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Why is he keeping the door open?

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rebell1975 (Age:30 to 35)     When: 5 months ago
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So I told this guy I had been dating that after we talked I thought about it and it seems like we want different things, and it's not gonna work out, I wished him well, and told him he should have no problem finding someone else, and we could still be friends, he seemed taken back by this, not what he was expecting, anyways he ends the conversation with, "well I'll still call you to say Hi" I said o.k., but what I really wanted to say was, why? what for? I mean it's over, and we were never really friends to begin with. Why would he say that? and the reason it would not work out is because he referred to what we were doing as "hooking up" and I thought we were dating, and the strange thing is, when I did go out with this guy, we never made it past kissing. Anyways I was insulted, I said to him, I'm not a hook up never been a hook up and don't want to be one, a hook up to me is someone who is cheap and easy. So I told him he should have no problem finding someone to hook up with him. wished him well etc why would he still want to call me? or was he just trying to end things on a friendly note? or is he keeping the door open for some reason, I have tried to end this before, but he will still call, why won't he just leave me alone? Is he confused? I think he feels like a jerk at the moment, for basically calling me cheap and easy. any thoughts out there?

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Xo-Babe-Xo93 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 5 months ago
I think he likes you because I mean why else would he still want to call you or want to say hi to you know what mean.Thats messed up his should just leave you alone tell him to get lost and you tell him you don't wanna talk anymore.sounds like he was using.you guys like that are no good.
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