Why don't guys approach me

does your body language look closed and judgmental? if that is the case. guys will run away from you. you need to smile a lot and try to look like a positive and non judgmental person.

You are hanging around a lot of guys all the time, that's the problem. If I saw a woman that had lots of men around her all the time then I would stay away too because us men can sense when another man is about to make his move on a woman, especially one they are close to as in relationships even the friendly ones.

Try going out by yourself once in awhile or even hang out with just your female friends if you have any.

My advice with the friends thing is basically the same thing that you have already come to realize. A friend is forever but the second you say yes to be more than friends with them then there is that chance you will lose them in time. My friends are both male and female. They have dated each other and the same results have happened, they stop having to do anything with the other. When ever one of my female friends approach me, I lay it all out for them. We can hook up now but is it worth losing our friendship when you find out about the real me.

Do you live in a town where everyone knows everyone else?
Or, do you hang out in a lot of the same places on a weekly basis/ see a lot of the same people?
Do you hang out with these guy friends a lot and it could look like one of them may be pursuing you at the time and maybe other guys don't hit on you because of that?

Am I on the fairway here or playing a water hazard?