Friend or Foe?

My tip. don't worry to much. Take it easy.

Talk to her about it. Ask her what's wrong and discuss it with her in a normal way. If she's over reacting over something SO SMALL. That's bad in any way. Although I think if you discuss it in a normal way you'll work it out. But I think there's more to it. Usually in these situations it's a lot of things that sum up and sum up until there's a big pile with things she got mad about but kept for herself. And one time she will blow which happened at the movie night. All I can recommend you is to take it easy discuss it with her. And don't get to upset about things.

Getting upset or mad or whatever is useless. It does not help YOU it does not help HER it does not help anyone.

I hope this helps

I don't think you should 'cut the strings' yet, five days of silence does not necessarily mean she is upset with you or is trying to avoid you. I have friends who don't make contact for more than that time and it's just because they're super busy with uni and work so they lose track of time etc, but we're still friends and get along great. If you're worried then you should probably call her up, send her a message or something and ask how she's going and if anything is up, see what she says, don't be aggressive or anything otherwise you might cause a problem when there wasn't one to begin with. Hopefully you'll find that nothing is wrong and things will be all good again :)

It hurts when someone makes plans with you and then completely blows you off. I know, it's been done time and time again. And I've actually ended friendships because these people just didnt' seem to understand that I don't care that they don't show up, but I cared that I didn't seem worthy enough to see. Try talking to her, if the friendship is really worth something to you and her it should be nothing big. Just tell her you don't like that she never showed up, if it's something she constantly does (and gives you bs excuses) then stop talking to her then. But if it's a first offense talk to her and see if you all can hash it out.

Why could she not make it? Try calling her and talking to her about how you feel. Maybe it was just a misunderstanding. Maybe something stressful is going on in her life. find out the reason before your so quick to cut the strings.

You could do better than that trust me I learned it like this sometimes your friends ( a few) is not even your friends because they either use you or stab you in the back .She getting mad apparently for no reason if she couldn't make it than why should you take the blame .If she doesn't talk to you and it's really bothering you then you should go up to her and tell her how you feel about it.