My ex girlfriend has a black belt in "bitch mind games". when we were dating she took glee in constantly testing me.
When I finally wised up and realized "looks aren't everything" I kicked that bitch to the curb. Her best friend that happens to like me said that she was worried about me. Why? Because my ex was at a party offering dudes money to jump me.
Obviously this chick is "a few clowns short of a circus"
Well, I ran into her with my date a few weeks later at a bar. My ex also happened to have a new date with her as well. I caught my ex eying me for the entire night. And when I would walk to the bathroom or to the door she would make sure to stand in my way and make out with that guy whenever I was near her.
I did not care AT ALL, and I think this really pinched her nerves. She than (while her new boyfriend was gone) approached me, my date, my friends, and a few randoms and exploded.
She proceeded to insult me with petty insults telling me how I f***ed her over, was not worth her time, that I had a small dick, ect.
I waited for her to finish yelling, I kept my cool, than I ripped her to pieces .
"I'm such a dick, why are you so mad that I dumped you? Shouldn't you be happy I kicked you to the curb? But seriously, if I'm such an idiot, why did you let me f*** you in the ass?"
She ran out of the bar crying followed her soft dick boyfriend chasing her.
The bar proceeded to erupt into laughter, people were buying me beers, panties were being thrown at me (not really but it would have been cool), I was the hero of the night.
The problem is I kind of feel bad for what I said. All I had to do was ignore her and the problem would have gone away. I'm usually not petty like this.
You seem like a caring sweet guy, but sometime you just got to do what you got to do. she sounds like a big bitch, men can only take so much and I don't blame ya for blowing up on her like that. And telling her sorry will just bring you back to this again. She was trying to make you Jealous it didn't work so she bitched at ya, she will get over it
You seem like a good guy, but in this case you shouldn't feel bad. I hate girls like her, they are mean and crazy and deserve whatever bad comes back to them. She had it coming and if you apologize it will only feed her ego. She probably wouldn't accept it like a normal person (b/c she's crazy lol) and would just later use it against you.
nope. Rippin' up bucks to get guys to jump you? F*ckin' shit. She was obviously trying to make your life miserable. She made a big drama, started random crap - so in all not worth sayin' sorry to. Is she feeling guilty about sayin' crap to you in front of random people? Don't think so. If she doesn't give a f*** then why should you? She deserved it anyways, so don't bother sayin' sorry to her. Not worth it. Plus, she'll get wrong hints from you and that's the last thing you need - a bitch drama all over again. Just let it go.
I can understand why you felt like you had to say those things. I know that you may have not meant all that you said, but to be honest, I don't think you should apologize to her. I'm not saying it's because she deserves or she had it coming, but given how she dealt with you at the bar, it just seems like the situation is volatile. I know you want to be the bigger person and apologize to her but sometimes it's better to leave things as is. the more you keep trying to mend things with her, the more opportunities you'll give her to mistreat you. it's obvious that she isn't over you. even if she says she is, underneath it all she's not and the fact that you're not trying to get her back bothers her a lot to the point where she'll actually think of ways to hurt you. I'm gonna try to get into the 'psycho bitch mode' here. if in her mind, she knows that you don't want her, she'll do anything to ruin you. she'll think of ways to get under your skin and make you appear like a bad person around your friends and also your dates/gf. this girl is out to tear you to pieces, if not physically, emotionally and mentally. if I were you, I'd try as much as I can to stay away from her. she's not just jealous that you are happy, she wants revenge. I don't know what your relationship was like but for some reason she wants to make you pay for dumping her. I know it sound absurd but that's what this girl is after.
Also, you cannot reconcile or apologize to someone who not only disrespects you in public but also herself. by her actions at the bar and the way she blasted at you, it's obvious that she has no regard for your feelings nor does she care if she embarrasses you or herself just so that she can hurt you in some way.
My advice, walk away while you can and don't look back. nothing happens by accident. the bar incident happened because you needed to see what kind of person she really is and also to further rectify your reasons for dumping her. you don't need people who want to harm you. so steer clear from her and just accept that even though you felt bad about how things played out, it's not your fault or hers. it's just that sometimes 2 people are better off being apart than together.
Anyway, I hope you've learned a bit from the situation and just take it with a grain of salt. one bad apple isn't worth sacrificing a whole barrel of good ones. you're not a bad guy. you just happened to be in a really bad situation. that's all. so chin up and don't let her get to you because that's exactly what she wants. life is what you make out of it.
Nope she had it coming. She was petty so you know what when you had to speak her language that's when she understood. Life is too short and there's too many people in the world to care about idiots. Unless you really care about her do not apologize. Sorry for harsh language but disrespectful people get disrespected. Congrats I just threw my grandmas panties at you lol.
You can be the bigger person and apologize but just keep in mind, this may make your ex think you still care and the charades may continue. It sounds like your ex has a lot of growing up to do and you just need to make sure you keep your cool and be classy. If you both continue shout and hurt each others feelings it just makes you both look bad, especially in front of potential new people in your life. Just try to keep your cool at all times, no matter how immature she can get. Just remember, by not stooping to her level, you are showing you are better than that and that is the ultimate revenge.
nah bro what's done is done besides anything she was "trying" to do apparently backfired like TEN FOLD! anyways Lost and Confused is kinda right if you apologize then that shows you being a little sincere towards her which will give her a wrong idea about you.
absolutely not. You don't have to apologize for anything. You can only take so much of someones bullshit before they realize they crossed the line. You don't owe her anything. If she was trying to get people to jump you, that's f***ed up man. So no. f*** that bitch dude. She had it coming!
She was looking to make you suffer. and everything has failed. she can see you are confident and happy and moved on and that is making her bitter. Now that she can't do anything to make you feel bad. And boost her own self esteem.
Just ignore her from now on you have told her where things are. Hopefully she will ignore you knowing that she can't hurt you anymore.
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