so many people I know have died recently and all of them were sudden deaths.i couldn't even go to one of there funerals I was freaking out that much about them being dead I keep picturing the people who I knew and loved who died in the ground in there coffin there beautiful precious selfs and it makes me get sick if they were all taken away surely I can be taken just as easy! I'm terrified to lose anyone else and I'm so terrified I'm going to die I don't want to die I haven't even begun my life yet and now it seems I won't get in cars or anything that can risk my life because I don't want to die and as I'm being like this its ruining my life at the same time my friends and I are going on a road trip and I don't want to go now because I fear ill die on the way as I have had dreams I will and I just keep thinking we will crash and ill die this is ruining my life what can I do?
i also used to fear death.but now I don't really care about my life.although I won't give it up right away. there has to be a reason.a good reason. and that's placing my life for family and friends. and also when you wanna go explore and prove to yourself that there is heaven and a god then you won't be safe.it might sound a little weird but who says you can't look forward to meeting him and what the world above has to offer. if there's none then its good that you won't experience the pain and misery that life has to offer and you could just rest in peace.but that's just me
I don't want to go yet though I have only just gotten my life back and I'm going college and I want to go traveling there is way to much I want to do before I die I love life here and I never want to leave - 2 months ago
Well, I used to fear death greatly. Every night, I would cry, thinking about what was to come after death. In fact, these thoughts eventually led me to be clinically psychotic, causing me to go to a mental institution and depression. But, my now girlfriend introduced me back to religion. I had lost my belief in God at a young age and placed all my beliefs in science. But now, I go to church with my girlfriend every week, because I want to believe again. It's taking a while, but I am slowly establishing my faith once again. So just know that there is something on the other side. We just wait for our loved ones to join us, and we will be happy. And remember, you can't live life unless you enjoy it. So enjoy it all you can, cherish it and make the most out of every day. Think of it as a thrill ride. Bad things are less likely to happen, but for the most part, only good things will fill in the spots!
I believe in god but I don't care if there is an after life as I like life here I've had horrible last 3 years and I have only gotten my life back and I don't want it taken away not yet there's so much I have to experience - 2 months ago
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You can't live in constant fear though. Yes, we all have much to experience and much of our lives to live. But if you're worried and feel nothing will change that, live life to the best you can right now. Cherish every moment. And yeah, I completely understand what you're saying when you like life here; as I like it too. But, it happens to everyone, so take advantage of life here! It's well worth it! Live every moment! - 2 months ago
hey I used to be scared of the end of the world but I got through it by just trying my dam hardest to think of things that can calm me down and if that doesn't work a good midnight comedy tv show or movie won't hurt, sure you loose some sleep but hopefully not your insanity of being afraid of the world.
I'm not afraid of the world ending I'm afraid of dying when I'm only starting to get my life back I don't want it taken away from me coffins,funerals,people gone it just scares the livin daylights out of me and its ruining my new start in life as I won't do things or get in cars because fear o death - 2 months ago
Everyone will die eventually. No matter what you do to prevent it, it is already in the cards for you and someday some how you are going to die and I no its a hard thing to grasp because I am scared of dying to but it is something we all have to get over at one point or another. Just live your life to the fullest and when you are meant to die, you will.
There are only a few guarantees in life, we live, we die and we pay taxes. I do understand your fear of death. I have always been afraid to die. I do not attend funerals. I am now engaged to a funeral director/embalmer. How weird is that? I am getting over my fear of dying and death because I am coming to realize that MY FEAR OF DEATH IS PREVENTING ME FROM LIVING. When I die, I will not know the difference anyway and only hope that I have lived enough to create lasting memories for those that I leave behind, just like those that have left me behind have created lasting cherished memories for me. I now look forward to seeing them again someday when I get to heaven. Do not live your life in fear of dying, when it's your time, it's your time and know that you will finally be at peace and rest. Live for today and don't worry about tomorrow.
But its not my time believe me I'm terrified of dying but I wouldn't mind as much if I died in at the least another 15 years because I'm 18 and I've only gotten my life back on track and I'm afraid ill die as people I know have all died suddenly in the last year one had a heart attack the other commit suicide and the other died in a crash I can't die not until I have my life - 2 months ago
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Like I said, there are no guarantees in life. There's no way of knowing when we will die. I just know that we can't live in fear of it. Enjoy today. You might try counseling, that may help you. It did for me. It made me realize that my fear of death was preventing me from living today. - 2 months ago
Im just scared because I don't want to die not now my life has been non exsitent in the last 2 years due to deep depression and an emotional breakdown were I spent most days at home for the last 2 years and dropped out of school and now I'm getting back on track I'm afraid ill die and I don't want to not now I'm getting back to normal - 2 months ago
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Well you gotta just relax. if you think about it all the time you won't be living. there's a lot of comfort in the Bible. maybe you could just seek some help there. - 2 months ago
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Yeah I would but the bible really doesn't help me at all. I believe in god and I'm catholic but I don't really do the hole religion thing - 2 months ago
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I wouldn't worry about religion. catholicism and lutheranism and baptists and anything else you can think of doesn't have the answers. God and the Bible do. I would suggest reading John 3:16. if ya have any ?'s let me know but I hope this helps! ill pray for ya! :) - 2 months ago
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But the bible hasn't got all the answers it doesn't its not going to say don't worry your not going to die for at least another 10 years the bible only has answers to some things unfortunately - 2 months ago
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You can't know when your going to die. there is NOTHING that can tell you that. Your going to drive yourself crazy and ruin your life by worrying about it all the time. I was in a bad car accident a couple months ago and I'm still recovering from my injuries. I'm scared of cars but I just have to do what I humanly can to be safe and leave the rest in GOD's hands. Its hard to put it outa your mind but I promise if you can do that then you will feel SOOOO much better! - 2 months ago
Trust me the bible won't help at all.. theirs nothing like a book telling you how you're going to hell.. just do something that'll make you smile of forget about death... theirs tons of things grab a ds and play on!! :D - 2 months ago
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