Have you ever done something 'cause you didn't want to hurt someone?

Yes their are things that I have done with and for past girl friends, that now we are broken up and look back on it I kick my self in the rear and ask myself why I did those thing. I would suppose that it may have been partly due to not wanting to hurt their feelings. However, I did these things more so because I wanted to find out what interested the girl and be able to spend time with her to help build our relationship.

Go out with someone I really didn't like. Who turned out to be gay (don't ask) and If you do please in a message. I regret staying with him for so long and while in the relationship making assumptions, and wasting my time. I felt bad after the break up because I was his only but since I led myself to believe that he was you know he actually when ahead and you know because of me and that's why I wrote a question about him some already know.