What do I need to do to be approachable?

UGH.why is it women sit and wait for men to drop out of the sky? how many MEN have you asked out? welcome to the 21 century! equal right and all!

I gave another girl a lot of tips in another post, you should check it out. It's a little long-winded but if you're willing to read it all then I'm sure something in there will work for you.

Here's the link

Oh, read the comments to my answer also, she had a lot of follow-up questions.

How's your body language going? How often do you smile? Give me a percentage and more info so I can work with you. Btw, I'm writing an article on "how to be more approachable." If you're interested, contact me within a few days and I'll send you it.

Well. This is what my guy friends at school say: "Stop acting like a dude!" lol. Don't try to out drink the guys, or burp louder than them, or say you can beat his "a**" when you actually can, that scares off most guys. Try not to be a piggy if you are eating things that will make a mess, if you're starving, drink something instead. Try wearing a perfume or something. Wear something that makes him say "she is really hott".

What are you really trying to ask? How to get guys to see you as Girlfriend material, rather than, Sister/Bestfriend material? Or how to get guys to talk (approach) you?