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Why does he keep bringing up the fact that we are just friends???

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Sumbdy2luv (Age:18 to 24)     When: 4 months ago
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I know this guy who is one of my closer friends and I used to like him. (Well still kinda do, but he recently got a girlfriend so I let it go). Even when I really liked him, I never told him I did, we just flirted with each other. Well for some reason almost EVERY time we are together or just talking to each other, he brings up the fact that we are only friends, even though I never said anything to him about it. We will just be joking around and he'll say something like "Oh I love you.in a non romantic way of course. I mean that would be awkward wouldn't it?" And at first I just figured he was just trying to give me a hint because he sensed that I liked him, but he does it ALL the time even now that I've stopped flirting, and it gets really annoying. He will ruin a great conversation by saying something like that. I can understand saying it once to get the point across, but if the girl isn't hitting on you or telling you she likes you, why would you feel the need to bring the subject up every 5 minutes.

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
He says he just wants to be friends to mess up your mind. Although he is overdoing it a bit. I think he has interest in you. But you can really clarify that in other signals he's giving you.
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LG1632 (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
I think that he likes you, and when he keeps mentioning that you guys are just friends he is watching for your reaction, so he can feel you out, and see where you stand. He seems to be over doing it a lot though.
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sheepingly (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
i would think that he has some interest in you but feels guilty for that so he's trying to convince himself some how that he's not interested.

Do what that person said and say next time "I don't know are we?"
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Linds (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
He has in interest in you, but feels it would be inappropriate to express those feelings due to the fact that he has a girlfriend. When he emphasizes that you're just friends, he may be looking for a way to get you to say something along the lines of, "I don't know, are we?" Perhaps he has more of an interest in you than he has in his current girlfriend (how long have they been together?) and he's looking for some indication that he may have a chance with you if he were to cut things off with her. That's obviously a sticky situation, though, so I don't know how deep into that I'd be willing to get myself caught.
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sereniyt123 (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
well maybe even though he has a girlfriend he does like you but doesn't want to say anything cause he is scared. if I were you no matter how hard it might be I would tell him how you feel or ask him how he feels about you.
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Stephanie061490 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
Because he thinks that you want to be more than that or he is still interested in you he just doesn't know what to do.
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