different responses in men and women. For women, after orgasm they get a rush of adrenaline, and naturally feel more awake and aware that is if they have the energy to facilitate it (I imagine the physical act can be so exerting that it would make you tired by the end). For men though, I forget what chemical causes it, but it actually influences exhaustion and desire to sleep.

When we cuddle with you girls, we just used a lot of energy to engage in the physical act, this hormone is introduced into our system making us tired, and we're hot so our metabolism continues to burn calories at a rapid rate. The addition of your body heat keeps our body hot and in this rapid metabolic state, and by not cooling down continues to burn calories. Eventually, we just don't have the physical energy to keep our eyes open.

If you're interested on why men fall asleep after sex I suggest you look at these, they're relatively short and insightful. I can't find the exact article I read, but it seems it wasn't just one chemical, but a whole slew of them that induce sleepiness.

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Answerer Oh, I forgot, I voted none of the above because most of the time after having sex I run off to play Xbox. - 4 months ago
asdfjkl Haha the xbox thing made me laugh.... - 4 months ago

 
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Cuddle up and then go to sleep
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kazine
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kazine (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
Stating from an icon "FYI, if the cuddling is the best part, he didn't do it right."
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gorgeous-girl
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gorgeous-girl (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
first take a shower with my man and then cuddle and chill out ;-)
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S8tr1234
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S8tr1234 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
cuddle a bit and then talk. if he falls asleep I'll sleep too. then we have more sex. after that, if he's tired I'll make him something and bring it to him in bed. we either cuddle again and watch a movie or have more sex after that. then we hit the shower together. then we either have more sex or put our clothes on and head out to do something else.
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Question Asker WTF ! LMAO. Jesus! How much sex do you get a day? - 4 months ago
Answerer Lol. well I used to get on average about 4-6 times a day. it's not like we saw each other on a regular basis so I guess that made up for the lost time. I was always exhausted and starving, especially the next day. it was mostly him though. there was one time...i lost count how many times we did it that day but I could hardly get up and was sooooo sore. I actually started to fear having sex with him after that. I guess there's such a thing as too much sex. lol - 4 months ago
Question Asker That's f***ing amazing! 6 times a day! I didn't know that was possible. WOW... I'm really truly amazed. I'm showing this comment to my boyfriend! Maybe I'll get 6 times a day too! - 4 months ago
Answerer Lol well like I said, we only saw each other every few weeks so you can only imagine how horny we both were. there was this one time I was making him sandwiches and he came down from his room to the kitchen. I just finished making them and let's just say that round 3 was pretty cold. :p - 4 months ago
Question Asker That's HOT!! - 4 months ago

justthefriend
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justthefriend (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
u should of put have some more sex on that poll. lol. well as for me I like to cuddle and talk for a little while but I usually wanna have sex a few more times
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Crapshoot I think that this one deserves 'best answer.' - 4 months ago
 
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