Alright so I have been in situations where I will say something like I love you, or "it doesn't bother me" but the girls think that I'm hiding something or not telling the truth. I haven't lied about anything to my previous Girlfriend and there is no reason for them to doubt me. So why do they question my intentions?
I agree that it might just be from past experiences with guys who have lied. I would think most girls have either known or heard of a guy who just lies to his girl to get what he wants. We just try to protect ourselves. If you just give it time so that she sees she can trust you, then she'll probably come around.
When I have a boyfriend I sometimes think he lies just to get me in bed. But I don't know what to think anymore. BEcause so many girls heard guys telling their girlfriends I love you, I will never leave your side and I will always be there for you. But you gentlemen never keep that promise and leave us hanging with all of your lies. Which by the way hurts us inside but we don't show it. Not one girl in this world likes it when a guy lies to them. its just stupid and pathetic. So there's your answer.
Lol, yah well I've had the same thing with girls too though. I have had them leave me hanging and say allot of bull. But here is one better how do you show that you truly mean what you say then? I mean as far as love and such I haven't lied about that. - 5 months ago
well if you say it doesn't bother me I would say they think your hiding something as when a guy says to a girl who is clearly in a bad humour what's wrong with you they always go nothings wrong so that's one reason I assume they think that
as for saying I love you some girls just can't accept that a guy actually loves them and they think there is a hidden agenda
Maybe in a previous relationship of theirs those words HAVE been untruthful and its only human nature to think "if its happened once it will happen again". because that is after all how we humans learn, from our past experiences. Is this really bothering you? Have you tried asking your girlfriends the same question?
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