This guy send me a message on myspace, mostly complimentary, I responded to him vaguely and he continued to send me a message each week asking me out. After we went out, he commented on how comfortable he was around me, we talked about his family and he made a comment, "you'll see when you meet her." We've continued to see each other. We had sex last week and last night he called me to come over after work to hang out. We watched TV and then went to sleep in bed. When I woke up, I told him that I would take off so he could finish sleeping and get ready for work. He said "you don't have to, it's not often I get to sleep next to a beautiful girl," and then wrapped his arms around me. We don't talk much about how our day went and stuff like that, we just relax in each other's arm, even when watching TV. I want him to open up more to get to know him better, but I'm not sure why he hasn't already. Any insight into his level of interest in me? On a side note, I wrote him a message on myspace requesting to add me as a friend and told him that my friends want to see a picture of him. He wrote back "Ohhhhh, I may hold out now." He still will not add me, can you explain why that may be?
Well, Facebook and Myspace are quite different in meaning to each person. Someone who changes their status update at the first hint of going out will be different from someone who hides their relationship, who is different from someone who waits several months before changin the status. My point is that before you jump to conclusions, figure out how hard it is to be his friend, and chat with him about it. You may be surprised.
I am a bit irritated that he would ask you out on myspace, unless he had some other means to contact you. I just find it odd that he would "send you a message each week" askin you out. It could be that he is just interested in finding someone to have a fling with, it sounds like he is a swinger, but if you are basing that on his Myspace personality, you may be sorely wrong.
Talk with him about it, if it's a fling, he may actually be forthcoming about it, and you can go on from there. The key for this is in communication with him.
wow. I'm just a bit confused here, you can have sex with him but you're not friends with him on myspace? I know that sounds random, but it is a bit weird. maybe he doesn't want to get too serious? that's how usually guys are when they don't want to be too serious, to let your friends know them.
I don't blame you for being confused this all sounds very weird. I'd say just be a little cautious. He may really like you but he just wants to be careful. or on the other hand he could be playing you. Hard to tell. Be careful
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When: 5 months ago
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