I don't want to see overly paranoid . . It bothers me to assume the worst, but at this moment there are sooo many ''possibilities''. I have always been secure within myself and have for the most part exercised using my better judgment , but 2 weeks ago that ALL CHANGED. We slept together after almost 4 years problem is two weeks have passed and we haven't spoke . He went out of state last week , but has sense come back and still nothing. Why is this bothering me ? Because almost 4 years ago I wanted to be with him more then anything , but because I didn't think he even felt close to that . . I walked away. These past couple of month's ( we were not in touch for a few years) ,I have learned that in ''our past'' he wanted to be with me . He constantly lives in the past . . telling me how nothing could ever be the same and how I lost him . . Huh ? If he has moved on ( which I'm not doubting he has) why feel the need to bring those thing's up ? I know . . maybe he wants to get his point across , but its not that simple. I'm starting to think he had sex with me and now doesn't want to talk . . I think he might be doing this as away to get back at me for hurting him . Could I be right ? Or do I think 2 much.
it's possible that you two had a build up of sexual tension that you mistook for love. After the tension was broken, so was the obsession and the feelings that are easily confused with love.
Huh ?? I never thought he loved me nor did I ever say I love him. The title at the top of the page is not one I chose . . . I never wanted to know if he liked me so your answer is kind of throwing me off. Thanks anyways - 3 months ago
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