Have you ever been just physically attracted to someone, like you feel that spark when you're close to them, but you don't actually like them?
I get this way with this guy I know, like my body is attracted to him but my mind isn't at all. And it's confusing for me because he likes me and is always telling me loves me and wants to be with me, but I don't want to date him. We hardly get along and I know he's not good for me [he drinks, parties, does drugs, etc.]. But I also can't tell him I just want to be friends, because that physical attraction makes itself known when I'm around him.
Well he is just attractive. Now you see why beauty is never just enough. Yeah this has happened to me, and it actually happened recently. I could not turn away from her. She was the worst, but it was something holding me there.like.I was hypnotized.
I'm glad your able to fight it off. Be Strong Pretty Girl!
Welcome to my world, almost every single girl that I've been with has been just like that, they are attracted to me physically as in they ll mess around and have sex but no relationship. Happened to me recently as a matter of fact and man did that piss me off, cause I actually liked her. Leading people on isn't a good thing to do all you going to do is piss him off and even if you say I just want to be your friend, more than likely he will say ok but he's still going to try and get with you. When that happened with me I found out she had a boyfriend and so I just stopped talking to her all together but she still talks to me and as of right now I have no respect for that girl, I told her she better not talk to me or I would make her cry.
Yeah, I definitely don't want to lead him on. I haven't done anything with him and I've made it clear I'm not interested. And I won't suggest just being friends because that wouldn't work, I guess I'll try cutting contact with him. Thanks for replying :] - 2 months ago
Yea it happens. You have to keep your space if you can't control yourself when you are physically around him. Try to find someone else that can stimulate you mentally and emotionally as well as physically. When you're around him just try to focus on what about him turns you off. Be careful about telling him about your on going physical attraction. He may try to exploit it to keep you close. If a guy you liked admitted to being physically drawn to you wouldn't you use it to your advantage? Fight it if you can. Good luck.
I've been in a similar situation. DON'T GO THERE. you end up leading him on. and by his description sounds completely wrong for you. my opinion having you mind attracted to him is most important. i was in a situation where my mind was deeply attracted to someone but I was physically attracted to some one else, and I chose the physically attractive one because I was shallow. and it was horrible, I had nothing to talk to him about, he bored me and he was liar. he f***ed my friend on my birthday. I'm not saying that will happen to you, but I strongly advise against being with someone because of their looks. hope it helps
It happens to everyone and unfortunately we always seem to get physically attracted to the bad boy .even when we know that they would never make good boyfriend material.
I am impressed that at such a young age you know better than to get involved with this guy.
I suggest you keep your distance, you deserve more.and I know that you know that.
I would really like you young ladies to visualize yourself with a daughter and think is this they type of guy you would want your daughter sleeping with and or dating.
My daughter is 22 and she told me the other day that she like this guy but he is irresponsible, drink, and so on.she said it's to bad Ma because I like him, but I would never go out with him, he has nothing to offer me! I was very proud of her, and I know that what I taught her, which is to love herself and know that she should never settle for less.sunk in!
Best wishes to you and remember you have choices.lots of them.try to make them to your benefit.not your down fall.
What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
I think on my feet a lot and say what fits the time. A good way to start might be "Hey what's up? How are you doing?" I try and keep it on my side of the 50 yd line so I can attack and play offense a little more.
How do they typically respond?
Depends on the girl... Some think it's fine and others think I should be shot for it lmao but it just depends on the girl and what kind of personality they are into.
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