I just got out of a relationship and I just thought I should look him up should I be worried that he is going to think I am psycho. I really regret it now but it is bothering me.
Update: Thanks for the answers I was a little forward and said that I thought he was still cute and wondered if we could be friends again. I was freaked out that he would post what I wrote and he has since changed his status to in a relationship.
5 months ago
Update: I just hope he was flattered and I told him I wondered what might have been. I hope I don't feel stupid about this for much longer.
5 months ago
OK, first of all, due to the power of myspace, you have no reason to be embarrassed. with myspace, sometimes things follow a slightly different set of rules than in the real world. He won't think you are psycho, if anything, because it is Myspace.
With this in mind, I do wonder what kind of result you were expecting. If you were hoping something to come from this, then perhaps it would be best to become a bit more aggressive than "myspaceing" this guy and try to see him outside the internet. If it was a spur of the moment thing, then feel free to just let it slide, and not follow it up at all.
Well it depends on if the dude might like you too. Honestly even if you guys knew each other face to face and you said that and the guy doesn't fell like that he is going to be like "wtf". But no, your not a psycho for saying what you did. Its really ok to like a person by there personality even if its a profile. But you know what you should really meet the guy and talk face to face before anything is said or done so ball is in your court.
I would say not to worry, crushes are normal and nothing to be embarrassed by. He would probably understand it if you said that you used to fancy him. but how can you be so sure that you still fancy him? People change.
I think it depends on what you said. If you just came right out and said, "I searched for you on myspace because I used to have a crush on you," that's kind of weird. If you were more like, "Wow, I haven't seen you in years. You know, I used to have a crush on you," it's way less forward.
I kind of did the same thing a while ago, and as embarrassed as I was, all he said was, "You should've told me before, it's too late now." There's no sense regretting something that can't be changed.
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