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This question is the very reason why men are Leary of some woman. Don't play games. You either love the guy and you are willing to accept the good, bad and indifferent or you move on.
If you are not in a healthy relationship with this guy I suggest you move on.
You may want to do some soul searching, take inventory and figure out why you have feelings for a guy that isn't good for you.
Never regret a break-up because there is always something positive to be learn. It also makes us aware of what we can and cannot tolerate when it comes to behavior and we learn what we do and don't want in a relationship. So, when we meet the next guy, we can easily spot things that we like and dislike.
We are all fallible (imperfect) human beings and at one time or another we are all bound to disappoint someone. This goes for the men in our lives.
There is no mister perfect, prince charming but a lot of great frogs out there if you look hard enough.
I love when I read stories/comments about how someone has just met their soul-mate.!
You may meet someone who could become your soul-mate true but a soul-mate is created over time. Soul mates are the people who have been together for years who through the good and bad have managed to continue truly loving and supporting one another.
If your in love with this guy and it feels painful most of the time you need to realize that love should not feel painful fear, depression, anger and so forth, feel painful if your feeling any pain over this relationship it isn't a healthy love.
Love should feel like friendship on fire.
Good luck and I am sure there is someone out there that you can create a loving relationship with, just make sure the two of compliment one another don't complicate one another.
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