It's a long story, but bare with me. I would appreciate it.
Anyway, I had known this girl going back six months. When I first met her, she was really interested in me and due to circumstances beyond my control, she stopped having feelings for me.
So recently, I ran into this girl again and I got the suspicion from her behavior that she was into me again, but I don't know If it was her being friendly(we are friends) or her giving signals that she wanted me.
Here are the signs: One day, she was at the library getting tutored for an important Math class that she had to pass. I walk in, say hi to her and for some reason she asked me to sit next to her and not for any specific reason neither. It's not like she didn't feel comfortable around the tutor because there were other people around and she obviously didn't have a crush on the tutor, so why in the world would you want someone to sit with you right where you are being tutored for an important class unless you had a crush on the guy?
2nd Signal: When I sat next to her, the tutor was explaining something to her and she said, "Sorry, I was being distracted." Now, this is weird because when we first met and was into me, she would always tell me "I can't study with you around, because you district me" basically telling me that I district her because she liked me. And even a little after that(when we were friends) she would tell me, "Well, you used to district me, but now you don't."
Now, after that we went to get something to eat. The first that came out of her mouth was that her and husband were through. Now, they have been legally divorced for about a month, but I guess the baby daddy was still coming around to see the kids. Supposedly they got into a big fight and he wasn't going to be around her anymore. So If he wasn't going to be around there, she might have gotten more freedom and that might have triggered her wanting to be with a guy.
A little while after that, she asked me indirectly If I had a girl by saying, "So, I heard you had a girlfriend now" I told her no I didn't and then I asked her who told her this and she said "Just Kidding".
So the question I ask is whether this women was coming onto me, but doing it in a indirect way or was she just being overly friendly? This is irrelevant now because I kind of told her I wasn't interested in her anymore, but I just want to make sure If my feelings were correct about this whole thing.
It sounds like she is feeling you out, indirectly. She was definitely flirting with you when she was with the tutor. She sounds confused, probably not sure what to do, and just getting out of the relationship she was in, she may not want anything serious for awhile, plus she has kids so.she has a lot on her plate. Her asking you about a girlfriend is definitely a sign that she likes you and wanted to know if you were available anymore, maybe things settled down for her and she has some time now.who knows. Also, why did you tell her you weren't interested anymore? and what were your feelings ? I must have missed something ;)
p.s. from what you wrote it does not sound like she was playing games with you, it sounds more like she is confused, or just has a lot to deal with, especially with the baby daddy, but it also does not sound like she wants anything serious either, at least for awhile. Or maybe it just makes her feel good knowing that someone likes her, If I were you I would wait to see if she contacts you, and go from there! Good Luck!
I do like her. The problem was that at the time we were talking, she was very religious, thus was not allowed at the time to have a relationship, whether a serious one or not. Now, that's not the case. But I didn't know this, and since I didn't know this, I kind of turned her down cause I felt like she just wanted attention from me, nothing more. Now I regret because I felt she wanted to be in a relationship. - 2 months ago
Yes, she likes you. She was being coy when she asked made the comment about the girlfriend. She was asking you indirectly if you were single. Sounds like she couldn't have pursued the relationship before and now she can. She is feeling you out. I think you still like her for the simple fact that in the library, you sat next to her and spent time with her when she asked you too, even though you weren't the main focus.
And, you went from the library to go and get something to eat with her. More time spent with this girl when you could have easily said you were busy.
Talk with her and see where her head is. Maybe you guys can make a go of it after all.
Thanks for the answer. It's actually a little too late since I kind of turned her down because I was ready to move on. I just wanted to be sure what her intentions were that day and If they were what I thought they were. - 2 months ago
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My ideal first date would be a walk along the beach in California. I would wear a sexy bikini (like in my pic). If I liked you, the date would end, well I don't have to say (let's just say you'd be pleasured in every way possible. If I wasn't fond of you, I would give you a simple peck on the cheek.
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