It is common knowledge that a girl will not forget the mis-steps, blunders and inconsiderate maneuvering of a guy - Case-in-point: He forget an anniversary or forgets to remember to pick up the 'girlie goods' you kindly ask for as he makes his way to grocery store. On the same note, do you all equally remember the nice 'little stuff" a guy does? Example: You're having a very bad day but out of nowhere you get a text message from him that tells you to cheer up or that he's thinking bout ya? Love to hear the first hand details! - Fire away
Update: All of your answers are definitely INSIGHTFUL. There is however a girl that I cannot read for anything (even if my life depended on it!) It is a possibility that she's playin hard to get so it does make me wonder how any of these actions impact her!
5 months ago
I remember little things like that. Sometimes I even save what seem like inconsequential notes and little bits of stuff he gives me or leaves around my place because it reminds me of him or of good times with him. It makes me feel like a pack rat, but when I go through all those old notes or funny toys and things he gave me, it really makes me happy. :)
Well it's easier to remember all the stuff you guys do wrong but it doesn't last long. The little stuff can really get a guy a long way. We can never get tired of hearing that you're thinking of us. I always remember the little stuff because to me, that's a big part of what holds a relationship together. People shouldn't rely on anniversaries to keep a relationship going.
I definitely remember all of the little things that a guy does for me, more so than the mistakes he makes. For example, on Valentines Day this year, my boyfriend didn't do anything for me. He didn't buy me flowers, take me out to dinner, or anything like that. I actually cooked for him and while I was a little disappointed, I could care less now. I do remember about a month ago he randomly bought me a bouquet of flowers on my last day of classes. I had just finished my first year of law school and he knew how stressful it was and that meant so much to me. So, I don't know how other girls are but I definitely remember the little sweet things more than mistakes that he makes.
Im the kind of girl who my boyfriend can forget something that to most girls thinks is important, but a simple "how was the barn? and riding your horse?" question makes all the difference in the world to me. Life is always about the little things, they mean the most, most of the time.
I'm not like most girls if you forget an anniversary so what were still together that's all I care about !
I have to say I've had one guy in particular who broke my heart at the end of us I won't go into it but I always remember the good things a fella has done never the bad things even if I don't like him no more I will always look to good times and good things what is the point looking at all the things he done wrong?
i wouldn't like someone to remember every time I messed up or done something wrong id want them to remember when I done nice things or whatever and that's what I do with fellas
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