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I need some advice.. My girl checks my calls and my text messages on a daily baisis

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the7ftgiant (Age:25 to 29)     When: 6 months ago
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She only recently started checking my phone. Maybe a month or so ago. She may have been doing it longer than that and just got a little sloppy in recent weeks. But I can honestly say that I have nothing to hide. There's no loose ends or any skeletons in my closet. I'm really not sure how to handle this situation folks. I mean I could just lock my phone with a passcode and be done with it. But I'm really curious as to what she's looking for in there. Thank you all for any feedback. Peace

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Bubbles
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Bubbles (Age:25 to 29)      When: 6 months ago
If she is doing it cause she things something is going on then blocking is just going to case more problems. Have you given her a reason why she might be doing this since you say she never did it before? Just sit down and have a talk with her about it, show her how much you care for her that way she don't get this ideas in her head.
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Gia65
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Gia65 (Age:36 to 45)      When: 6 months ago
the7ftgiant.read my article.The universal need to be loved?

Trust is one of the basic elements to a successful relationship!

Put a passcode on your phone.or you could purposely put something in there to teach the snoop a lesson.ha ha.kidding.put the passcode, without saying a word she will know your on to her.

Hate to say it but people who don't trust usually can't be trusted!

Good luck
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annedy
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annedy (Age:25 to 29)      When: 6 months ago
i would say she might have had reasons to distrust you or men in general. one could be previous relationships where the guy cheated on her or was being unfaithful. or it could be from people close to her like a friend or her family. or it could just be her personality. she might be paranoid or has this constant fear that you'd cheat on her. and she might have some insecurity issues. but if its on a daily basis, id say she definitely has some trust issues.
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awholenewsetofrules
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awholenewsetofrules (Age:25 to 29)      When: 6 months ago
Didn't you just post about this same girl giving her number to other guys? I'd say this is a big sign right here! In that other question a couple people said something about how people usually know when something is up with their significant other. Well I agree with that, but I also think there is ONE other time when people get suspicious for "no reason" and that is when they are thinking of fooling around themselves. The fact that she has been checking your phone could be an indication that she really is texting/calling other guys and is suspicious of you because of what SHE is doing that's shady.
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tex151
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tex151 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 6 months ago
Don't let her do that man, tell her no you can't look at my phone or better yet take her phone and look at her phone and see who's been texting her or calling her. She's doing this because she thinks you could be cheating on her, now you said she just started to do this recently so you must have done something to spark her suspicion, did an old flame call you or something? It starts with the phone and only builds up, put a stop to it, tell her no otherwise she will be the one wearing the pants in the relationship. Keep the ball in your court not hers.
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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)      When: 6 months ago
dude, you had another post about her giving out her number in bars. This pretty much confirms it. She's checking up on you because she has a guilty conscious. You need to ditch her
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
i would say don't worry about it if you have nothing to hide then it shouldnt be that big of a deal my ex used to do it and actually still does lol I just delete everything b4 I see her texts and recent calls
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GruffBalloon
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GruffBalloon (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
Dude, you have to nip that shit in the butt right now. Nothing is worse than a girlfriend looking for reasons to get jealous. One of my buddies had that same exact problem his Girlfriend would constantly look to see what kind of girls would message him. After that it turned into looking for new female phone numbers, and see if he would message them back.

It quickly turned into his Girlfriend messaging other people on his phone, saying all sorts of messed up smut.

Man it only gets out of control from there, if you give her an inch she might just take that mile.
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Evilsheepempire
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Evilsheepempire (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
Let the baby have it's bottle. She might think it's cute to mess with your phone, or to keep up with you. eventually this will build trust between you, and all you have to do is stay away from taking questionable pictures with your camera phone.
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lefthand
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lefthand (Age:36 to 45)      When: 6 months ago
Someone who doesn't respect your privacy is a bad bet.
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