ok so I have this friend named mike where like basically best friend we talk everyday and we can talk about anything for hours. he's always complaining about how he wants to meet the right person. I like him and he never says he doesn't like me he just says that I'm a real good friend ans he wouldn't want to lose that. everyone says that we'd be perfect for each other. I mean there's always gonna be a girl that's prettier and fitter than me but he says he doesn't care about looks he wants a girl with personality. and like on myspace he always post these type of bulletins where girls fill out.ill fill out what I think and then he'd fill out what he thinks(posted below) (those are his answers 2 me from his bulletins) [[FILL IN THE BLANKS]]
I died: id be quite sad
I kissed you: kiss back if dating lol
I fell: catch you before hand lol
I lived next door to you: that would be fun times lol
I was drunk at a party: get you home lol
I showed up at your house unexpectedly: go chill or relax together
I stole something: make sure you don't get caught
I was sleepy: goto sleep lol
I told you I love you: it varies if dating or friends just like anyone lol
I told you I was lost: help you out
I cried: make you feel better
I was hospitalized: try my best to come see you
I moved away forever: that would suck
::WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT MY::
Personality: very fun lol
Eyes: could look at those all day lol
Hair: lvery shiny black lol
Family: also an interesting one lol
Smile: very nice;)
Temper: a funny one lol
Friends: I'm sure they are just as interesting as you lol ::WOULD YOU::
Keep a secret if I told you one?: yes I always do lol
Hold my hand?: if dating lol
Cook for me?: sure
Love me?: yeah friends way lol
Loan me some money?: sure
Talk on the phone for hours?: its possible lol
::HAVE YOU EVER::
Lied to make me feel better?: don't need to lol
Wanted to kiss me?: long time ago lol
Wanted to kill me?: no lol
Thought I was unbearably annoying?: nope
Hated me?:no
Wanted to tell me something but didn't?:nah if I have something to say id say it lol
Wondered about my sanity?:no lol
Wanted to do something to me?: not in a bad way lol
Wanted to slap me?: never lol
::More
When and how did we meet?: inline
Describe me in three words:crazy, fun, likable
What was your first impression of me?: crazy cool kind of girl
What do you think of me now?: its still the same lol
What reminds you of me?:idiot guys lol
When's the last time you saw me?: haven't seen you yet lol
What was the funnest thing we've done?: words no actions yet lol
Are you gonna repost this to see what I say about you?: already been done
ok, so what's your excuse for not making the first move? welcome to the 21 century, women should be making all the moves now, equal rights and all that! stop waiting and start acting!
It may be that he sees you as 'one of the guys' at the moment, which is why he can't see how right you two would be for each other. I'd say move on with your life i.e. don't get hung up on him, it sounds like he could come around if you give him time, but don't confuse and irritate yourself by waiting for ages and nothings happening when you could be enjoying yourself.
well he did say under the wanted to kiss me part that he did ages ago. and it sounds like ur really good friends and sooner or later you will be more, cause guys can't handle just being friends. and I guess he hasn't noticed that the girl he's been looking for is right in front of him, hang in there. he will notice how great you 2 get along and you will be dating in no time!