what does it mean when a guy acts really interested in you for say a good month and a half.but then the next month he just ignores you. But when he ignores you, you can see that he's trying hard to ignore you, its not natural. But then next month he's interested again. Is it me?. am I sending him bad vibes of not being interested? why can't he be consistent?
Sounds like you're a convenient source of ego boost for him when he needs it. If he really liked you, he'd keep the attention consistent so that you don't lose interest in him.
Thats interesting! I've never looked at it like that before! so what do you suggest I do?.. because I like him, but I don't like his mind games - 5 months ago
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As you get older, these games don't drag out past months. If you want to be an adult about this, ask him what he wants.
If he wants to date around and you want to date him exclusively, then you should move on as both of your end goals are not synced.
It's a tough question but it'll help stop wasting time. - 5 months ago
listen to what that-guy said. I liked a guy and he did the same thing to me. I was like 100% sure that he liked me. He would make good eye contact and smile at me some days and then other days he would ignore me completely. So of course I did what just about every girl does and I took everything as a sign. I was sure that he was just too nervous to make eye contact some days because he liked me, but I was way wrong. I asked him out and he said no and then I asked him why he was leading me on with all of the eye contact and he said he was just being polite. You probably didn't need to know all the details but yeah that's what happened. You could ask him and he may like you, but just don't get your hopes up. Its probably best to either move on or get to know him better.
That's exactly what happened to me when I was in 7th grade this 8th grader was totally interested in me and then ignored me I also liked him but then I realized that he didn't want to act interested in me in front of her friends (because he was an eight grader and I was a seventh grader) well let me get to the point he wants you to act interested in him. its simply a male ego(HE NEEDS TO GROW UP) don't worry he likes you if you like him try getting a little more serious sometime between now and then
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 5 months ago
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