mostly for girls since I'm male. what do you girls think of a friend if he asks you if you like them? would it be weird for you girls? will you try not to make him feel bad and answer something like "i like you but just as a friend"? and would you say yes if you really liked the guy? would you prefer if the guy just beats around the bush to know if you like them?
I've been waiting for that moment to happen to me forever. I want one guy to like me as much as I have liked guys in my life. I want to know what it's like to break someone's heart. I want someone to cry over me. I want someone to like me and not know why and not be able to control it. If a guy told me that he liked me, I would be so happy. I don't think it'll ever happen to me though. If he knew me, I'd probably date him. I would kind of feel put on the spot, because if I did like a guy, I would probably tell him before he had the chance to ask me. I hope I didn't sound to selfish. But, I've only been rejected and I just want someone to feel what I've gone through. I don't know why.
This has happened so many times with me and my guy friends. I feel really uncomfortable when a good guy FRIEND asks me how I feel, or when he confesses how he feels about me. I have always been straight forward with them because I didn't want to lead them on. I would say, "Of course I like you, as a friend"hoping it would end there and he would drop it. But most of them don't drop it, and cont to ask. thatz when things get awkward, and then I end up saying, You're not my type. Its hard for us girls to be straight forward to a guy friend. Because we end up seeming "mean". I suggest you beat around the bush, or just pay attention to her actions to get your answers. Confronting her might ruin the friendship.
If High School relationships were Congress, even less would get done.
First of all, we all know that hearts are fickle, there may be a period of a week or if you are lucky, several weeks to act on a crush before one of the people moves on. Spend too much time beating around the bush, and you never get to the bush itself. if you get what I'm saying.
It pays to be bold. In a few months, you will be able to look back at any uncomfortable situation and laugh. Don't worry about the short term embarrassment of asking someone "if they like you." It isn't as though you are asking them to marry you.
Don't be afraid to skip the the protocol phase of "I like you and you like me so let's just hang out for a while." You know, you could always just ask them out. thus giving you your answer as to whether or not they like you, and perhaps leading to more than a week long fling.
The whole "liking" thing is overrated, don't be afraid to be bold.