so it's been 3 weeks since my ex and I have talked. I only say he's my ex because he's never tried to contact me since our argument weeks ago. anyway.during these past few weeks, I've been waking up at odd hours of the night and I'd be thinking of him, not on purpose. so a few nights ago, I woke up in the middle of the morning, like 3 or 4 am and I was pretty tired, I had been lacking a good night's sleep for the past week. so when I opened my eyes I thought my ex was hovering on top of me. I actually woke up and thought he was there. it kinda freaked me out. I don't know why I was imagining that he was there in my bedroom and on top of me.
maybe I was just really tired. maybe mu subconscious was trying to sort things out in my head. I promise I'm not crazy I just wondered what you'd make out of it. it's really strange.
Well, emotionally, you are still stuck on this guy. That is obvious. This little hallucination you had is proof of that. There is a bigger issue here, and I think you already know what it is. You and your boyfriend never really ended things, and yet they aren't going anywhere. You need to talk to him. Don't sit around and wait for him, take the initiative and get in contact with him of your own accord. The two of you need to communicate openly and decide where your relationship is at. A good first step would be to resolve this argument and set things straight. But, that's just my opinion.
I've tried to get a hold of him only to be hung up on, ignored, blocked on msn....what more do I need to do? I've done all that I can and I refuse to drop by his work or call him. and I also don't want to ask his sis what's up. it seems stalkerish. I mean, what else can I do? - 5 months ago
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It may seem stalkerish for you to contact his sister or stop by his work, but honestly, he is acting like a toddler! I would try the sister. Explain to her how much you just want to sit down and talk like adults to resolve this. You cannot be afraid to go the extra step to show how much you really want to get this figured out. If it starts to take a serious toll on you and he is still stubborn, THEN cease all attempts at contact. After that, if he wants to fix this, the ball is in his court. - 5 months ago
I think you miss him and the lack of sleep was getting to you. What you're going through is normal, you're probably a little depressed about the situation, and lack of sleep is a common side effect. Try talking to good friends about your feelings and sort them out, it'll help you work through it.
Actually now that you mention it, I am depressed. I've never been treated this way. we had a fight which was about 3 weeks ago and we haven't talked since. I've tried to get a hold of him only to be ignored, blocked and hung up on. so I'm just assuming that we're done and I should just move on despite the fact that he didn't say anything. I guess sometimes actions are much more powerful than words. - 5 months ago
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