I have a guy friend who I really care for as a friend but lately things aren't going as good. Past few weeks we've been in contact through text messaging. Lately though he's been sending me mixed signals. He would tell me that he wanted to cuddle, but I asked him why would he want to cuddle when you don't have feelings for me. He said that he never said he didn't have feelings for me (basiclly said yes I have feelings). I was really confused because he didn't like me at the time when I told him I liked him a couple of months ago.I told him I liked him and he just said he would hurt me if we started dating, nice way of rejecting.
I talked to him again and we just started having a normal conversation. Then randomly he says 'no more friends'. I asked him 'why don't you want to be friends?' He first says 'I don't know' and then says 'you get mad to much.' I asked him 'what do I get mad over? 'He says 'I don't know goodbye.' I told him he was making a mistake because I know that we would have a great time together like going muddin or the movies lol (I know that wasn't necessary to say but I was upset). He then asks me 'what would you do if you saw me in the shower alone?' I asked him why I would be their in the first place? He says 'we can't be friends.' I waited almost two weeks and I finally called him but he still didn't want to talk to me. He just says I freak out to much and that he was to tired to talk. So since he doesn't want to tell me, can someone please explain what exactly happened or went down? will we be friends again? Should I try asking him again?
I understand his feeling been there and done that. At least this guy doesn't lead you on and he admitted his mistake that he was wronged to reject you in the first place. He trying to tell you that he wants to be more than friend now. He is getting frustrate because you're not getting his messaged. I think you should try to talk to him again and get everything out in open. If you don't you might lose him as a friend too and also you could gain a wonderful boyfriend too. Good luck!
I hate to say it chick but it sound like you get mad too easily at him,its like he's trying to joke around but you got a defense. If you really liked him you would of gone along with him playing around of course.Yes it sounds like you to will be friends again but don't get mad at him so much and try one more time and show him ur not mean.
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